Hey:) I'm Julie. I'm a fun girl and I like to live life to the fullest. I have a lot of friends and I guarantee I have either been in your situation or know someone who has. My friends always turn to me for advice and I would like for you to feel that you can too. Anyone who approaches me on this site I will react to as though you are my friend. Your problem is my problem and I will help you with finding a solution. I have dealt with everything from drug addicts, to people with depression, to men saying every line in the book. I've been to all time lows as well as situations so weird and funny that you don't even know what to do. I have asked the questions that seem too awkward to ask face to face so do not fear asking me anonymously. I love awkward, embrace weird and live to help. Ask me anything and I will help you to the very best of my ability. Thanks for reading.
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so basically sometimes when i shiver, not even like alot but just a little, it makes my head hurt. or like if im cold and i get in a hot shower.. my head hurts. is that normal? its been doin that for awhile now.. (link)
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the same thing happens to me. its pretty normal. ur just sort of sensitive when it comes to headaches. youre normal tho =]
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i'm like, totally inlove with my best guy friend. i asked him out sometime in november but he turned me down. he said that our friendship was more important at our age and stuff. and i see where he's coming from. but since then, we've started growing apart. we haven't had a conversation an hour long, which was like, the minimum amount of time we used to talk before i asked him out. we say hey to each other most of the time we see each other at school, and after school, i hang out with him and his friends until my ride comes. but we never talk one-on-one anymore. not even in the computer. so i've been thinking about messaging him on myspace. i've been thinking about doing this for weeks now, but i just can't seem to do it. it seems like i'm stalking him because ever since i asked him out, i send him messages every now and then, trying to make conversation with him. if i keep doing that, wouldn't it seem like i'm desperate and i'm stalking him? what should i do? should i message him or not? i have an idea in my head about what imma say. something like, "hey. you're proly getting annoyed by how many times i try to make a conversation with you, which never lasts long. i just wanna try one more time, because i really feel like we've been growing apart lately. i really miss those old days when we talked for hours and hours, because now we can't even talk for 5 minutes without silences in between. it really sucks. so what do you say? are you up for trying one more time?"
what do you think?? i really need some perspective on this.
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ive been down this path before. ive never actually asked the guy out but i know this situation. you asked him out and he was probably a bit suprised maybe even shocked, he felt so close to you and had no idea you had feelings for him and all the sudden you popped the question. he started distancing himself cause he felt that if he was with you more you would just fall harder for him and not hes just being sort of immature by barely talking at all but you know what you gotta give him a little time. talk to other guys and let him know you have moved on and then let him come back to you. if you guys' friendship meant alot and you two were really close he will realize how much he misses that and hell come around. but if he doesnt then obviously you deserve better friends then that. you shouldnt be in a friendship where you are putting forth all the effort to make it work. let the boy come to you. i hope i helped. =]
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okay, where to start. well i was going out with this boy named Alex. and i liked him alot and everything but he liked me like a thousand times more. well like every night this boy Lane would call me tryin to get with me, but i never thought anything of it. well about two months passed and me and Alex had already broken up. Then Lane was going out with my friend Addair who can't keep a boyfriend at all. Well she was grounded and me and Lane and all my other friends were all friends so we were goin out together and Lane started liking me that night again. me and Lane have kind of like always had a thing for eachother. well the next Addair brok up with Lane cause like i said, she doesn't like keeping a boyfriend. then Lane asked me out. so i said yes. i have never had a boyfriend like Lane before. it was so much fun with him, like we experienced so many new things together. we went out for 3 1/2 months and then at this fair thing we have in my town, his friends from his school were there [we go to different schools] and he started acting like a COMPLETE JERK. like it was so weird, he was never that bad. so then i couldnt take it and i broke up with him. then i found out he acted like that so i would break up with him. that hurt. i was sitting there crying so hard and all he could say to me was stop shaking. so then we went a caouple