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Q: I am about to go crazy. I like Lany but than again I hate him for not likeing me and all the other things he has done to me so what I am going to do is give Lany a note saying that I love him and Im not going to sign my name and then he will never now who it is untill I decide to tell him and im ganna type it so that he really wont know its me so do you think I should do this or not?Please hury im loseing my mind.

OMG haha i know exactly what your going though!!
me and my friends were thinking to do that to the guy i like.
but we didnt cuz it sorta diffrent.. rumors can go around the skool well our skool
i say Go for it! lol

-iceicebabyM

Q:

what is the cheapest diet pill out there? how much is it? where can i buy it? what is the safest, how much is it, where can i buy it? i know many of you will say diet pills are dangerous.. i know that but i need to lose weight.. please give me stories if you know anyone who has tried them, or personal experiences. thanks in advance

i know this might seem sooo annoying cause like you know its dangerouse and all haha
but ijust want to warn you
that it could mess up your body badly..
just dont be so lazy get up and exersice nd eat healthier and its way more safer think about it
you can be slim and healthy and fit haha :D
im sory this isnt the answer you were looking for i just wanted to warn you!!:D

-icebabym!

Q: I messed up with this guy that I was really into. It's been about a month or so since we've really, really talked. I let a friend influence me to tell him that I didn't want him calling me anymore. From the moment I said it, I've regretted it every single second. It was a lie. Tomorrow he's bringing me to work because he's going to do some work on my car while I'm at work...I told him Saturday I wanted to talk to him and if he had 15-30 minutes, I wouldn't take too much of his time. He said he was working Sunday, but he'd give me a call. He never called me. Well, I called his job today about my car and ended speaking to him and he told me instead of bringing it late today, to bring it tomorrow morning and he would drive me to work and drop me off and pick me up later. So, I want to take this opportunity to talk to him for a few minutes...how do I go about apologizing for being a complete idiot and telling him that i miss him...

just be like
hey.
im really sorry about what happend..
i regret that i said that..
and itl never happend again
and i dunt know why i did it
it was just a stupid mistake..
see if that works :D

-iceicebabym!

Q: 16/f
i know this kid who's really sweet. he's skater and he smokes cigarettes and pot and he drinks like every weekend. he's really nice to me and makes an effort to talk to me even if it's about something stupid. for example, if he was absent he'll ask me what we did in class even though i know he doesn't care what we did. he says he's going to try to stop smoking pot but he hasn't done it yet. personally i don't like smokers. i don't want to "kiss an ashtray" but he is really sweet and i heard he might like me from a friend of his. so do i make an effort and forget about the bad things and just have a relationship with him or is it just too many bad things to ignore?

continue talking to him
be friends with him when your close to him
then you help him stop drinkin and stuff
hope i helped
ICEM

Q: I have never been made fun of in my entire life. I am pretty popular, and am I what I would consider very nice. Well, recently, this girl, Alyise, decided it would be funny if she sort of made fun of me. I am shocked and rather pissed, since this is the 1st time I have gotten like jabbed at. It's not like I want to be friends with her, but I would really like her to stop. I don't want to look bitchy, or super sensitive, which I am, but don't really show it all the time. I don't know why she would do this, since I have never really talked to her or anything. What should I do?

Go up to her and talk to her about it
tell her to stop talking bout you even thou she doesnt even know
she has to know shes messing with the wronge girl.
be confident

hope i helped =]

IceIceM

Q: What is wrong with me?
I'm 16/F, I KNOW that I dont need one, but I want a boyfriend. And you can tell me that I'm young all you want, but honestly, what sixteen year old doesn't want a boyfriend or girlfriend?

I think I'm decent looking, maybe even cute (haha), I'm a really nice caring person, I dont even know, I dont really dont know how exactly to 'meet' guys and when to know if a relationship is actually "potential", what do I do? I need help!

Look here,
i know that you Want a boyfriend, but theres no magiccal way for that to happen.. just wait
who cares if people say,
that girl is 16 without a boyfriend!
why do you care?
its good for you to wait,dont go pick up a boyfriend that you dont like just because you want people to know "ihave a boyfried." ,just wait the right One will Pop out one day
be patient, oh yeah and theres nothing wronge with not having a boyfriend at your age its normal..

iceicebabyM

Q: how do you know if your TRULY in love?

true. if you ask your not
but look love is a feeling of happiness
you would know when your inlove
its just a feeling a happy feeling
when your inlove youll look back to this question and laugh =]

hope ihelped =]
ICeM

Q: okayi dont understand why people say.. theres no such thiing in the world as love at a younge age..
i mean feelings are feelings
i just want your opinions
on what you think of it

no, i do not think that there is a certian age for love
feelings are feelings
dont listen to anyone that tells you other than that==]

ice

Q: 13/f

I need a site that gives GREAT, I mean, amazing, no, FABULOUS, Itachi pictures. Itachi Uchiha from Naruto is who I'm talking about, duh. I'm trying to edit some pictures and I need a good site. Not photobucket, I've already got all da pictures there. I need one betta than that. I've tried a lot of sites, but I have dial up, so my computer only shows certain sites. OH! and if you could PLEASE send me an editing site for pictures that'd be great! and by editing I mean like a site where you can take two pics and put them together and make it look realistic! THANK YOU!!!!

--Izzy Uchiha! ^/_\^

p.s PLEASE ANSWER TO THIS ASAP!!!!!!!!!

hey
theres a site i gave you last time its Quizilla.com.
just search for it
and you could search google =]

Q: I'm a sophomore girl..

