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a guyfriend
hi steven. first off, i wanna apologize for having a long question but i dont care at all how long your answer is as long as you try to give your best advice. 13/f
towards the end of march, three of my good friends ditched me because we got in a very, very, very unnecessary fight and i havent been able to trust anyone or tell anyone how i truly feel to any of my friends since because i dont know who any of my real friends are.
i have had this guyfriend since the beginning of the year and he just thinks just like me and understands me very well. i thought that he was the only person that i could actually trust more than any of my friends that are girls. he would always talk (and flirt?) with one of my "friends" who has a similar name to mine and people confuse us constantly.
i got my friend to ask him who his best girl friend was and he said that she was! i was completely surprised, shocked, upset, angry at both him, my friend, and mostly myself. i felt like i just lost another friend when he said that.
another advicenator told me that perhaps he just said that so he wouldnt make her feel bad, but i dont really know. i am still really mad at him.
i've also been acting really bitchy to him this past week because he kept talking more and more to her than to me and she would flirt with him constantly. it would just make me so angry inside 'cause he was such a good friend.
should i...
a.) just forget about it and go about the rest of the schoolyear acting like nothing happened
b.) forgive him for being a bitch this week and still be friends...
c.) keep my space so i wont continue being a bitch and wont get hurt either
d.) do something else that you suggest?
thank you so much ♥
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I definately advise forgive and forget. It will take stress off both of you, and it will also create the potential for a much better relationship. If he likes her more, or if he has a thing for her, I just say let it happen. If you try to intrude on anything, he will hate you, and probably forever. You do not want that to happen.
-Steven
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