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a couple guys
16/f
so i like 2 guys and i dont know which one to focus on or which is even worth going out with.
guy number one:
-he's a very close friend
-i know him much better than the other guy
-we talk everyday
-we say hi in the hallway
-we "play fight"
-he's rich! but im not materialistic
bad stuff:
-he is possibly getting back with his ex who has only caused him pain and misery
-i don't think he likes me
-he has anger issues
guy number 2:
-he's really nice
-he flirts with me
-in class he asks me to sit near him
-his friends were teasing him about liking me and he was like "shut up go away"
-he's alright looking, not an amazing hottie
bad stuff:
-he smokes pot and cigarettes
-he rarely says hi in the hallway or in a study hall we have together...he only says hi in a different class that we have
-he doesn't have a job
i don't know what i should do. there isn't anyone else at my school that i like.
help!
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The real question is what does your gut feeling tell you about these guys. Maybe neither one of them is right for you. Who said Mr Right would attend your school anyway? Isn't it better to see someone away from all the prying eyes and gossip of friends and haters?
Guy number one sounds like he has emotional baggage to deal with. Maybe being closer than friends is something he doesn't want to do, because if you date then break up, he'll lose you as a friend, too.
Guy number two sounds like he's only interested in you when certain others are looking. Does his smoking bother you? Don't expect people to change because you want or ask them to. They won't, and might hold your opinions against you. As for no job, unless you're prepared to pay his way on every date, keep walking. He's depending on people like you to take care of him so he won't have to.
Sometimes the right people are in front of us and we completely space on them. They always have a smile, no matter who's around. They ask about you, remember things about you, and offer help if/when they can. Who do you know who answers that description? Look around again - dating is no fun if you're the only one in love.
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Well if guy one gets back with his x it aint going to be possible is it?
and also if hes a REALLY good friend then it could mean compromising your fiendship with him a little so think about that before going in that direction, anger issues can also be helped and sorted out so dont let that put you of as long as hes not agressive to you.
As for guy number two it doesnt matter if he smokes really i mean he could stop any time, does he really have to have a job? he might be looking for one you never know.
If it was me id say guy number two but its your choice i hope this helps both seem like nice guys
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1) the fist guy is getting back with his ex.. lol..
2) the number 2 guy
maybe you could help him quit smokin.. and
you could say hey first?
and he could get a job anytime
haha i say number 2.
i hope i helepd
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Obviously the first guy you know better bt you dont know if he likes you and he may be getting back with his ex, i think guy 2 is your best option. Its just not good that he smokes pot but if you go out with him you could ask him to stop =/
hope that helps a little
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