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im karlyn.
i love volleyball.
and soccer.
and my boyfreind.
people tell me im good at giving advice.
so i joined this page.

ask any questons you have. cuz i will answer.
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Location: MIchigan
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Age: 23
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Member Since: July 22, 2004
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Last Update: July 26, 2011
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is it normal to shed a lot of hair? i usually dont, but in the past few weeks i've shed so much hair. does it just have to do with summer or what? (link)
you can lose a lot of hair if you are really stressed. also if you apply a lot of heat to your hair it will dry out and fall out, like from staightening or blow drying. its not something to worry about unless you really are losing like an unhealthy amount of hair


Today when I went to the doctors, he told me I need to get an MRI done on my spine to make sure everything's okay with it. But my question is for people who have had MRI's before. Do they hurt? Are they boring? Are they long? Etc.

Basically, what was your experience like?

Thank youu. :] (link)
hey a few months ago i had a MRI for my knee. It took about 20 minutes and it didnt hurt at at all. The hardest part is laying there and not moving for the entire time. THe machine is pretty loud too. I didnt have to have an IV or anything... you just kinda go into this big huge tube thing. overall its not bad at all


Tommorow me & my friend are going out to the pool, and we really want nice dark tans. okay, so if we use SPF 30, water resistant, with UVA UVB protection sunscreen AND then put baby oil on will we tan and NOT burn? (link)
it honestly just depends on your skin type and how long your out in the sun. sun screen can help, but if you're out for too long you're going to get burned.

just be careful and make sure that you dont stay for too long


can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =] (link)
hey this is the way I see it...
I lost it when i was 16, and well i totally regret it. I mean...its like once you do it one time you never have anything to look forward to, and there isnt anything to share with your future husband/wife. I mean yeah...seems like no one is waiting until they get married these days, but to me its just a let down. Yeah it can be fun, but afterwards its not all that special.


me and my girlfriend are really close an everything but recently she tearned all despressed and wont talk. and shes very quiet now which is weird since shes usualy really extremely loud. she doesnt want to do anything with me anymore and stuff like that. shes really tight with my best friend. and he told me that she told him that some fifty year old raped her.why would she tell him and not me. what should i do? (link)
hey in my opinion i think that shes just scared to tell you. I know if i was in her situation i would feel the same way.

its like this....she is afraid that you will react in a bad way if she tells you this. Its like...she cares about you somuch that she doesnt want to tell you something that might make you change your mind about her? thats how i would feel anyways.

so i think she needed to tell someone, even if it wasnt someone who she is extremely close with, like you.


When a guy fingers you or when you give him a handjob, do you still keep kissing while doing it or do you stop kissing? (link)
it just depends on what you and the guy wants. maybe you arent kissing on the lips but maybe like kissing hig neck....or whatever you want.


How much do Vivaneers cost? Also how do they do them and do they hurt?

Thanks (link)
They cost anywhere from 250-400 $ per tooth. They match the shade to the rest of your teeth, and basically they are just covers that they permanently stick to the fronts of your original teeth.

I'm getting them in a few years, but you should wait tilyou are for sure done growing. For example, right now im a girl and im 16 and i am waiting until i am at least 18 because as you get older your teeth can move around.


Okay,
So me and my bf have sex alot and just about everytime he cum's in me but if i dont cum can i still get preg.? (link)
yes definitly.
you dont have to cum to get pregnant, when he does there is sperm inside you and you can get pregnant.


k. i tan a lot. especially now for prom, but my armpits are really white. what would help that, the stand up bed?? i really like laying down, but what could i do to tan under my arms?? (link)
you should just go to a stand up cuz you hold on to the handles at the top and your armpits get tan. but theres reallly not much you can do in a lay down one.


well i really wanna have my first kiss with my bf but like im scared and confused....like i dont wanna regret it or anything...but i really wanna kiss him....what should i do??

any advise on how to actually kiss? i have no idea how to!! help! (link)
Hey. First off. You're thinking way to much. Just let it happen and go with the flow. As long as its with your boyfreind, and you are sure you are ready to have your first kiss, there is no reason to regret it.

Kissing is easy. just do what feels right. dont try shoving your tounge down his throat, and don't be too aggressive. just kinda go along with things.

have fun!


we started balancing equations, and i don't really get it. i mean, i get the math and all that stuff. but for like, if an equation has a polyatomic ion, do you break that down or do you keep its oxidation number?

for example.

1. calcium oxide + water --> calcium hydroxide
2. sodium hydroxide + carbon dioxide --> sodium carbomate + water


can you give me what the balanced equation would be? i can probably go from there.

thanks. (link)
1. CaO + H2O --> Ca(OH)2
2. 2NaOH + CO2 --> Na2CO3 + H2O


Those answers are right.
But NO3 would only be treated as one single unit as long as it sticks together and is the same on both sides. for example, it couldnt be NO3 and NO4.


