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If it is you and your partners first time having sex ever, is it even possible for one of you to get an std from the partner? (link)
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yes, because a parent could of had an std and it could of been given to the partner before they were born.
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ok....this is hard to talk about but im going to try to get it out best i can.im in college, and i really like this guy( ill call him rob) for a while. we never hooked up or anything, but talked dont the phone here and there.sometimes he use to joke around about things he wanted to do with me sexually,but i always just thought he was kidding because we were kinda friends.so this one day, i was really drunk and he called me to come over to his apartment. i was so excite because i really like him and he alwasy told me what a great girl i was and how he liked me alot. i thought one day he was really gunna get serious with me. Anyway, i went there and he told me he wanted me to listen to some song in his room, i went in and when i did his roomate was in ther and i kind aheard him tell him to leave, then he left rob locked the door. i started to get nervous because i wasnt really expeting to hook up with im or have sex, but i just went with it because i was so drunk. we end up starting to hook up and then it just got bad. we started to have sex, which was ok with me because i thought he really like me and it was going to be so great.it ended up be the most hurtful thing i have ever gone through, pyshcially and emotionally. he was having sex with me really rough, and it hurt really bad, i was very drunk but i managed to say your hurting me, so he would stop, but then he would just do the same thing again. he was throwing me around the bed like a rag doll, and i was crying inside.i said stop it hurts, but he took that as "stop for a sec then start again" this went on for a good 20 mintues till i fianlly made up some excuse to leave.when i left i cried the entire way home. i got home and i had bruises bewtween my legs already.i was so hurt because i though he like me and he treated me so terribly....but what i always wanted to know was...is that considered rape or something close to it???sorry so long, i just pushed it out of my mind for song long becauseit really screwed me up in the head to the point i cant trust guys anymore and talk of sex with a guy totally scares me...advice please what do you think??im i blowing this out of poportion? because i didnt exactly say or scream stop like i was being raped....i dunno please advice (link)
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that was definately rape. if he did not stop when you asked him to it was rape it was not your fault that this guy was a jerk you should tell someone about it or he could end up doing it again. i hope i helped you.
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well i have never really done IT but im afraid too
i heard stuff like you bleed
it hurts
etc.
people think im lesbian because im to afraid to get sexual
and guys scare because there whores
at least around here
i mean once iget a boyfreind and trust him
sure
but im really scared
because when i do get one
im afraid because i have never really done any hardcore sexual things
WHAT DO I DO
this is really gross
but i have no one to turn for advice
its to embarrassing to ask someone in person (link)
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you do not have to do anything you don't want to do because sex is a very serious thing.
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Well I'm going swimming tomorrow. Today I had my period for the first time and I tried a tampon. It was really hard to get out. I tried pulling it out in different directions and I tried like half a box of tampons and I'm pretty sure it's in correctly. The string almost broke when i tried to pull it out it hurts. My parents wont let me get in the water without a tampon and i cant sneak in without one because they check to make sure im not lying. Oh and ive tried the lowest absorbensy and lubricant stuff still doesnt help. Please help! (link)
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make sure you are using the right size because you could be using one that is to big, beccause if you had your period for the first time you should use juniors.
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Hello. I was hoping someone could help me find some really good websites where I'd be able to find nice nose rings. I don't just want any kind at all. I'm looking for a really nice 14 k. White Gold nose ring, that is 18 gauge. I would like it to have a diamond that is 2mm. in size on it. Everytime I've ordered a nose ring the diamond has always been 1.5 mm. which is the standard size, but for me I think that's too small. I want people to be able to see my nose ring a little bit atleast. The one I have in now is the one that has been in ever since I got it pierced, and the size is 2mm. However, it's not White Gold. If anyone can, please find me some good sites. If anyone has a really nice nose ring they've gotten, feel free to let me know about it and where you got it from. I've already looked at tons of websites, and I'm having a hard time finding nice White Gold ones that have a 2mm. size diamond. It also has to be 18 gauge, and if possible I don't want it to cost more than 50 dollars. If it's a little more that's fine because I have the money. I appreciate any help I can get. I forgot to say also that I want a NOSE SCREW. That's the type of nose ring I have in right now. I won't use any other kind of nose ring. Just nose screws. I'm so sorry this question is so long! Thank you so very much!!!! (link)
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try bodycandy.com or amazon.com they have very nice body jewlery.
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What are some brands of mascara that make eyelashes REALLY long? I have an okay mascara by Clinique, but it gets kind of gloppy. So could you write if you have any preferable types that fit the description? (link)
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curly girl by avon really works well but i don't have the price because it was a gift from my mom, or you could try blotting the massara before you put it on to make it less gloppy.
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does anyone know where to get camis that are kinda long that covers your whole stomach? and i also want the very cheap ones.. like i dont want a cami for 10$ .. thanks (link)
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try costco or the girls section of JCpenney's which is where i get my camis and they are cheap.
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what eyeliner color brings out dark brown eyes? does blue eyeliner do that? (link)
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i use blue eyeliner and it works well but sometimes i use white or silver eyeliner but that might not work out well.
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My dad doesn't let me straighten my hair. Like there's nothing in this world that will let him let me straighten it, but I straighten my hair! I'm going to camp soon so I safely snuck it into my bag. One problem how do I straighten it at home? I have to pack my suitcase a week early and mail it in which has my straightner. I can't borrow my friends straightner because they don't straighten their hair. I'm going on a plane... I can't bring it as carry on because if they inspect my bag my dad will see it and kill me!! I'm not checking any bags, so what do I do??
