I really like this guy Mike. But now one of my best friends Amy,is going out with him. For the last 2 months I've been saying i havent though because my friends would make fun of me, because i havent known him for that long. Yet Amy has known him for two years. Its true that when he asked her out she said yes because she didnt know i liked him, but im still jeaouls and mad. Should i say anything to her? Should i tell her i dont like it? do you think she would break up with him? what would you do?
IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Saturday February 19 2005, 3:20 am: Well, this is one of those questions we cant answer and ill tell you why. Your friend might be difforent than me, she might have difforent belifes. If you really want my opinian ill give it to you, but it might not help. You have to talk to your friend about it first, clear your conciounce (sp) Tell her you like him, dont tell her you dont like how they are going out, they love eachother, and plus she wasnt there to kno you likes him. No i dont think she would break up with them and if you were a good friend you wouldnt get inbetween their relationship.
♥ Michelle [ IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug's advice column | Ask IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug A Question ]
babeoriental answered Friday February 18 2005, 11:49 pm: girl take a chill pill. don't say anything to her and you have no right not to like them going out. you never told her you liked him number one and number two she's happy and don't try to do anything to break her happiness even though that didnt make sense but still i can relate somewhat to how to feel but you gotta just get over it she knew him longer. [ babeoriental's advice column | Ask babeoriental A Question ]
Anarchilist answered Friday February 18 2005, 11:47 pm: Christ. She's your friend, isn't she. Let her have her boyfriend. When they break up then go after him. Its that simple. You cant always get what you want. [ Anarchilist's advice column | Ask Anarchilist A Question ]
xsunshinexsmilesx answered Friday February 18 2005, 11:40 pm: Personally, I'd probably just very gently tell her how I felt about him, at least so she understood what I was going through.
The right thing to do is probably just to leave it though. If Mike is happy with Amy, and Amy is happy with Mike, then good for them! Life, unfortunately, isn't a fairytale all the time...and Mike's not the only wonderful guy out there. Besides, nobody says you can't still be friends with them both! :-) [ xsunshinexsmilesx's advice column | Ask xsunshinexsmilesx A Question ]
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