Okay, so there's this nerdy guy that sits in front of me. (the definition of NERD, I swear) and he's sooo nice. But he doesn't shut up! He just talks and talks and talks when nobody's listening he continues on talking about how he cracked the computer system at our school or something and nobody cares...and w/e..He has dandruff that flies off and is VERY visible on his head, he wears glasses (nothing against that, of course) and has a lot of acne. His voice is annoying and monotonous(sp?). And when he has no one else to talk to (usually) he just talks to ME! And he says annoying, uninteresting things about computers that I could care less about. How do I politely show him I'm uninterested? Sometimes he gets me in trouble with the teacher for talking!

he's really nice and I don't wanna be mean :(!

i have a problem likethis one but he doesnt talk bout computers
and hese not nerdy well in my world i think itst pretty mean to say that
anyways
just tell him
"im sorry but i dont wanna hear about it "
nicely
so hewont get sad
or mad

hope i helepdbye

Q: why do i see people spitting on the ground randomly while walking by?

im guessin they dont like this world so much
ignore them
But
aswell some people just spit
because they cant hold it in thier mouth or something
and thye have no where else at the moment to do it

Q: is there any way to get rid of an annoying friend?

haha "rid" harsh word lol
just back up one by one
keep your distance one by one

hope i helped =]

iceicebabyM

Q: i need some advice on how to talk to boys. its kinda hard. becuz sometimes i just say the stupidest things.
advice??

thanx. :]

-act normal
-i always think about what im going to say in my mind before i say it so i dont mess up
-make jokes.
-be random
haha thats all i do

Q: 13/F

People are always insulting me and my friends about watching Naruto, Bleach etc... They say its a baby show. First off, it is not. There's porn in it, for God's SAKE!!!!!!!!! What do I tell peopel who tease me and my friends? I tried to ignore it, but now it's just pissing me off. I'm obsessed with anime. So are my friends, we shouldn't be judged should we?!

p.s if you're the matt guy who keeps insulting me on this thing, don't you dare leave any advice, cuz you're making me mad. See? I finally posted a question about your anime cruelty! You should be surprised I ain't got ninjas on yo ass!!!! ^/_\^
p.p.s not a threat, it's a joke, pth! ^/_\^

okay maybe you shoulld stop talking about anime to other people?
if you dont want them insulting you
and honestly ive been seeing talk uabout it alot.. its pretty much annoying no offence..
maaybe just top asking about naruto or just stop witing the whole ^/_etc.. thingy so ppl wont know who you are..

im sorry for being mean
but i jsust wanted to make it clear=]]
byebye

-Iceicebabym

Q: 16/f
so i like 2 guys and i dont know which one to focus on or which is even worth going out with.
guy number one:
-he's a very close friend
-i know him much better than the other guy
-we talk everyday
-we say hi in the hallway
-we "play fight"
-he's rich! but im not materialistic
bad stuff:
-he is possibly getting back with his ex who has only caused him pain and misery
-i don't think he likes me
-he has anger issues

guy number 2:
-he's really nice
-he flirts with me
-in class he asks me to sit near him
-his friends were teasing him about liking me and he was like "shut up go away"
-he's alright looking, not an amazing hottie
bad stuff:
-he smokes pot and cigarettes
-he rarely says hi in the hallway or in a study hall we have together...he only says hi in a different class that we have
-he doesn't have a job

i don't know what i should do. there isn't anyone else at my school that i like.

help!

1) the fist guy is getting back with his ex.. lol..

2) the number 2 guy
maybe you could help him quit smokin.. and
you could say hey first?
and he could get a job anytime
haha i say number 2.

i hope i helepd
^^ICEICEBABymilusmb

Q: Lice is going around my school. What can I do to prevent getting it and how long to lice live when they aren't in hair?

yeah well you sound like one..

Q: I can't handle this. My boyfriend of 7 months and I broke up a few weeks ago. Since the day we called it quits, I haven't been able to sleep normally or function in school. I'm constantly thinking about him or getting jealous over every girl he hugs. Its not that I even have feelings for him, its that I hate that he's happy and I'm not. I get headaches so much and I'm constantly battling with myself to stop thinking about him. I try to do things to fake happy to rub in his face, or to make him jealous, and nothing works. How do I get my life back and just forget about him?

you have to give it some time
its normal for you to get mad
i would too
just be happy not for him
but for yourself. when your around him go hang out with somone else
or be happy walk with your friends and laugh get your mind off of him and when you see him pretend you cant
i hope this workss
just try it

^IICEICEEBABY^

Q: im a really bad fingernail biter. reallly bad like since i was a lil' kid. i want to know if theres anything that will have my nails grow faster so i can get a nice manicure+pedicure.

okay whenever you feel that you have to bite your nails go do something else
or :
when you wanna bite it!
be like no
!!
i want a manicure! and pedicure
lol
my ways

HOPE I HELPED **

^^ICEICEBABYM

Q: there`s this guy that i keep going back 2 weve never gone out but weve talked about me liking him but he never said he liked me back...i really like him but i dont no if he likes me back...we always hangout 2 gether @ parties and fieldtrips...and we flirt all the time sometimes he puts his arm around me but her flirts with a lot of the girls but somethings he only does to me or at least ive what ive seen...sometimes hes really sweet but sometimes hes a jerk :( hes really out going and i just wanna no how i can find out if he likes me back or if it sound like he does...your advice plez!

well , i think he likes you!
aww so cute lol
but at the same time
ask him.. jut be like i like you do you like me back
=]

i hope i helped

iceicebabym

Q: i want to put the song hey ma by cam'ron on as my myspace song but i can only find the remixes of it. where can i find the orginal version to add it to my myspace profile