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Question Posted Friday February 18 2005, 9:20 pm

ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..

im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals

he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk

i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?

(should i keep my love to myself or no? lol)

1- should i tell her
2- how should i give signals without making it obvious
3- how do i tell them both without actually saying it in words...
4- how should i flirt with him..i mean this is gonna b the 3rd time seeing him and all...what should i do..we hug every so often...heh


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jeanine278972 answered Saturday February 19 2005, 11:05 am:
1. Tell her.. just tell her you need to talk to her.. If shes your BFF.. then you should have no problem..She might be a little jealous or get a lil mad at you.. but she wont hate you or anything
2. Just keep talkin to him.. and hangin out with him as much as possible. Flirt with him a little bit. Give him a hug before you leave from hangin with him. Or maybe a slight kiss on the cheek.
3. There really isn't much of a way without words. SORRY
4. Hugs.. a slight kiss on the cheek.. stuff like that.. Or holding hands/linking arms. Stuff like that will let him know your interested.

Just remember though.. guys will come and go.. but your friends will always be there. So if your friend tells you she dont want you datin him cuz it would hurt her.. respect her. After all.. she is the reason you met him.

GOOD LUCK

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xoPandaBabyxo answered Saturday February 19 2005, 11:05 am:
This is a tough one, but I think I can answer your question. First of all, I dont think that you should keep it to yourself because it would be uber hard, am I right? Course I am (lol, juss messin wif yuh). Anyway, I think you should just tell them honestly. I mean, if she really IS your BFF, then she'll understand and accept that. I mean, you cant control it if you like someone, right? Its just one of those "true friends" test that fate gives you. Just tell him and maybe he likes you too ;] I hope I helped. If you need anything, just ask.

xOo Nikki xO

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sarah0308 answered Friday February 18 2005, 11:23 pm:
1) yes, i think, in a way, that you should tell her. if ya'll are BFF then you should get your feelings out on the table.
2) just flirt a little but not a lot..
3) i think that you should tell your BFF first, well just hint to her that you sorta like him too, and then tell him. do the same with him.
4) just act natural..flirting comes natural..
im sorry if i didnt help much! i am really tired and i hope i helped!
~*Sarah*~

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shake answered Friday February 18 2005, 11:03 pm:
Tell her, flirt with him. By doing that you wont need questions 2 or 3.

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Teza answered Friday February 18 2005, 10:13 pm:
l0l to me it seems like he has a lil crush on you! there is no right way to flirt but do whatever you`ve been doing! i think he might no that you have a lil crush on him to but i think that you should tell your friend because its not good to hide it from her its better to tell her now then for out herself later! but wen you see him flirt with him!! l0l im sure you know how to do that it comes natrually hehe!! good luck ! x0

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