I'll rate 5s (link)
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get up earlier than your dad and put your hair in a loose pony tail then when you leave the house take it out. put your straightener at the bottom of the bag and if they have to inspect your bag ask your dad if he can get you some food or a drink or tell him to just save you a seat so he won't see it.
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There is a guy I really like (who also has the slight potential of liking me back). He's very funny and actually very polite and nice. However, he doesn't seem to be a very devout Christian, because he cusses. Even though I cuss sometimes, I feel like he may have a bad influence on me in that way, and I know from Bible study that I'm supposed to surround myself with people who share my beliefs and are going to be a good influence. But there seems to be something wrong with that, because if I cuss now and then, I may be a kind of bad influence on others too, and they wouldn't want to be around ME either. I guess what I'm trying to ask is...would it be okay to continue to flirt with this guy and (if it works out right) date him? Sorry, this was kind of long and confusing... btw, I'm almost 16, if that helps any. (link)
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religion should not matter in relationships.
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I`ve been very interested in wicca for a long time. I was wondering if anyone here new more about wicca or sites I could figure out more about wicca. I am very interested in becoming wiccan (link)
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i've been wicca for two years and i found out most of what i know at wikipedia.com, a online encyclopedia. if you go to that website and type in "wicca" it will tell you about the rede which is very important.
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hi please help me
not to discriminate anyones beliefs but howcome like when like i find people who don't believe in God i feel like...a hypocrite cause like i'm not a true practicing catholic but i still pray everyday...is this normal i wish this could stop because i noe everyone is different and has different beliefs please help! (link)
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everyone is a hypocrite it is practically human nature so don't stress about it.
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I am part psychic sometimes I kno what is going to happen but it is usualy only about little things not like huge world wide things.
first off I would like to kno how I can strangthen my skills.
2nd off. Sometimes when I am going to bed I have hundreds of thoughts going threw my mind. It is like different people are talking all at once. The thoughts arent things I would kno of or have ever thought about. Do you think that I am having thoughts from other people or spirits? I doubt it but im not sure. (link)
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meditation, some spells could help also.
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i'm wicca and i'm gonna have a baby and well i was wondering if it's wrong if i make my baby learn and follow through with the wicca relligon i really want her/him to belive in what i belive in and i think of it as like the christans and how they make them belive in the whole jesus christ bible stuff no offence to any people who belive in that relligon so is it wrong? plez help (link)
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as your baby gets older don't make it be wicca but let it decide what it wants.
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First off i'll give 5's for anyone even considering to read my dream :]
KSO I had a dream about this guy I like.
The guy that i'm i like with came over to my house and helped me babysit my siblings. But i've never even talked to him before and even at my house we still didn't talk. But we kept on looking at each other and smiling and just staring at each others eyes. Then we went to the living room and sat next to each other and watched the tv. Then I started playing the piano and he was watching me and I told him "im not very good at this so don't be surprised when it's bad." and he said "That's ok with me." But before i could even start to play my brother interupts me. Then before i start to play again my sister interupts me. When this is happening he starts laughing and smiling and so do I. Then after them 2 leave before i start to play again, he says to me "Well I better get going now..." He gets up and walks over to me and then gives me a big hug and whispers in my ear "I love you.. Maybe we should hang out more often and see where this is going because i dont want to stay just best friends with you." But we're not even best friends. So I say back, with tears in my eyes, "I love you too and dido." Then he gets up and starts walking to the door and i say "don't say that we're not gonna be just friends we're going to be boyfriend and girlfriend." and he just smiles and says alright and walks on out.
After that i felt verrry happy and in love, then extremely nervous and then i felt a strange tranquility wash over me.
I had a heart drawn on my hand and i just looked at it and smile and then my alarm went off and my dream ended.
What could all this mean? Please help!! 16female if that helps any.. (link)
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it could mean that he likes you or it could just be a dream,if you want to read up on it try, "A Witch,s Book of Dreams" by Karri Allrich.
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I need to know some web adresses I can go to to get some pagan rituals and spells from. I'm studying neopaganism (specifically wicca), and I want to know of some educational sites that also provide experiments and spellwork I can try. Thanks in advance!
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white witch spells.com is a reliable website
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Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my cousin and I get along really well,but my cousin Tiffany is only 13 and is only 100 pounds and she is 5 foot and 1inches tall and complains about being fat all the time and now she's going on a diet to try to lose 10 pounds is this anorexia Iam getting really worried about her.I try to tell her she isn't fat,but she dosn't belive me what should I do?please help. (link)
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she could be saying that just to get attention but if she starts eating less than say something to adult.
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I`m 15/f and im inlove with a 19 year old. It`s not that much of a difference but some people think it is. My parents wont let me see him because of his criminal record / past with drugs. What should I do? How can i find ways to be able to see him?
Ive never felt so special in my life and im so happy when im with him. sometimes when im in the car with my parents I start crying cause they dont understand how much i love him and they dont care.
how can i sneak around and find ways to see him please help me! (link)
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you should not sneak around because if your parents found out they would not like you being with him even more.
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i went out wid this guy for 6 months n we split up 3 months ago as he was not ready for commitment and i still have feeling for him we got back intouch the other day n i ended up back in bed with him i have been told by his mates that he realy missed me but when i asked him he did not say anything i want to get back with him but i dont no what i should do please give me some advice i will rate. (link)
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you should notbe to clingy, but you should tell him how you feel.
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I'm a really fast girl and I beat all the boys so nobody really admires me except for my speed I need help on how to look like ( i dress sporty)so i need all the advice that I cAN GET!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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go shopping with friends or look in magazines for styles you like.
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