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Hey..Im Amber yah im 14 years old and i live in maine...i love to answer questions and i do my best to help anyone out. i guess i give pretty good advice cause most of the time it works for most of my friends..but im not always right...im really big into sports i LOVE to play all kinds of sports. i play lacrosse and play other ones with my friends and cousins. Im always out busy doing stuff so i hope i can help you with whatever you need. cause i been threw some pretty thuff things to..so i kinda know how u feel.

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a am having a curved penius scince i was 12 years and now ma age is 20 years,,still dont know what to do.can u help??..

Okay i am not a boy or anything so i can try to help......My things is to go to a doctor becasue i have not heard of this before so go see a doctor and good luck!

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does anyone know what kind of job an 11 year old could get(this is for my sister)

My best idea is to deliver the papers....my friend dose it and she gets alot of money!
god luck

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ok my ex-best friend keeps non-stop talking behind my back and saying how bitchy i am ( even though i'm not) and she keeps telling this guy i like bad things about me, some are true and some aren't and she is getting on my nerves and i just don't know what to do because she was my best friend until christmas break ( which was when i found out when she told all this crap about me) i can't ignore her because she's in my group of friends... what should i do??? by the way we're both 14 and female...

Okay well one thing is that what you could do i say "What are you doing talking about all this crap about me we are best firneds and you turned into a non best friend." Or just say....You are acting like a total jerk and i dont want to be friends wirth you anymore. I have heard all the crap you are saying behind my bak and i just dont think you are a good friend. and if she is like i dont know what you are talkng about just be brave and be like I know you know what i am takling about... well good luck.

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Well here is the thing see im 14 m and i have never had a girlfriend is that weird or wrong or anything please help.

Its not weird or wroung i guess but its your feelings. Some people never had a g/f or a b/f so its not you. its other people 2. maybe ur not into it yet!

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I am alwas geting rashes.how do I stop them?

I dont really think you can stop them it could be a allergic reaction. Maybe you could put cream on it sometimes otherwise that you should go to a doctor if you get them all the time.

Hope we helped...
good luck
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today i just found out that the guy i really like and i asked out... well i found out why he said no. my friend told me his mom said he wasnt allowed to have a g/f, and this really sux because i like him so much. is there anything that i can do? or do i have to wait...

Just go up to him and be like i know you said no to me and i really like you but since we cant date can we be friends?

hope we helped good luck,
.::sunny411::..

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My like bff asked me out and I cant picture him as my bf but i dont want to say no but i dont want to say yes so wat do i say?????

If he is your bff then he could understand you saying that you dont want to hurt ur relonshpe with him. And if he is ur friend truth counts.

hope we helped good luck,
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Today my dog fell down the stairs, and she can't really walk. She can, but she falls over and stuff. She keeps throwing up flem and foam. We're taking her to the vet in a few hours. I was wondering, they won't have to put her to sleep right? Like, the worst they could do is give her fake legs?? Thanks =(

Hey look i am sorry. but my dog died this week and if ur dog feel from a really high place he can probley get put to sleep i am sorry. or either that they could jkeep her in the vet. Or she could be fine. please let me know how things went out please i want to know how she made out. good luck sorry

>>sunny411

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my dog bites alot, we can not stop him. sometimes he is good somtimes he is bad. how do i cure his problem?

well. i have a book about puppies and it said not to say NO because they dont understand. usually u should grawl at them like how other dogs commuicate. so like if another dog was doing something to a different do and it did not like it he/she would understand not to do it! You can grab a toy and get there mind off that. And also there are this spray stuff sour apple and you spray it in there mouth and say NO NO BITE! and they dont like that spray stuff and they could stop. good luck
hope we helped
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Ok well im going to paint my room a light green and im wondering if i should get a different shade of green for my bedspread and stuff or should i get a light orange one? please help me out! Thanx!! :o)

What you CAN do is that i like. to have my walls green and then maybe have purple or pink or purple and pink as your bed sped. have something colorfull. you could have like purple green and pink in ur bed sped and have like pink or purple curtains.

