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*HEY YALL...JESSICA HERE!WELL IM REALLY AN UPFRONT PERSON SO WHEN U ASK 4 ADVICE bEwArE!!
*AGE*---16~*~
*SEX*---YES PLEASE!--LOL JUS MESSIN IMMA GRL~*~
*HOMETOWN*---L-TOWN~*~HOLLA AT CHA GRL~*~
*SCHOOL*---LHS GO REDSKINS!!:)~*~
*GRADE*---10TH~*~
*FAV SPORTS*---BASKETBALL/CHEERLEADING/FOOTBALL~*
*HAIR*---BROWN/BLONDE~*~
*EYES---BLUE~*~
*HIEGHT---I'M 5'7~*~
*STATUS*---ME N SHAWN BROKE UP...I'M TALKIN TO THIS GUY NAMED LAMAR......I REALLY LIKE HIM 2... HE IS LIKE THE SWEETEST GUY EVER.... HE TREATS ME BETTER THAN SHAWN....AND IM NOT EVEN DATIN LAMAR....~*~
*FAV QUOTE*---I SMOKE WEED 2 4-GET MY DRINKING PROBLEM---LOL!~*~
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WEL YALL I'M HERE 4 N E BODY WHO NEEDS ADVICE OR JUST TALK!!! I REALLY BEEN THRU SUM SHIT IN MY LIFE!!! MY MOM IS IN JAIL N SHE IS A MAJOR CRAK HED N SO IS MY DAD...I BEEN IN JAIL/JUVI MYSELF LIKE 4 TIMES.... BEEN IN several FIGHTS N GOT JUMPED PLENTY OH TIMES N HAD MY FAIR SHARE OH ASS WOOPPINS!!! TRUST ME, WHERE I COME FROM, NIGAS N BITCHES dont PLAY!!!
YALL NEED 2 GET A GRIP... THIS SPELLING THING THAT SEEMS TO BOTHER YALL SO MUCH IS JUS ME I DO IT SO IT DOESNT TAKE AS LONG 2 WRITE THINGS.....

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i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months on wednesday...i told him we were taking a break and then when the time is right we would get back together. then yesterday, this guy asked me out and now we're together (we liked each other even when i was in the relationship but i wasnt going to cheat on my ex) but were keeping it low because it was definatly rushing into things. we were basically "together" for a while anyway it just wasnt offical. but anyway, today my friend is having a party at his house aand he asked my if it was ok if he invited my ex and i said sure, obviously not thinking. So both my ex and my current bf are going to be there. my bf is gonna wanna cuddle or something to watch fireworks and my ex doesnt know were together yet because were tryin to lay low. how do i prevent a big mess from become a HUGE one? please- anything will help!!

well anytime an ex sees you w/ your new guy then its gonna b a mess but you really have no choice but to jus go and deal w/ whatever happens...

p.s. you probly shoulda waited a lil while befor jumping into a new relationship...


jessica

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when your cherry pops does it hurt and if you no what does it feel like

well im sure it's diffrent 4 everybody.... but i had NO pain

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There is this guy I have had a crush on for about 3 years and I dont know what to do. I'm not into the idea of being 13 and having a boyfriend so I dont really want to date him. I'm not sure what to do. I freeze up whenever I pass him in the hallways and stuff, and I just don't know what to do. Please help me! I dont want it to be obvious that I liked him. It took me 2 years to actually get up the courage to tell my friends that I liked him even though I think they had a hunch. One of my friends thinks that he likes me. Oh, please help me.

girl chill out......... if u r too scared to tell him then hint to 1 of his good friends cuz trust me guys talk as much as grls.......

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hi i no this is a weird question but ear wax is supposed to be yellow and mine is white...does that mean anything bad or sumthing

~*i rate high*~

well i woodnt think if its been that way your whole life..... but if its jus startin then ...., i wood go to the doctor.

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i have a pimple and it is bugging me like it bugs most people but is there any way i can make it go away or get smaller by tomorrow? would putting toothpaste on it overnight help?

well try putting peroxide on it for like 30 mins so it will clean it, and yea then put toothpaste on it....

