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Q: Okay so me and my boyfriend have sex. The problem is is that everytime he touches me down there, it tickles. I am horribly ticklish and it drives me insane. I feel as if this is putting a strain on our relationship. Any ideas??
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well just tell him a head of time that if you start to luagh your ticklish lol :)
just try and stay calm think of something else relax too if you tense because you know your ticklish then your gonna be even more tickilish and laugh harder :)
hope this helped a little
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Q: For the first time I tried weed.
i only took one hit though
i did it march 24th 07 and today is April 12th 07
Do you think its still in my system?
p.s. i havent done any drugs since
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yeah it is still in your system most likely. it depends on how much you inhailed it. if you didnt inhail deeply then its probably not in your system but if you did then wait a week or two
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Q: i want more guy friends. like, it's not even about getting or a boyfriend or flirting or anything. i'm just SOOO tired of all the stupid, immature, catty drama that comes along with girl friends. i have a couple guy friends, but not alot - only one really good one. how do i make more? i really want more really good guy friends. any advice? thanks so much!
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ok so you say you have a couple of good guy friends so for mean time hang with them. after a while ask them if they want to go to the movies and bring some of thier friends.tell them the more the marrier lol it worked for me now i have tons of friends that are guys.
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Q: This moring i woke up from my cell phone cause it rang. i pick it up and it was a text message from a friend of mind. she send me a message that read:
"hahahaha your a dork"
I reply "geeek"
we kept sending insulting comments back to each other. till i ask her why was she sending me these texts.
"boredom" she reply
"YOU WOKE ME UP CAUSE YOU WERE BORED! your going 2 get it!" I reply
"thank you thankyou" she reply
"thank you for what?"
"4 saying im going to get it" she reply
then she send a message that she had something for me i reply with a joke "what my soul?"
she said Im not getting that back.
I know it sounds like kiddish game playing but we always do this to each other. I tell her that she is evil and she gets happy about that even when i say to her i hate you.
So is that a form of flirting or playing around?
she send me anthoer text that she was bored in class i reply "I wish i was there, but you might kill me hehehe" "sooo sweet" she reply
it might be nothing but what do you all think?
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well i definetly tink it is some kind of flirting
rather it is a huge thig or a litlte one. let me tell you, i do the same thing. and all girls that sit and joke around with guys or girls whatever are flirting,
lol yes its odd but for girls it works cause guys do it abck. you oddly find alot out about eachother :)
and you know just try talking to her and be like so do you like anyone? youll find out
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Q: I really need a b/f all the guys except one is nice and stuff to me...what should I do?
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well whatever you do dont push yourself into a relationship becasue they never end up working and if things work out they will when they are supposed to just wait it out. i mean go on a couple dates but dont oush into a relationship
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Q: so i bought wax so i could do my own eyebrows. So anyway everytime i put the hot wax on my eye brows and then get a piece of wax paper to pull it off the wax doesnt come off with the wax paper. What am i doing wrong?
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wait a minute or two it has to cool then pull it off :)
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Q: for a few months i've been overly freakish about what i eat. whenever i eat, i feel so bad that i ate it and i feel so fat. i told this to my friend and she said that she thought i looked really skinny lately, but she didn't want to say anything. i can't eat food without looking at the calories and daily percentages and fat and stuff and it's driving me insane..i just ate dinner and i feel so fat, and it was only 300-350 calories, which isn't a lot for dinner. what can i do to stop this??
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well try drinking what witch will make you get a tste craving and you will want t oeat ,just when you eat even if you look at the calories tell your self you will only eat half, and most likely you will end up eating it more, dont frea out if you feel fat just take a minute take a shower lol its relaxing after wards :)
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Q: My closest female friend is always with me. We spend alot of time together. More recently when we are alone we just talk and look giddly at eachother. When laughing, she tends to lean on me and if a song or somthing comes on and we're not talking, she'll lay her head across on my lap (we're in a car). She may even move my hand so that I am holding her, and she gently takes my hand. When we are talking like this or just looking at eachother we are very close (physically). I dont know if she would want me to kiss her, in fact I think about it all the time! Whenever there is an awkward silence and we just gaze at eachother instead of doing anything we just laugh giddly. I am so unsure of what she wants. I know what I want ;-). I would have no problem hooking up with her at the every impulse or at least whenever I read the situation that asks for it. But I don't know if that is what she wants too. I don't want this to be awkward but the constant punding of my head with this confusing situation is driving me crazy! I can't just say, "hey want me to kiss you" because that would destroy any mood at the moment, and who knows! Maybe she is just expecting me to kiss her, and know what she wanted. what does she want, why won't she just say "kiss me" if she really wanted me to. Does that mean she wants to keep the relationship the way it is currently?! Should I just make the move at her and see what happens (We have hooked up before, but she always initiates). It's not that i'm afraid or anything, I just have no 'friggen clue what she wants!
