I personally have a feeling that he probably would have known that anyways. But if he didn't, the remark isn't going to really change anything. If it does not come from you, it just seems like the friend is teasing him or something. But, assuming he believes it, I would do what you would have done otherwise. Contact him like how you normally would, hang out like normal, etc. I can't say if he likes you or not, since I do not know enough about you, him, and the whole situation, but I wouldn't worry about that yet.
Pretty much, don't make much of the situation. It is probably going to be read much differently than you think.

Have you tried stridex pads? They come in a neat little jar and work by drying that area of skin up, so that the pimples tend to either get popped or go away...

Vic-Nic. :) Or V-C, if you want a long vowel at the end.

I think 13 and 14 is young, but it is really up to you to decide. If you feel unconfortable with it, then do not do it. There is little risk with STDs and pregnancy in it, so there is no age where you are definatel TOO YOUNG to do it, but in today's society, it would be seen as too young. But if you don't think so, go for it.

Alright. So when Bob put the $20 in, it was the start of month 1. At the start of month 2, it is 20*2, or 40 dollars. At the start of month 3, it is 40*2, or 20*4, which is $80.
With this, you can get is for 5 months by using the formula:
a*n^t
With a being the $20 he put it, the n being the amount of interes (Double), and the t being the time.
20*2^5
20*32
The rest is up to you.

I would be willing to show you how to get more answers if you wish, but I am not giving just answers.

I do not know if DN OWNS the website, so to speak. I believe that is Spacefem. However, he is the main go to guy on this website, and makes all the changes and does most of the work on the site itself. He is also generally the last guy that issues with the site goes to. It's kind of like in England, where he'd be the Prime Minister, Spacefem is the Queen, and the L2s are parliment.

Chlorine is not bad for your skin. I swim normally, and the most I ever get is soft skin, as you said, maybe a little dry, and if I go in for too long, my skin will smell like chlorine even after a few showers. What happens is that your cells are more percentage water than the chlorinated water, so water leaves some of your cells and chlorine goes in. A shower takes the chlorine out.
And chlorine can be bad for your hair. If you are blond, it may even turn green. You want to use a swimmer's shampoo when washing.

If you are going to go on a diet, there is not much you can do about it, since you lose fat everywhere, and unfortunately breasts are mostly fat. However, if you were to exercise, and not diet, you can decide where to "Firm up", which would be your legs (By running), and your abs (Crunches)
Either way, I don't think dieting to lose 10 pounds would make your breasts shrink anywhere near noticably. If you're going for more, yes, it would.
Just a note. If you are going to exercise, you do not want to look at the scale. The fat is being turned into muscle, and muscle is heavier. You will probably not loose much weight that way, but you will look a lot better.

Get an ECP. It is much much better to be safe than to find out that you are pregnant a few weeks later. Also, if a local drug store has a "Morning after" pill, use that. Get a pregnancy test, and check. If it comes out positive 2 out of 3 times (You should do it at least 3 times), then you should see a doctor. Then if you are pro-choice, get an abortion. A child is something you do not want on your life.
-Steven

No. The bumps in the ride have too much potential to cause damage to the child, or even cause an unwanted abortion... Too much risk for too little reward.

To be an advice columnist, you need the same qualifications as a journalist, as far as I know. Look for it, and it would probably give good insights. I believe the site is www.careercruising.com, but I may be wrong...

Sorry for not getting to this yet, I've been busy this weekend...
I definately advise forgive and forget. It will take stress off both of you, and it will also create the potential for a much better relationship. If he likes her more, or if he has a thing for her, I just say let it happen. If you try to intrude on anything, he will hate you, and probably forever. You do not want that to happen.
-Steven

It tends to be that either people don't want to hear what they already know (When people say "Don't tell me to..."), there is something in there which is triggering to them to hear about (Like, don't mention the act of throwing up...), or they don't want to decipher the anwswer because they need help that fast.
I personally tend to do what they want, because I disclaim on my profile that I'll help you how you ask to be helped... But, generally just mark them down and answer it however you feel like. If they give you a one or a two becuase of it, just file an abuse report or delete you answer.
They're annoying, but they are inevitable, unfortunately...

