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me and my girlfriend are really close an everything but recently she tearned all despressed and wont talk. and shes very quiet now which is weird since shes usualy really extremely loud. she doesnt want to do anything with me anymore and stuff like that. shes really tight with my best friend. and he told me that she told him that some fifty year old raped her.why would she tell him and not me. what should i do?
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hey in my opinion i think that shes just scared to tell you. I know if i was in her situation i would feel the same way.
its like this....she is afraid that you will react in a bad way if she tells you this. Its like...she cares about you somuch that she doesnt want to tell you something that might make you change your mind about her? thats how i would feel anyways.
so i think she needed to tell someone, even if it wasnt someone who she is extremely close with, like you.
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don't balame her for this. she's probably just scared. she didn't know what to say to you. make sure hwen your best friend told you was deffinitly true, before you go and ask her because that could really upset her. ask her if everything is okay & that she can tell you EVERYTHING & ANYTHING, and you'll always be there for her. comfort her. if that's the case and she did get raped i can completly understand why she is depressed & she needs help. just talk to her and see what happens.
i hope she's alright & you are too!
good luck. :)
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It's definitely not that the dosen't trust you. It's because she's probably very uncomfortable about that, especially to talk about with her boyfriend.
Let her know your friend told you, or ask his friend to ask her if it's okay if he tells you. Then, make sure you talk it over. She will be emotional for quite some time, that's the normal response, and make sure you're there for her. That's a traumatic experience, so don't shy away because she cries or something..
XOXO
KAT<3
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