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okay the other night my friend (who moved to the total other end of the u.s like a year ago) well her ex came to my bedroom window and opened it, climbed in, woke me up and was liek i like you alot and i was like half asleep and he all of a sudden took my clothes off and well basically raped me and then when he was done he jumped out my window and i havent seen him since..what should i do..he like raped me and took my virginity(hes 17 and im only 15)..idk what to do..now i cant save my virginity for like the right person or nehting...i need some help quikly..
no matter ur answers ill rate 5's cuz i need the help!! (link)
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wow im really sorry. well i think you should tell your parents, one of my friends had this happen and when they went to tell their parents, they didnt believe them because it was such a long time ago and their parents think they just wanted attention. you should deffinitly talk to someone about it. whoever you're most comfterble with. he took your verginity and you didnt want him to, you didnt do anything wrong so dont think that, he did. i hope it all works out. again, sorry.
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I'm taking the advice of those who answered my last question; I went through alot of stress dealing with problems wth one guy and a relationship that was almost official but flopped over and blew up in my face. Besides I'd like to have a boy friend.
Thing is there aren't lots of choices. I don't like asking guys straight up front to be with me, I'd rather pull them on gradually. Is this the right way to do it? And is it better to seek someone in your own social group, people you all ready know? I don't like any one romantically right now, but what kind of traits make a guy dateable, and how can you tell he might be made to like you over time? (link)
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well everyone's different. one guy might be perfect for your friend but not for you. and you can date anyone you want to. dont let people tell you otherwise. its your choice not theirs. and people look for guys in different ways. do what you think is right. this might be confusing, but friends will help you out too. take me for example, my friend tryed to protect me from this one guy im dating. and i understand that she was protecting me, but my feeling for him were much stronger. so im still with him and we've been goin out for 1 1/2 yrs. he has hurt me a few times, but i love him too much to leave him. friends will be there to protect you. good luck and i hope i helped any.
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Alright, I moved to this town 3 years ago.. and before i moved her. My bestfriend had just broken up with her bf [Ian] of 4 years, and the next day he started going out with her cousin for 2. I secretly liked him but kept in a secret because i didnt wanna ruin there relationship, but the summer before 9th grade they broke up. I KNEW THIS WAS MY CHANCE. So we started talking alot more, and i slept over his house.. like twice. & we started going to party's together, and basketball games. We were in love & everything was great, untill about 6 months had gone by and i felt like we were never going to go out. so i started talking to a new boy, we went out for like a month and broke up because he told everyone i was just a booty call. But now me and Ian are talking again, and hes all ive been thinking of and im just scared to get back into the relationship with him, But i cant stay away from him at the same time. I dont know if i should give up... Or try one more time
Thank you.
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i'd say dont give up. you never know what could happen. and dont wait for him to ask you out, you ask him out.guys dont always want to be the one to make the move. hope i helped any. good luck.
~Kare
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My ex-boyfriend and I both told each other we loved each other. He doesn't want to get back together because he has issues that doesn't seem to go away. It's along the same reasons we broke up. Should I wait until he gets over them or just get over him? I really love him, and he seems to care about me. (link)
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well you could try to help him through his issues and show him how much you care about him. but when you love someone, its hard to get over. do what you think is right.
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ok theres a birthday party tonight.. this one kid (john) likes me alot.. hes nice and really cute but he can be obnoxious and makes up stuff alot.. theres this other kid(tom) who i like as a good friend.. and he doesnt like john and him finding out that i hooked up with john will make him mad.. i might like tom more than a friend.. and john wants to do something tonight with me (make out).. ive never kissed a guy before.. and i dont know which one i want to kiss.. and i dont know how to kiss! please help! (link)
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i've worried about kissing too. like my friend told me"it just comes to you" i never believed him and worried about it anyway. it really does just come to you. just dont worry about it and try not to act nervous so he cant tell that you are. good luck and dont worry.
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what does it mean to be "pushy"? (link)
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it means to tell people what to do or force them to do something.
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what are the major symptoms, and is there any physical appearance with a yeist infection? (link)
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well i dont know much about it, sorry. but i do know that itching is one of the major symptoms. im sure there are some website you could to go that will have loads of information that will help you out. sorry i couldnt really help.
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I am 17/f 220lb and like 6 foot tall, I was wondering if you think it will be posiable to lose like 50lb by august if i work out (go 2 curves) and eat right and diet? cause when i went to curves before I lost 20 lb in a month. or can you give me any good diets or things to do? thanks alot i will rate you (link)
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well, i lost weight by drinking more water. it made me full faster and i wouldnt eat so much. sorry i cant really help. but i hope everything works out for you.
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I came to a new school this year and i hav a couple new friends and i eally miss my old friends and hardly ever hear from some of them. I kind of feel like my new friends are replacing my old ones but i know they're not and they are great friends. Every time we go to the CVS in my old neighborhood i think it would be the coolest thing if i saw them. Someone please help me. (link)
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well you're not replacing them. its just that you dont get to see them so much and its totally normal for this to happen. especially when you move into a new school. you obviously care about both sets. so you're not replacing them, its just you want to be with both. sorry i couldnt help more. but if you ever need to talk im here.
