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Peace. it's ya girl Z here. lemme get to the point.. my name's Zainab, 17 years old, and from Montana(and NO i ain't no cowgirl). i am muslim and insha'Allah i am going to be married next month to a wonderful guy named Alim. love ya baby. so if y'all need anything just holla atcha girl. peace to fingers
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i've heard different things. i was just wondering what the best and most effective method(s) are.

ok, well i know 2 brothers, one he lets the dreadlocks grow naturally, but the other one puts them in his hair himself. now what you do to put them in your self is take some hair
(alot if you want a big dreadlock) and take it in 4 peices then cross them while bringing them down. it mats the hair. but all you have to do is brush it out.

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my hair is so boring and i do the same styles all the time. what are some cute summer hairstyles i can do easy with my hair? (pictures would be good)

p.s-my hair is right at my boobs. wavy without straightening it.

I RATE HIGH. = )

ok well i don't have pictures, but the easiest and cutest thing is layers, start at your chin and go all the way down. you can straighten it, curl it in , curl it out, put all up, put some up... also try straighting it maybe if you like straight hair. but the layers is the best i got.

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Is it weird to have a 3 year age difference between me and my boyfriend? Like 15 and 18?

well no it doesn't seem weird. but you have to be careful with what you do with him.i mean if you 2 do anything sexual he can get in a lot of trouble.

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i have a cell phone & i was wondering if i can block people's phone number?? i know they can block theirs if they call, but is there anyway i can block theirs if they do call??

thanks!!

ok well if you mean when they call so other people can't see the number, you can program their number in, and then put a different name to it.

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I have a secret crush and she dosent know it, or at least i dont think she does, she has a bf and she really likes him, i have had a crush on her for awhile even before her bf but i had a gf at that time, should i try to go for it or leave her alone?

ok since she has a bf, just leave it alone for now, but be her friend now, then when she and he break up she will have a friend, then also after a while after they break up, start to get closer to her, ask her if she wanted to go out some time or something like that.

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What can a 13 year old do to get money? I'm almost desperate. I seriously have no money, neither does my family. I just need some ideas to earn some extra money.
Thanks!

well here are some
*babysit
*pet sit
*house sit
*bake sale
*car wash
*garage sell, then sell refreshments, it always
works.

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People tell me I have a reasonabley good voice but I want to make it really good. What exercises can I do to make it stronger cos at the moment I hit a high note and my voice sort of totally disappears. It's real weird!

ok well first of all you need to have confidence, these are someways to get that.
* work on scales everyday, going higher than you
usually go and lower than you usually go. this
will make your range larger so it is more
comfortable to sing higher and lower.
* sing in the shower.lol. it does help
* drink alot of water and try and stay away from
caffine, this will help clear your voice.
* when you are getting ready to hit a high note
take a huge breath of air, and just push the
note over! give it all you've got, and don't
be shy!
hope this helped, if you need anything just let me know.
*~Zainab~*

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Hello, I have two hickies from my boyfriend and I really really don't want my parents to see them, I try putting on make up but can totally see I'm wearing a bunch of make up and you can still kinda see the hickes!! Any tip to make them go away faster??

if you ice it like whenver you are alone, then that will help them go away faster.

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is it safe to give my dog frosted flakes or cheerios?

yes, it is fine. my cat eats anything you set in front of him.

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how does a condom break while your having sex.. im just curious

well there are a few different reasons.
1. it is not the correct size
2. it is put on wrong
3. it is old
4. certain lubricants are used
5. way too much movement

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15 / female / Pennsylvania (if that helps with the things-to-put-in-the-box thing)

Hi, I have a penpal from France. We have been sending letters back and forth, and now I want to send a shoebox of American things.

But what kind of things should I put in it?

So far I have:
American Dollar/quarter/etc.
A magazine
Photos

Yeah, that's it. Pretty sad, I know, but I'm clueless. If you could help me think of ideas, that would be great. And I would like it if the objects would have purpose (not like a pack of stickers or stuffed animals).

Thanks a lot!!

well what about
your favorite cd
your book
maybe a t-shirt
earings....
just stuff that you like.