good luck.
hope we helped
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okay ive babysat before before i moved to a new neighborhood and me new one has some little kids on it that i wouldnt mind to babysit so how should i let my neighbors no im avalible when they need me without being o like hi can i be your babysitter or yeah so any tips (and the kids i used to babysit were 2 boys ages of 4 and 6 and a little girl age 2-3 and the kids in my neighborhood are around that too)

Don't be worried. Just go up to the door and be like hi i am (yuor name) and i am your new neighbor and i just wanted to let you know that i have done babysiting for many years and i just wanted to let you know that if you need any help babysisting i would like to do it for you.
-good luck :)
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i am a 13 year old girl, and i got my period for the first time today. i don't know how to tell my mom. any advice?

Just be honest and say "mom i got my period can i have a tampon (or pad)?"

hope we helped,
.::sunny411::.

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What does it mean if somebody says "your hair is nappy"?

meaning that yuor hair is nappy like it has nots in your hair like you never brushed it.

hope we helped,

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ok my boyfriend is physco..he knocks on my window in the middle of the night and said he loves me and he thinks we're ready for the next step which is sex..but i dont wanna do that..i cant say kno cuz he said he'll kill himself if i dont do it with him.HELP

if you don't want to have it just say you love him A LOT but you just can't have it! if he dose not listen and say he is going to kill himself he is not being a good boyfriend he is just trying to have you do sex with him. And he is making it harder because if you say no he is going to kill homself that is not really a good thing to do. just sit down with him and say you don't feel comforabe have sex. if he is a TRUE and GOOD boyfriend who LISTENS then you should be fine if he understands and won't ask to have sex untill you are ready.

hope we helped and good luck!,

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does it hurt when u have sex? like a lot...or is it just emotional stuff that hurts? someone please tell me!!! ...lost...

p.s. im 14 year old female

it maye hurts for the first time but yuo never know because all girls go through different changes. it might hurt for you but hurt badly to someone else. i heard the first time it will hurt!

good luck! hope we helped!,

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If I start exercising almost every morning for 30-60 minutes by walking and I start doing Pilates and also start eating healthy, how long do you think it will take to lose some weight and get skinnier? Thanks!! :)

i really do not think it won't take that long that is a lot to do! you would probley loose wait every now and then when you do it it might take 2-3 weeks.

hope we helped good luck,

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i'm stuck on what i should do for my room.. i've had the same thing for a while now and i'm looking for new ideas for it. Also, if anyone has some great ideas or tips, but they arent too expensive please tell me, my rooms a medium size, it's not too big, but not too small ( if that helps at all )

You can do many differnt things! If you are a good drawer you could draw mabe a beach type of thing. You could paint it. You could paint/wallpaper it with your favorite color. You can be creative as you want! If you seen trading spaces the show it could give you some ideas. You could get some pillows if you like silkey things have a silkey pillow/conforter! Do your windows (the curtans) the color of ur room. Do things that make you feel like you jsut can't wait to get in yuor room. Make it fancy!

hope we helped good luck!,

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i need ideas on how to convince a girl that i really do love her...so please give me some good ideas ill rate a five

All you have to do is talk to her. Make it easier just talk about what you like then just go step by step.If that is not good then just write her a little note if saying you would like to go out with her! Just tell her the truth and be you it is not going to kill you to just ask her ougt it takes courage but just do it!

hope we helped! good luck!,

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i really want to be a basketball player like soooooo bad and i dont know hoe i can become one i meen im only 12 so its not a big rush now but any ideas would be great!
~*~AlEx~*~

Just practice and keep trying and work! go on a basketball team go to tryouts. maybe something there will happen big! Watch t.v. of other teams and get some good hints on them! And if you join a team you could even know more to! you just need to practice alot.

hope we helped,

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what do the yellow livestrong braclets mean?? EVERYONE is wearing them but idk wat they mean? lol...

Live stroung braclets are like for a cancer foundation thing. And it is like for people who did research for cancer.

Hope we helped!,

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