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i usually don't fall for guys different race than I am but there is this guy and he's mexican and im just crazy about him its the biggest crush i ever had!!! i wrote him a note saying that i think he's hott but he never wrote back... the note was his idea too... hes kinda flirty but he shows no interest in any gurls plus i have a feeling that this other gurl likes him and shes mexican so im afraid hell like her more ayayay!!!! wat do i do?? and i think hes gettin his schedual changed and we have 3 classes together if he gets it changed ill just die...!!!! im a f 15 (link)
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well, i dont think it matters what race a person is. if you like him, then you like him. you cant help who you like. and maybe if he changes his schedule he might have more classes with you, then again maybe not. you never know. if it is meant to happen it will, but everything happens for a reason. hope i helped any.
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please suggest good rock groups/bands.. punk is ok too.. thats.. aren't that well known.. thx everybody (link)
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from autum to ashes are pretty good. so was taking back sunday but now EVERYONE knows about them.
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Hi, last year I read a short story in our 8th grade literature textbook called "Charles". I really loved the ending and the story itself, and I was wondering if anyone that has read it, knows the author of it. All I remember is that she was female, and she has written a lot of books. I've been searching for hours, and can't seem to find anything. Please help! (link)
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i think i might know what book you're talking about. cuz i read a story in our 8th gread textbook n all that. i dont know if its the same story but theres a book called flowers for algernon. i dont know if its the right one or not so...hope i helped.
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I'm a 13 (almost14) female....... At school theres like half black people, and the other half is white. I'm white, but all these black people tell me I have a black girls booty, and they tell me I have a big head (not like stuck up, but like literaly big"! sometimes the guys act like they like me, but then again they make fun of me. Do they really like me, or are they picking on me seriously???????
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well, either way, dont let them get to you. my boyfriend teases me about that all the time. just always remember:
people who mind, dont matter and people who matter, dont mind
hope i helped.
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Ok, so whenever my best friend has another friend over she won't talk to me (I mean like online). Your probably thinking "ummm, it's rude to talk to you while a friend is there." But she talks to other people! I know this because if I IM her on the bottom it will say (their screenname) is typing. Then she just stops typing when she realizes it's from me and immedatly puts up her away message. Then someone will ask me if I know why she went away without saying anything. My question is how should I confront her? Do you think she is hiding something from me? Thank you. (link)
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im not really sure if shes hiding something from you. if you wanted to, you could make a new sn and im her on that and see if she stops talking to you. or you could just ask her about it. she is your best friend right? though it does seem a little odd. i think you should ask her. hope i helped.
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ok my bf and i hav been going out for out for 8 days and we went to the movies he didnt act like he was going to break up with me but he has not called me today and he calls me everyday so what do i do i have tried calling him and he didnt anwser on either his cell or home phone and i dont want to seem like an obesive gf so i dont want to call again what do i do and how do you think i should wait b4 calling again plz help i rate!!!! (link)
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i wouldnt worry about it. maybe he suddenly had to go be with family or something. try calling him again tomorrow. hope i helped
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anybody knows best free place get journal? (link)
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www.greatestjournal.com
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I just moved to a new school and I'm finding it really hard to make some friends (i'm in 9th). and it just gets really lonley on the weekends because I don't like do anything. And my friends from my old school, I don't talk to them anymore. I don't know if there is any advice you can give me (besides that whole join a sport because I am doing a sport in the spring) and join a club because I am already in some and they arent very helpful with meeting people. Any advice?? (link)
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why dont you start having conversations with people. just talk to them in the middle of class and say "hi" sorry i couldnt help more...
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My realy good friend went out with this boy but he broke up with her in three days. I've liked him since we were introduced (by my friend). My boyfriend of two months just broke up with me and the first person i thought about was my friends ex. im not looking for a rebound guy. i asked my friend and she says its ok and shes happy for me. Her ex already nos i like him. am i low? what else can i do? (link)
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i dont think you are, you cant help who you like. you're not supposed to. you would be if your friend wasnt ok with it and you went out with him anyway, but you're not doing that. so i dont see you as low. hope i helped.
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My mom is very overprotective & strict. I'm 15 years old and can barely even go out with friends. She worries about me because I do have "bad" friends who are into drugs, alcohol, trouble, etc. I think she should trust me more because I have never done any of these things and I don't give into peer pressure. She doesn't even allow me to get into a car with anyone. She has some points in her argument, but I know how to stay safe and what not to do. I'm a teenager and I want to have fun right now. How do I explain this to her and get her to allow me to do more things? She's just mostly worried that I'll get hurt or something bad will happen to me. (link)
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ok well, let her meet some of your friends who arent "bad". let her know that you'll be safe and wont do anything stupid. well just a though. hope i could help any.
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Can birth control give you really really bad mood swings? I started on Ortho tricyclen about three months ago (I'm 19), and recently I've been having really bad mood swings. Could birth control be causing that? Or could it just be outside stress? (which I do have a lot of right now) Any help will be appreciated...I'll rate a 5! (link)
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i've been on it for a while and thats never happened to me. i think its the stress. and im on the same exact type of pill. stress does cause a lot of problems. the pill might contribute a little, but i dont think thats the reason. hope i could help.
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