There are times when I just "know" things, and it is sort of abnormal. Like, I knew my grandmother was going to die this year, and I knew that every lie I ever told was going to turn true in some way or another. So, you aren't alone... ish.
I think the best way to not be sent away is to stop telling your parents that you can read other people's minds. They are definately a bit afraid of that, naturally, so just a little hiding of the turht would be a benefit in this case. Keep it as your hidden gift. :)

I would suggest getting her a gift card to Kohls. They have non-preppy and preppy clothes in there, and they generally will have what any girl needs in there. If that doesn't work, chocolate always does. :)
-Steven

I'm unsure if you are male or female, but it's generally the same procedure. Believe it or not, scissors work REALLY well in these kinds of cases, as I've heard. You want to cut it down until it is just a few fractions of an inch, and then shave. That part is typically semi-painful, but not completely. It depends on how far down you go with the scissors. An electric razer is suggested because it is not as close of a shave, so it'll hurt less. Then, go down to a regular razer and do what you need.
Though I've heard that once you shave, you will need to continue shaving about daily or near to it because aftewards, it tends to get itchy or painful with the short stubbles of hair which move to poke your skin.
-Steven

Generally, it is actually healthy for you. I mean, if you stick a razer blade up, it will be unhealthy, but studies have show masturbation to be a health benefit, since it relaxes you physically and it is also a mental stress reliever. The only negative effect would be if you stuck something which tore the inside of the lining.

You are probably psychologically addicted to it. I don't know if you are physically addicted to it. If you find yourself drinking a lot of soda (Sprite and Root Beer don't count), you probably are. Can't diagnose it, but I can tell you how to treat it.
What your need to do is first hide any sort of chocolate from yourself, in a hard to get place. Like, try a drawer or a cabinet. Then, you need to restrain yourself for a day. You probably do it at the same time every day, so that's when you occupy yourself with something else (I.E. read or write). Get through the first day, and then if you start feeling sick, that's the surefire symptom that you are addicted to it. You then need to get out of the house for the entire day (So do this on a weekend...). The 2nd day is worse than the 1st, and the 3rd is definately the worst of all. If you relapse, then start over. You'll get 3 days soon enough. Then you go for more.
You need to stop completely, though. There is no such thing as "Less", unfortunately.

If you need motivation, you can make it by picturing yourself in 20 years, 30 years, etc. Just think of what it would be like to have some years off of your life due to clogged arteries (Not to scare you, but that IS a motivation). Or, just reward yourself with something else. Like clothing for a few days without chocolate. :)

-Steven

A difference in opinions will often lead to clashes. And that is why you generally disagree with your best friend. By arguing, you are talking and socialising with them, thus making them your friend. But, you also realise what they are like when you do not fight with them, and that also improves their status in your mind. You really never have a true friendship until you get into a fight. :)
Just be careful. After a fight, let the other person know that you still love them, and other positive stuff. Apologize, be friendly, and you'll do fine.

Generally, fast food places are the best place to try... Most wait until you are 16 to really start hiring. I am not positive, but I THINK a few clothing stores may also hire you part time...
-Steven

THE PENGUIN RULES ALL! AHAHAHAHAHAHA! *Cough*
Hello! My name is Steven, and I am a mentor. Yes, that does mean that I help other people. I have helped over 1000 people to date, and have helped some individuals for over 1/2 a year. The miracle of my life occurred 17 years ago. I say miracle only because 1/4 babies survive to be born.
I am the first born of 2 children, and I am also the black sheep. I listen to Classical Music, so you can call me a weirdo. :P. I have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, so take no offense if my answers never seem to end.
In school, I get As and Bs. More Bs really. I play trombone, and was the section leader of the trombones at my school. This year, I am the captain of the entire brass section. I am an Eagle Scout, so I guess that says I'm persistant? You make the call. I am a 3 time varsity letter winner, looking for a 4th next winter. I also participate in the musical, where I am a Bass 2. :)
I am straight, and have never had a relationship beyond a friend. However, I have survived the bumps in the road, and can advise you if you wish it. Though, it's not my strength.
I'm here for you, and only you. That means that my advise will not always confort you. Heck, it may even scare you. Yet, I want you to do what is best for your mind. Not what is typically seen as best for you, but what YOU see best for YOU. Heck, if you wanted what was seen as best for you, you would've asked your parents what you should do. They give you what's typically best.
Alright, before I start getting tendinitis from writing that over and over again, I'll just say what I mean. I mean that if you ask me about something, let's say walking 10 miles a day, and I think it's rediculous, yet you are asking for something to do, I am NOT going to say "10 miles is the type of a thing a anorexia athletica would do. Try 5." I'll give you something to do.
Oh, and I'm a L1 moderator, which means I rate questions.

Don't hesitate to IM me, I'm usually on. If I'm not, just drop one in the Inbox!

Oh, by the way, I am liberal in everything. That means that abortion is a woman's RIGHT, and gay marriage should be LEGAL.

Ask away!
-Steven

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