Would drinking green tea help my sore throat? how about sugarless gum? (link)
I dont think the gum will help, and any kind of tea with honey it will help sooth your throat. thats what i drink when i have a really bad cough or sore throat.

hope your throat gets better!


how do you use "watered down" correctly (link)
its like...if you're having a mixed drink and there isnt much flavor. you would just say its watered down.

or i think you could use to to describe something that is boring.


How do you get your bf whipped? Or realllllly needing of the gf? like i guess... REALLY interested and wanting more and more!!?? (link)
well i dont suggest making him whipped, cuz guys hate that, and his freinds will talk crap, and it can lead to bad things. BUT. yeah you want to leave him wanting more. so as much as you might want to do with him...dont always let it go to far. make him work for things. just pretty much play hard to get it. dont be easy, and if really likes you it will make him crazy and he will just go crazy for you.


around my vagina it's dark and around my inner thighs too....is this normal?

thanks. (link)
no its tottally normal. dont worry about it.

i have a birth mark right there on the inside of my leg. so ya know. it could be something like that, or just regular skin color


something wierd has been going on for the last 3 days...
i cant stoop shakeing!! im like shivering! but im NOT cold or anyhting, acually i turn off my air conderner, fan, and get under alot of covers, and i will be sweating hot, and i still start like shakeing!!

its like my whole body it starts and is mostly my legs but then like my body starts

im really worried
im not sick
no fevers
feeling fine
not cold
shakeing uncontrobly
--ashley (grayrainbow) (link)
hey i have the same thing. try eating something, or even better you should take like...a multi vitamin pill.... i shake when i havent eaten and when my vitamin levels are low.

just eating like a banana or any other kind of fruit helps me a lotl


Hey, this is kind of a menial question, so yeah. But uh tonight I got invited to two birthday parties that start around the same time. One, is my best friend "Margaret's" birthday. We're going to Maccaroni Grill and that's it. The other is my friend from tennis, "Lucy". Lucy is pretty popular on the team and I really was happy she invited me and I want to get to know her well and stuff. But, Margaret is my best friend. At first I was like, Ok i'm defidently going to Margaret's. But.. idk. Lucy's party is we're going shopping and then spending the night at a hotel. Both are sweet 16 birthdays. My parents suggested going out to eat with Margaret and then going to spend the night with Lucy. But since me and LUcy aren't like besssttt friends, i dont' want to seem like a lot of trouble since I'm not even one of her good friends. Does that make sense? well, please reply asap! thankks! (link)
hey i dont think that you will seem like a problem if you show up late to lucys party. but yeah you definitly need to go to maragrets birthday cuz shes your best friend...but i would say, go out to dinner, and then catch up with lucy.


is it possible for your feet to shrink lol? because im in 10th grade 16/f and my feet have not grown since i was in 5th in fact they have apparently shrunk seeing as i used to wear an 8.5 and now i wear an 8...? but ive grown like 3-4 inches taller since then so the growth spirt is already over and done. haha idk is that just weird? (link)
hey i dont think that you're feet can shrink, but i know waht you mean. i used to wear a size 10 shoe and now i wear a 9. I dont know what happened, it might just be how the shoes run, but i dont think it is anything to worry about.


when me and my boyfriend talk i want him to hug me but he only hugs me or kisses me or anything if someone tells him. should i make the first move [ which im scared to do ] or wait. or have a friend tell him to make the first move ? helpss (link)
hey. so you're both obviously shy. but he might just not be making the move because hes afraid of you're reaction..and maybe that's partly why you're nervous too? i would say just do it...you're alreay a step ahead of everyone else, you're his girlfriend, so he obviously likes you, so hes not going to do anything crazy...so go for it :)


i had a rough night one night and the next day at school, i still wasn't too happy or perky like i usually am. my whole group all stands together in the mornings and my best friend was in the group and she didn't notice a thing. it confused me because i can always tell when there's something wrong with her. i put in my ipod headphones and just blasted my music. then this girl next to me was like "your music is really loud..are you ok??" and i've only known this girl for like 4 months and she is noticing.

so here's my question:
is my best friend tottally insensitive to others feelings? or is was she just not paying attention? (link)
i think that you're reading into it too much.
so you arent so happy and perky or whatever. i think that maybe she didnt notice. i dont think thats its a big deal. or maybe she might just not know what to say. Thats the problem i have sometimes, i want to comfort people, but you dont know what to say or what not to say.




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