*please also, don't say talk to her about it. because i've tried this. doesn't turn out properly.
so - do i make the move when i think she wants me to kiss her? even though she really hasnt made any suggestion that she wants it
any help at all is much appreciated
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def. go for it, i know exactly what your going through. me and my bestfreidn are the same way. and sometime we willl always be in a situation where can i have the perfect oppertunity to kiss her but im so scared as to whats running through her mind and i dont want her to feel uncomfortable so i dont. but look at it this way if you dont do it soon your never gonna find out and you'll end up regreting it. i mean heck if you guys are so close what does it amtter, i mean if you kiss her and she dosnt want it, your her bestfriend so its fine. and if she goes in for it you could end up having the best relationship of your life
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Q: Okay so this may sound gross or weird, but whatever. i need some advice. first of all, i need to know ways to smoothly shave the pubic area. every time i shave down there, even with a new razor, it isnt very smoothe and it will get bumps. what can i do to get a clean shave? and also i am thinking about waxing my upper lip. i used to bleach it, but it got bright blonde and fuzzy, so if i use those waxing strips that you're supposed to use at home, do you know how fast the hair will grow back, and will it grow back thicker?!?!
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you can actually use nair in your pubic area
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Q: in our schooll, its like french-kissing, but other places i think it means sex? or does it.....
thanks in advvv.
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it depends alot of people i know just take hooking up as making out or in your words "french kissing" but i think whe npeopl use the term hooking and mean it like sex its for when your older there fore hooking up=making out=teenagers
and hooking up=sex=adults
hope i helped
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Q: my friends having a 16th birthday party. its reall big and for clothes your suppsed to wear something you ormally dont. It can be anything. But i cant think of something. I want something noone will have. But not to costume-y like i dont want it to look like its halloween. any ideas
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try a nice dress , perhaps a teal color. teal looks good on a lot of poeple :)
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Q: How do i make sex alot better for my partner? We have alot of sex but it seems like we do The same thing everytime! But we do do alot of different posistions But how do i get on top and ride him to where i dont get tired?And how do i make the sex better?
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if you are on top and want to make it better with ot getting tired try kinda of leaning torwards him alittle like lay on him kind of .use his ches tas a pillow when your doing that though kind of push your slef up :)
hope it works for you
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Q: well, i volunteered to do this slideshow thing for the 8th graders that's leaving this schoolyear. the slideshow is a baby picture of all the 8th graders. we have a lot of "ghetto" people, and i wanna put songs that everybody will like. i have a lot of pop and slow songs, i guess, but barely any hip-hop/ rap songs. do you have any suggestions? i would really love it. it should be related to graduating or something like that.
thanks.
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a real good one is "i'll be missing you " from -p.diddy
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Q: i have REALLY REALLY REALLY fat thighs, and i look HORRIBLE in jeans, and pants and anything! my thighs like touch at the top and are really fat......what are good excersizes 2 get rid of the fat on my thighs?!
thnx in advanced!
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running actually burns alot of it off or if you like the water you can swi mor do water polo. i know i lik eto sit in an intertube butt down and sprint it really works i lost alot :)
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Q: 17/F
ok, so i just recently broke it off with my boyfriend of a year and a half and it ended well until he said some s**t that really got to me and i was tired of nein hurrt so i want nothing to do with him.. i think. my thing is, once you hurt me my guard is up and itll take a lot for it to go back down.. then my best friend(a guy) and i have not hung out in a while so were catchin up on old times but a couple nights i had a dream that my best friend and i "did some things" that i never EVER had a thought about doin with him.. i know im starting to get feeling for him n the dream didnt help at all n i kno hes crushed on me before but i dont know what to do. i dont want a relationship right now AND him and my ex are pretty good friends now... what do i do?! please tell me something, sorry its so long
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well the best thing to do is, make sure he still likes you and that your feelings are secure. if you dont want a relationship right now then just play it cool for a while its always fun to be single because that way when you get in to a relationship you realize how much you've missed it and it will last longer...get my drift :)!
and if your ex has a problem with it then let him say something i mean after all it is his fault you guys arnt talking anymore. just go slowly on this i mean if you hook up or are flirting with someone else and all you can think baout is your bestfriend then its an obvious anwser! and about your dream it dosnt really mean anything i have the mall the time with people i wouldnt imagine it was probably just casue you were with hi mand hadnt been in a very long time.