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how do you know if your period has ended, this is the first time that ive had my period :[ i started it july 3rd.

well first of all, congrats. ok well it will probably stop for a little while and then start again, it will take a while to have a regular cycle. if you use a small piece of toilet paper and stick it up like a tampon, and it comes back clear, then it should have stopped but just since it is your first time, wear a pad an extra day.

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okay, so i'm 14/m and she's 14/f and i really like her but i don't know where i should take her on our first date (if she'll go out with me) if you live in st. louis area, (or anyware) got any advice?

personally i would choose the classic. dinner and a movie, or just a movie. it always works:)

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Okay i'm 12/f about to turn 13 in 2 weeks =] ! I really like this boy and yesterday i went to his house to hang out and i d k if this is slutty or what ? Well we was over there watching the Grudge and i was just laying by him, then we like moved to the floor and all the sudden he leaned over and we started making out. I like got on top of him and we like started having dry sex with are clothes on. Well he knew my turn on spot is my neck so he was kissing my neck and i just got really in the mood so he rolled over on top of me and we kept on doin it. Well then we stopped cause we heared someone upstairs so we were just laying there. And i let him finger me. And i was giving him a hand job all night !! Like every minute. Then hes like how bout you suck it for meee ? and i was like omg i never sucked one before soo yeah.. but we went downstairs but then we came back up after we did some more stuff.. okay now heres where it gets bad. We were laying on the couch and i like sucked his dick about 3 times and he wanted moreee. but we didn't have a condom . Well he fingered me again and left a huuuge hickey on my neck. Wow thats alot of stuf. Do you think thats slutty and just give me some advice on what i just told you . I feel slutty and guilty and i feel like hes useing me.

sorry but i think it is slutty, but it doesn't mean you are a slut. it gets hard to say no sometimes, but i would just be more careful when you two are alone, because you are way too young to get pregnant. and remember condoms don't always work. so just be careful.

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okay. sunday im going to my first overnight camp. it will be until wednesday. how many shirts/shorts? any other tips? should i bring my new razr? PLEASE HELP
I RATE !!!!!!


please do this ASAP

what kind of activities are there going to be? well first start by this:
* 5 shirts
* 5 shorts
* 2 pants
* 1 jacket

then if you are swimming take a towl, razor, bathing suit.
and if you are going hiking take a pair of tennis shoes, plus take a pair of sandles to wear around the camp.
don't forget the essentials like bug spray, tooth brush...etc.

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me and my bf have been going out for seven months and we are so in love but we have this usual schedule kissing and making out ya know, and we just usually go by it and i wanna know what can i do to make the schedule more fun???

well im not real into kissing, but personally i would take the schedual away. i mean why do you have it, to not forget when to do it? believe me if you keep the schedual your relationship will get mighty dull fast. so just be spontaneous. i am sure he will like it!

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15 / Female

Every two weeks I like to go one day with out eating, or skipping a meal. I do not do it to lose weight but I have heard it is good for you ( I still drink water ) and it helps to flush out toxins in your body. Is this true? I regularily eat small meals throughout the day that are healthy and I get usually 2-4 hours of exercise a day. After fasting for a day I continue with my normal eating pattern and I do not try to eat a lot to make up for it.

This is beneficial, right?

yes it is benificial and it is good that you do this. it helps purify the body and also it helps cleanse your mind. it makes you think more clearly. but just be sure to take it easy and not over do it. i went 3 days on a fast, but no more than that is what i would reccomend. so kudos to you!!!

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How long do hangovers last and is there anything I can do to feel better?

it all depends on how much you drank and how tolerant you are of alcohol. but drink a bunch of coffee and take a cold shower.

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i dont really like thongs, but where could i buy underwear that is kind of like a thong, but doesnt go up your but crack. basically like are a bit thicker. any website/stores (NOT victoria's secret, i already know that one)

well walmart usually has a good selection

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i havent had my period in a about a month is a half or so? so and im 13 and im a virgin. i was wondering if thats just normal.. like i could we getting it really late or maybe its a skip month? could someone help me!

your body is still getting used to your cycle. i remember i didn't have mine for like 8 months once. but it will be fine, it's normal. it will take a while maybe even a few years until it is a regular cycle. so don't worry.
*~zainab~*

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