days without talking, and then i called him. i was like, Lane, what happened? and he basically told me he was just tired of having a girlfriend and he wanted to be single. i never wanted to break up with him. so then the first weekend after we broke up we were hanging out at the mall with all our friends and he was acting like we were like, "together" you know. and it made me so mad. but i couldnt help but like it cause i like him. then the next day me him, my best friend Taylor, and her boyfriend which is Lane's bestfriend, Kyle all went to the movies. well Lane likes kind of "simple" girls in a way. and well, i dress kind of not simple sometimes. i like acessories and style and stuff. well at the movies that night he decided that he wasnt gonna hang out with us because of what i was wearing. i mean how frickin low is that. i was so mad. cause then i was stuck with Taylor and her boyfriend and oh my gosh that was like hell. well then i had people over at my house the next monday and he was one of them. we flirted like crazy and like, i can tell there's chemistry there. but i just don't know how much. well then last night we went to the movies again, me Taylor, Kyle, and Lane. well me and Lane used to always go to the movies together when we went out, alot of stuff happened at the movies. so it was hard. cause you don't know how bad i just wanted to start making out with him. well then he started trying to kiss me and he held my hand and i resisted for a while but uhhh i just cant resist that boy. so then we were like all together and it was just so confusing and he was like i still like you and i shouldn't have ever broken up with you. my friend Taylor doesn't think i should go back out with him anytime soon. my friend Caela thinks i deff. should. my friend Addair is in the middle. so i am so completely confused. i dont know what he wants, i dont know what i want, i dont know what my friends want. so can you help, please? sorry its so long, lol.
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Look, you seem like the type of person who gets a lot of guys and usually doesn’t have problems with their boyfriends.and you probably dont wanna hear about my past and all but im just going to say i can totally relate.. and no matter how bad you want to not like him something is always still there. well i know it will be really hard, and you probably REALLY wanna take him back but the past is just gonna come back and the same thing will happen again. as much as you dont want to you are going to have to move on. and find a boy even better for you who doesnt mind the way you dress and wont bail on you and will be there for you. there are PLEANTY of fish in the sea.. you just gotta go out there and show them your bait. lol... and no matter how much you wish he'd change so things could be perfect truth is, things wont really change. now i know for a little while you will regret it if you turn him down but in the longrun things will turn out a whole lot better then they would have if you went back out w/ him and he ended up breaking your heart again. well i hope i helped
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ok basically i'm 14 years old and i've never had a boyfriend. never had a guy asked me out. never been kissed at all. and it's really pathetic... its not that im ugly or fat or have no friends or i'm mean, or anything. guys just never seem to like me. a lot of my more unattractive friends seem to get boyfriends, and my personality is just as good, i'm just as outgoing, i'm just as ANYTHING. and i feel like the world's biggest loser. is 14 really old for someone whos never been kissed/had a boyfriend????? tell the truth! (link)
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dont worry... your normal :]
its not to old. you just probably
are putting across more of a friend vibe.
try and flirt a little and ull be
on the right track in no timee
hope i helped
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whenever i cry like for a long period of time.. then next day my eyes are always swollen.. what can i do so my eyes dont get as swollen? any suggestions? (link)
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put 2 spoons in the freezer on the night that you cry. then the next morning, put them under your eyes. also... go to clinique and get the cream to put underyour eyes over night. i used to have the same problem. but thiss really helped.hope this helped
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ok um well im a 13 year old female i really like this guy ive fallen hard for him i mean i seriously have fallen like in love but he says he doesnt like anyone and we talk eveyday we have everything in common cept for the fact that im a girl and hes a guy lol well i guess my question is should i try or just move on since he doesnt like anyone (link)
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guys lie..... ALOT. i mean he might like you and just be saying he doesn't like anyone because he is afraid to tell you.
So my advice to you would have to be,
tell him you like him. i absolutly live by the quote "it's better to have loved than to have not loved at all." wheather he likes you or not,it's good that he knows.:]and if he is as great as you say he is then he will understand.
