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first move
when me and my boyfriend talk i want him to hug me but he only hugs me or kisses me or anything if someone tells him. should i make the first move [ which im scared to do ] or wait. or have a friend tell him to make the first move ? helpss
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hey. so you're both obviously shy. but he might just not be making the move because hes afraid of you're reaction..and maybe that's partly why you're nervous too? i would say just do it...you're alreay a step ahead of everyone else, you're his girlfriend, so he obviously likes you, so hes not going to do anything crazy...so go for it :)
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hes dating you, so he obviously likes you. feel free to make the first move towards whatever you want to do.
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It seems to me that he's scared and doesn't know what you expect or if he's going to cross any boundaries if he were to do this on his own.
The next time you see him ask him for a hug and initiate your own kiss and joke "Contrary to popular belief I will not self destruct if you try to hug or kiss me." Once you have him laughing tell him to do either on his own without prompting from now on.
That ought to be the end of the problem right there. He seems to think he needs your approval to do these kinds of things. I guess your best resort is to formally give it to him. That way in the future you'll get exactly what you want here.
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