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love of my live.. and my best friend
17/F
ok, so i just recently broke it off with my boyfriend of a year and a half and it ended well until he said some s**t that really got to me and i was tired of nein hurrt so i want nothing to do with him.. i think. my thing is, once you hurt me my guard is up and itll take a lot for it to go back down.. then my best friend(a guy) and i have not hung out in a while so were catchin up on old times but a couple nights i had a dream that my best friend and i "did some things" that i never EVER had a thought about doin with him.. i know im starting to get feeling for him n the dream didnt help at all n i kno hes crushed on me before but i dont know what to do. i dont want a relationship right now AND him and my ex are pretty good friends now... what do i do?! please tell me something, sorry its so long
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well the best thing to do is, make sure he still likes you and that your feelings are secure. if you dont want a relationship right now then just play it cool for a while its always fun to be single because that way when you get in to a relationship you realize how much you've missed it and it will last longer...get my drift :)!
and if your ex has a problem with it then let him say something i mean after all it is his fault you guys arnt talking anymore. just go slowly on this i mean if you hook up or are flirting with someone else and all you can think baout is your bestfriend then its an obvious anwser! and about your dream it dosnt really mean anything i have the mall the time with people i wouldnt imagine it was probably just casue you were with hi mand hadnt been in a very long time.
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Of coarse you dont want a relationship right now...i totally understand that. Your were hurt and youu dont want to make another mistake. Also, scince your ex and your best friend are kinda friends that'll make it all the more harder. But...wut you could do is, get a "moment" alone with your best friend. Weather its at your locker while no one is watching, or afterschool helping out in the hallway. wutever. You should let him now you've devoloped feeling for him. Something like "You've been really on my mind lately...and I sort of have feelings for you...but its totally cool if you dont" you know...
But you absolutlly MUST include that you cant start a relationship right away. That you would like it if you took it slow. And that you care for him.
If any more questions just msg me. Hope it helped!!!!!
-MaRii
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