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hi. im a 15 year old guy and i like this 15 year old girl..we r great friends and i feel like we can be more but she doesnt..ive talked to her about it before and i want to send her a song link...would For You I will by teddy geiger or Broken by seether be a better choice...thanks so much in advance (link)
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teddy geiger all the wayy!!!!!
thats cute to send her a songg
but make sure your not pushing
things and making her uncomfterable.
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The people that know me think that I'm a nice person, but people who don't, think that I'm stuck up and a goody-goody. It's as if getting good grades is a crime! They assume that I can't have a good time, which is really not true. People won't really come up and speak to me (especially boys) because of this. The problem is, that none of my friends can tell me what it is that makes me appear stuck up at a first glance. How can I appear to be a more friendly and approachable person?
The more answers, the better!
(oh, I'm not really worried about the boys. I have a boyfriend. it's just a detail.) (link)
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honestly, if people arent approaching you, you should approach them. standing around and waiting for people isn't going to do you ANY good. go up to people and be friendly start up a conversation and joke around a bit. before you know it your rep will die down and you'll have a ton of new friends. also make sure your not making mean faces or crossing your arms or anything (you might be doing this with out knowing it) and make sure to smile as much as possible, your alot more approchable if your smiling. well i hope i helped [[=.
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I asked my friend Erica to hold my camera the other day, cause I didn't have a purse. She claims she gave it back to me, but I don't remember her doing so. Now its lost, I've searched all the places we went that day twice, and my house several times. My other friend who was with us, [ Erica stayed at her house for the week cause she was visiting us from another state] has said that she hasn't seen the camera at all, and that she thinks Erica took it because she always complained about her crappy camera. I'm starting to believe she did take it, because Erica is known for lying, and had my camera last. I've tried confronting her about it, but she just keeps denying it. Idk what to do, I'm in huge trouble if I don't find it by the end of summer. (link)
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it really seems like she stole it... since shes being so difficult. how about you have someone else talk to her... have one of your friends talk about how your getting on their nerves or something and then she'd probably spill... then your friend could come back and tell you everything.... and if that doesnt work tell ur parents a dumb racoon stole it.
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Okay i had this guy named I and i called while i was out and i sent him an email asking what he wanted to tell me. Do you think that was right ?? when i checked my email he did not get it because he diddt put his email on blackboard. What should i do? (link)
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umm... im sorry i don't understand your question... can you make things a little clearer for me?? thnx
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ok so i have been on and off with my boyfriend for about 2 months. He has dumped me 4 times and ive dumped him once and it's usually over a stupid fight and a day later he relizes what he's done and ask me to take him back, and i do. So it's summer and we dicided to keep in touch and stay togetasr. He recently got a myspace and is leaving all these girls picutres comments say damnn or cute pie, and gorgeous and stuff like that. I'll admit it i am jelous but should I be mad also. I dont want to confront him that would be way to awkward , i just dont no if i should be mad. Thankyou! (link)
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you have every right to be pissed at him. but getting in another worthless fight will just result in you guys breaking up and getting back together. i think its time you find someone better who gives you all of the attention and isnt always so quick to break up. there is other fish in the sea.
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how bad does it hurt to get a Tattoo...like compare it to some other kind of pain
i rate 5's (link)
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i heard that it hurts like walking barefoot on hot lava. but its worth it cause it looks awesome.