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Q: Hey im a 13/f and i have just gotin out of a years relation ship. and the guy that i was dateing dumped me and wont say why. So his best friend conner who i have known since i was a baby has been txting me all the time and has been flerting with me. and saying ll this cute stuff and he has asked me out i haven't answered cuz i dont know what i shuld say. Is it wrong to be dateing his best friend who is also one of my bestfriends??? Please help me cuz i need it.
Love,
Bubble2Gum
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well dont let it get all stuc kin your head your only 13.it all depends really, how long have you been out of this relationship and are youa nd your ex still friends just ask and anwser yur own questions.
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Q: eversence last summer i feel like everything in my life is going wrong.ok first of all i better tell you what happened last summer.my granny got lung cancer at the beginning of last summer.the caner was gone too far to opperate on it so it was like she was just slipping away in front of your eyes.she died at the end of july, july 25th.she went into a coma she was in it for 3 to 4 days.i wasnt at home when she got really sick i was gone on holidays with my cousin.i came home early and rushed to see my granny i didnt realise she was in the coma i just knew she was really sick and on my way in to see her my dad just said to me are you ready to say GOODBYE i got the shock of life when he said it.i just sat on the bed holding her hand staring at her i felt like running out of the room and not coming back.that was the last time i had seen her a live.the next few days are just a blurr.sence then im fighting with everyone im gone really cheeky to my mam and dad .my b/f said i could tell him everything but i just cant.his mother had cancer so he understands but i cant any time i start talking about her i start crying (im crying now writing this.ive completely changed.i try to think of the times she wasnt sick and she was so happy but i cant.i just want to be happy again.please give me some advice,xxaoifexxx
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first off your right its not easy to talk about these things even to the ppl you know you tell everything to, and ive been your exact situation with my grandma and everything, what you have to reme is watching down on everything you do, and she knows you care and if she was with you right now she would hat eto see you upset. im sure your parenst are worried whats up with you but what you have to relize is not to blame them its not they're fault and not only are they upset about your granny but its making them more upset to see you so sad. remember they love you and she is looking down on you, try and just be calm its not easy losing someone. buts its def, not hard to settle with it.
hope i helped if you ever need help my email is nayez23@yahoo.com my name is shenaye :)
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Q: 14/F
Okay, I like this guy. A lot. In fact, I think I'm in love with him. We talk and stuff, and he's really sweet, but he's still in that 6th grade-boyish phase. The one where he only hangs out with guys, has never had a girlfriend, doesn't hug girls, doesn't hang out with them on weekends, and the word "girlfriend" never crosses his mind. He's really goofy, not at all attractive, and gets in trouble a lot for being a smart ass in school, but I love him. I'm gonna hang out with him soon with some of my other friends, but I just don't know how to get him to like me. I'd be way more confident if he's had a previous girlfriend, or has hung out with girls before, or another girl was attracted to him, but technically, I'm the first official one, so it's going to be more difficult than it seems. I know he's in percussion, and he's a great singer, (but doesn't persue singing), and I sing too...but still, I'm not sure how I'm going to do this. For once, I'm at a brick wall and don't know how to climb over it. Help would be greatly appriciated.
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well first off remember you uys are young theres no reason to rus hit :) if you like him then just try and become better friends with him first get to know him a litte bit more and go from there. see how well he acts around you and see if hes really wha tyour looking for
let me know how it works out
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Q: Okay sorry this is so long....
ight....my name is sarah,im white and im 15...i date this boy named brandon,hes black and hes 17 and i just turned 15 in march and hes about to turn 18 in may...well we been dateing since march 24th-2007 and when we were on the phone he said babe are you ready to fuck me and i told him no because im still a virgin and we only been goin out for 2 weeks.He said i better set a date or its over.So i told him ill be ready friday.Well we just started talking and he was like babe i got somethin to tell you but i wanna say it to your face but I LOVE YOU!!so i said i love you too.WEll he always tells me well be together forever no matter what.Well all my friends tell me were rushing but i never felt this way about a guy befor in my life.I just dont no what to do because my plan was to brake up with him thursday because im not ready to fuck him yet.Hes everything i ever wanted in a guy.The only thing is he wont wait until im ready.and everytime he says i love you and he blows kisses in the phone and always calls me baby...well when ever i hear his say that stuff to me its like i cry all over again and i just dont no what to do with him...