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Umm...on my 15 b day my friend gave me a vibrator like a solid one and it got some scratches on it after a while and yet i still use it! one day i was using it and it started to be painful and when i hit climax, i noticed it had blood on it and i think i have already popped my cherry and i kno it wasnt that time of the month, so could the scratches on the vibrator be cutting me? Please help thanx!

if you're not totally sure that your cherry has been popped already then thats prolly what it was but anyone w/ ANY sence would kno not to use a vibrator w/ scratches on it....

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Is there some kind of lotion or creme to help me get rid of stretch marks.....I kinda of grew alot and have them so....Can I get rid of them....I've also heard that Shea butter helps....Does it?

it reduces them but there is like NO way to get rid of them completely........
sorry..........

jessica

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How much does sex hurt and how can you not make it hurt i mean for the first time

its diffrent for each person....the only way to prevent pain is to just not have sex... u can tell the guy to take it easy though..

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what does it mean when a girl cums?

its when she busts a nutt.

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Is it wrong to watch porn while you masterbate?

no... what u do in your spare time is u for it


MORE POWER TO U

JESSICA

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i need help about a friend....we have been talking on the internet and like we have gotten so close...its unreal...but i lied about my identity...its not that i don't like the way i look this picture was a lot better...now i feel like a loser cuz i really want to tell him the truth but i am afraid that he won't talk to me anymore...and i really don't want that he is too fun@ HELP PLEASE! I will RATE REALLLLY HIGH!!!

honesty is always the best pollicy

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I think my parents are gonna get a divorce? What do i stop or help to prevent that?

there is nothng u can do bout your parents relationship... let them kno how u feel but if their set on devorcing then its probly final...

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people say im really pretty and nice but it doesn't seem like anybody wants to be my friend. should i be like hyper and wild? cuz i have noticed that people like hyper and wild friends. idk what do i do?

well u should never try to be anything that your not.. i think u should be yourself n you'll make friends..

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I'm not sure why, but latley I haven't been so happy lately. I mean I'm so sick of being me. I don't like my hair, im not as pretty as Miss popular. I dont dress as great as them and I've been alone alot latley cause none of my friends have been invitin me over anymore. I've been on a no sode low sugar diet and I lost my baby fat (im 13 and i weigh 105 lbs) so im noT like fat or anything but I somehow got off my diet and I just feel soo crappy I havent gotten back on. I hate me right now, what should I do?

Well its probly since your off your diet.. sugar effects a lot of your daily life.. you need to get your sugar on track and see if t his helps.

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how do u knowif your cherry is popped because i used to play sports (soccer) and i ride bikes sometimes!!

well i wood think not but u urself cant tell im pretty sure i gotta stick somthin up there to pop it

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hi. I was hoping one of you could help me. I used to smoke pot. not alot maybe 7 times. but i havent since april 20th(i quit). I was hoping if one of you could tell me if i have any THC in me at all. even if its like.. 2%?? after two months?? thanks.

nope ur good it takes 27 -34 days to get out of ur system

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Hey I always get eyeliner that smudges.... any ideas for one that doesn't or very little smudge?

i think marykay is the best.... liquid has really never worked 4 me

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WARNING: This is one of those gross girly questions about tampons. If you can't handle it, stop reading now.


Ok, so. I just started using tampons, and I'm a little concerned that I'm doing something wrong. I've noticed that when I take it out, one side of the tampon tends to have "stuff" on it, and the other doesn't. And it seems like I heard somewhere that this was a bad thing. Can anyone tell me if I'm doing something wrong? Or is this normal?

Thanks a ton. Sorry about the embarrassing question, but I had to ask.

no it isnt normal u jus havnt put it in right .... jus try positioning it diffrent next time

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Sometimes after I finsh masturbate I start leaking.Is that noramal?If not how can i make it stop?Plese help me!

yep that wood be the natural thing to do...

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ok heres the thing. im a christain and i pray to god when ever i can, but i always tend to block god out of my life when im happy. i only pray to him when im sad. i want to spend more time with god when im happy, but to tell you the truth...i dont really know what to say....HELP ME PLEASE!

well im a christian n i jus tell God what im feeling right then and if i need help w/ n e thing i ask for help..





~*$*~Jessica

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