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Ok, so recently I met this guy I'll call George. I was out with a few friends and we had a good time together. I had met George before that time, but I didn't really talk to him. When I did, George and I got along very well and I began to have feelings for him. The next day, I found that he liked me too. Then, the day after that, I found that my friend, Bob, likes me. Unfotunately, I do not have feelings for him other than those of friendship. I'd hate to hurt him and I don't know what to do. Any suggestions are welcome. (link)
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talk to bob about it... thats basically the only thing you can do... if he likes you he would understand where your coming from and appreciate that you were so honest and nice about the whole thing... i know you dont want to hurt him.... but in the process of doing that make sure your not hurting yourself. he will eventually move on.. you and goerge should give things a shot.... well i hope i helped
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okay i was on this website and this guy got my aim s/n from it and we started talking. he kept askin me so many questions like what do you look like? how old you are? where i go to school at? and if i have a b/f. so i answered everything not honestly cuz i dont no if he is a stalker.lol. then he finally asked if we could meet sometime. my question is should i continue to talk to him because it seems like he wants a relationship which would mean we have to meet. and i do not want to meet with him in real life cause of all those sick people out there. so should i continue to talk to him or what do i do? will rate high. thanks! (link)
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i think hes probably a low life... start acting retarded and turn him off then he'll block youu.... plus if you lying how do you know hes not??
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My prom date is the hottest guy is the entire school. At frist I was happy that I was going with him but lately I have been running to a bit of a problem. A LOT of girls like him. So when I'm with him they are like all over him, whenever I'm around them they'll say little comments about him, and they ALWAYS try to flirt with him. He doesn't really flirt back that much wiht them in front of me (but i know he does when i'm not around) but he doesn't really signal for them to stop either. Eventhough the girls are getting on my nerves I'm still going to prom with him. So I want to know how can I deal with this. (link)
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he OBVIOUSLY liked you if he chose to ask you to prom instead of asking on of them. so if he likes you and you like him you should be able to talk to him about it. tell him whats on your mind and how you want them to lay off. and if he gets immature about it and gets all mad at you, then you can obviousldo better.. also talk to the girls and tell them to lay off... well i hope this helps.
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Ok so tommarow is my last day of school, what are somethings I should write in yearbooks for like guys or just like any cute quote? dont give anythiing general like hags and hakas and crap cause no one likes readding that! (link)
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just be like
heyy (whatever their name is)
i had a really great year with you and im happy we've become such great friends. i hope i see you over the summer and that we become even BETTER friends next year.
or
Im going to miss you. we've had so many great times and way to many laughts. have a great one..
or something like that... just make it SSS
short sweet and sincer
well i hope this helps
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Okay, well, tomorow I REALLY want to go to my boyfriends house and my mom said no. She thinks were going to do stuff but were NOT! does anyone know how to get her to change her mind? I SWEAR I'll rate 5's. BUT PLEASE HELP! (link)
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be really sweet to your mom. and if she is really against you and him being together then mabey its best you find someone else. you may not want to but theres other fish in the sea. you will eventually find someone who she'll trust you with. and try talking to her.
and i hopee this helps
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15/f My boyfriend and I have our one year anniversary next Friday. But he just recently moved about 3 hours away. He was supposed to come and spend the weekend with me but he can't make his way up here anymore. Is there anything in the world that is something special I can do? (link)
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surprise him and go there, with a gift and the best outfit you have [[=. or if you cant send him flowers and chocolate (guys love food) ahah
hope this helps
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ok well i had sex and now its a few months later i start to crave food i never likeed. what does that meann? (link)
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it could mean that your pregnant. or it could just be a coincidence.. take a pregnancy test and see the results. if they come back positive tell your parents immediatley.. you CANT hide it from them.. but the results come back negetive then know you have to be more careful.
hope this helps
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I have always kinda had seld esteem issues, all of my friends are gorgeous and i feel like i am the ugly duckling. You know in movies how their is a group of pretty girls and then they have an ugly friend, and one guy has to "take one for the team" and hang out with her.....i feel like that girl.
Its not that i'm fat, (5'9, 110 pounds) i know i'm not fat, i just never feel pretty.My friends tell me i'm pretty but i feel like that doesnt count because they cant call me ugly, i'm their friend. Any advice to boost my self esteem? (link)
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everyone has something about themself they dont like so dont feel alone..im sure your friends wouldn't lie to you and your just not giving yourself enough credit. mabey to boost your ego go to the mall and flirt with cute guys.. they will flirt back and youll feelgood about yourself.
hope this helps
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