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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its not easy going through and the ebst thing you have to say is would you rather give your self up for something your not ready to do oor lose your own dignity. if your not ready then your not read yand he needs to understadn that tell him thta if he really does love you he will respect our decision
tell me how it goes
my email is nayez23@yahoo.com :)
and i hope everythings goes well
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Q: SORRY ITS SO LONG BUT I REALLLLLYYY NEED HELP!!!
okay i have no clue what to do anymore so yeahh...
theres this girl and lets just call her "betty"
okay so betty and i have been best friends since we were reallllyyy little we were more like sisters and suddenly things have changed well im a year older than her so i knew it would be hard to stay friends when i went to highschool and she was still in eigth grade but i made time to hang out with her EVERY weekend and was so happy when she finally grad. i couldnt wait for her to come to high school
when she first got to high school she was acting weird and i told her she wasnt acting like herself and she fixed it then everything was fine until about 2 or 3 months ago when she decided to do cheerleading...
she met lots of guys while doing cheerleading and met other guys through the basketball ones but she had a boyfriend (who i HATED -- he treated her like dirt but she said she really liked him so i dealt) ANYWAYS...
we got into a fight because she was never around and was acting different AGAIN. during the fight she called me and said you know what if you dont think i care then your crazy to prove it ill tell you something only "mary"(her other close friend who always tryed to take my place in "betty"s life) knows so she told me that she had broken up wwith her bf. because she had UNPROTECTED sex with another guy and she felt bad about cheating and couldnt tell him.
i was SHOCKED because i havent even had sex and shes a year younger... so anyway i got worried that she was pregnant but it turned out she wasnt and the guy she had sex with was a JERK so then she kinda blew me off more and more for "mary" and then i found out she was getting drunk and stumbling around town like that on the weekends and later found out she was smoking weed.
between all this madness we had many fights and i told her she was ruining her entire life but deep down i knew she was doing all this for attention since her sister was perfect and her parents favored her sister soooo much more and go out all the time and ignore her ... but we had gotten over all the fights and everything...
so then she went away weekend before break with "mary" they came back and she was talking to me on aim and i told her i was at her really long time ago EXs house that day and he had a pic of her on his bulletin board and she was like well you took it down right and i was like no its his room i cant just take things down ya know and she like well im mad at you now and im like are you kidding i didnt do it because honestly "betty" he really loved you and he even told me that he really did love you and you know he treated you like a princess and like no other guy has or probably will treat you
and she was like no i dont think he did i dont know and at this point i had to go eat dinner so i was like alright well ill bbs maybe when i come back youll reliaze how much he really loved you and how well he treated you and shes like why are you trying to run my life? and i was like are you kidding im just trying to help
and from there the conversation got really bad and full of insults and curses
and now we are no longer friends at all and we basically hate eachother but its just crazy to see her change so much and i really love this girl shes a sister to me and she had EVERYTHING good going for her shes soooo pretty and graduated as validvictorian of her eigth grade...
and i just hate that shes not herself anymore i miss the girl she used to be my best friend
thank you so much for even taking the time to read this...
i really hope someone can help me help her
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i know what your going throug halot of ppl probably do, and its no fu n iknow, alot of people change in highschool some good and others bad. this girl how ever close you guys were, well it seems like you were pretty close you know her better then anyone and even if it seems like she hates you deep dwon she stll does care for you trust me i know its happened to me before just try and talk to her let her know even if you do this in a letter tell her your sorry for wha tahppened if she trys and acts like she dosn tcare just say "you know im not sorry for what happened im just sorry for the way it happened tell her your still here for her and you miss her and maybe you guys can go out to lunch sometime and talk" im sure she would like taht
hope i helped let me know how it works out.
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ok lets see well my name is
Shenaye and im 16 years old.my life is'nt perfect but then again not alot of peoples are.i guess you can say i care about things way to much but i just like to say im sensitive. I'm very emotionally attached to people but I rather love then never know the feeling. I love giving people advice, I learn to listen to people's problem's more and more each day, My friends say I'm really good at it. It may not always be right but at least its something to fall back on if nothing else works right? anyways I've been through alot more in my life then alot of people can say they have: family,love,friends,abuse,drugs,suicicde attempts. and many more I dont like to really talk about it but I know its made me a way stronger person then I once was.
My friends are my life you mess with them i'llpull an operation beatdown on you
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