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does it hurt when u have sex? like a lot...or is it just emotional stuff that hurts? someone please tell me!!! ...lost...
p.s. im 14 year old female
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it maye hurts for the first time but yuo never know because all girls go through different changes. it might hurt for you but hurt badly to someone else. i heard the first time it will hurt!
good luck! hope we helped!,
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yeah i hear it hurts a lot especially just ur first time
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umm yea, it hurts for a minute but after that its ok
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Yes. it hurts MAJOR your first time. But, i've heard that it hurts the guy too. I depends on how ummm... horny you get. The hornyier, the more lubicated you get and it makes the penis go in easier. It also depends on the penis. Emotionally can hurt more than physically. Expecially if it is your first time. I think, personally, that you should wait until marriage. But, just choose the right guy!
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Having sex will hurt you if you're not stretched out in that area enough or if he doesn't make you wet enough. The emotional part of sex can be hurting so you want to make sure that you chose the right person to have sex with, especially you're first time! Trust me choose wisely as to who you decide to have sex with and don't be scared because if you have the right man he'll ease your pain. Good luck!
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i know for a man it hurts the first try/...............but hell does feel good!
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I won't sugar-coat it: It hurts a LOT. More if the guy is big. If you use a lot of tampons, I hear it's not as bad because the vagina has to stretch a little to let tampons into it (It just has to stretch more for other things.) It's emotional, too, which is a reason you want to be careful of who you consent to. If it's a guy you love with all your heart, who loves you back, it will be a little better.
I mean, whatever you do, it will still physically hurt the first time. It might even hurt the second time, or the third.
Another trick, also - at least I've heard - is if you're really relaxed, it's not as bad. So try to relax. But don't rush into sex. You're 14. You're young. Stay a virgin until you find someone you're willing to share something so intimate with.
Good luck in life and love =)
-Siren
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Some times sex hurts but its depends on how tight ur body is. the hurt will turn to plesure and if it doesnt there are creams u caN USE TO rub onto the condom andf it will allow the penis to enter a vagina.
At school they tend not to teach us about emontion hurt which i feel is just as inportant i got hurt very badly by having sex. You have to look inside ur head and she if u readt 16 + or if u wanna wait. My advice is when ur odd euff 16 + if =it want to and it feels right have sex with ur bf or some1 special dont have one night stands because sex is specail the way they touch u and kiss u special but in a one night stand it means nothing to them and they sleep with many women and men think of the STD'd allways us protyection
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Sex for the first time will hurt especially if your with another person that is un experienced. It is an emotional thing as well, you need to be with someone that u can be comfortable with and share ur concerns and feelings. For instance what if all of a sudden you get really scared at the heat of the moment and decide to change ur mind u need to be sharing the experience with someone who is understanding of that.
It hurts, yeah, but if your with someone who knows what they are doing sexually it will be a great thing.
No matter what u do make sure that u protect yourself if you decide to have sex, there are diseases out there and no one is immune! Arm yourself with information about STD s Contraceptives, and contacts.
Good luck and make sure that this unforgettable experience is with someone you truly love and loves u in return u cannot get ur virginity back once it s gone, choose ur first wisely.
No worries mon :)
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