i want more guy friends. like, it's not even about getting or a boyfriend or flirting or anything. i'm just SOOO tired of all the stupid, immature, catty drama that comes along with girl friends. i have a couple guy friends, but not alot - only one really good one. how do i make more? i really want more really good guy friends. any advice? thanks so much!
kitzykat answered Monday April 9 2007, 11:08 am: you know your really good guy friend? uh huh? Well, say, hey why don't we go to a movie this weekend, or some random get together. Tell him he can invite some of his friends, then invite some of your other guy friends to get to know them better. BAM! dude friends. the thing is, you have to try to. Laugh when ever one of them burps out loud, get in on the fun, (unless it's illegal, then shut the party down) and alk to them. Try inviting at least one girlfriend along too, though, so the guys don't get suspisious of you being the only girl there. They mightget a little mad this chick is disrupting guy time [ kitzykat's advice column | Ask kitzykat A Question ]
christina answered Saturday April 7 2007, 1:51 am: Talk to your guy friends some more, and become friends with their frineds if at all possible.
x0advice4y3w answered Friday April 6 2007, 11:12 pm: I completly agree.
When you see a guy friend start a convo with them. Try and join on the convos that they're already having. They're very easy to get along with and not complicated to understand. Just find a guy friend that you have already and be like "Hey, let's hang out with your friends today."
XkittyOkatX answered Friday April 6 2007, 9:13 pm: Haha, this makes me soo happy I've got a big group of guy friends.
Warning you, though.. the only thing that can get dramatic with these guy friends, is that once they start to like you.. things may get awkward..
My reccomendation; honestly act like a guy. Haha, not in a gross, burping, ect. way, but make jokest all the time, and don't act really shy! Also, hang out with a big group of them. That's basically how I got to be good friends with my guy friends.
You said you've got one really good guy friend? Maybe talk to some of his friends. It's always great when everyone knows each other well. It makes a kind of 'crew' and it's amazing. =)
orphans answered Friday April 6 2007, 9:09 pm: hey
couldn't agree more.
in class, if you sit next to a guy you want to become better friends with & you just got back a test, without sounding nosy, just be like, "ugh i wish i had done better!" or "OMG thank god" & be like, "what did you get?" that's a great conversation starter.
just be yourself & you will be accepted by guys. start getting their screen names & just casual talk. like, did you start the project, or are you going on vacation anywhere this summer? it's all about the talking - in person & online / out of school [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
looloo12 answered Friday April 6 2007, 8:59 pm: get to know your one really god guy friend's friends. if your friends with him you'll probably be able to become friends with them. just hang out with more guys and talk with them and get to see what stuff you have in common. basically talk to them as if they were girls. (except dont talk about makeup, clothes etc..)
pacsunnnx3 answered Friday April 6 2007, 8:58 pm: my best friend is a girl and all my other friends are mostly guys. anyway, start hanging out with your one guy friend more and have him introduce you to more of his friends and then you'll start talking and hanging out with them too. you seem to have the right personality to be friends with guys so i don't think you'll have a problem at all :) goodluck [ pacsunnnx3's advice column | Ask pacsunnnx3 A Question ]
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