i just want to keep myself annonymous to any one who might know my regular user name (which is my nickname) but a little about me is i love to play my guitar alot, skateboarding, snowboarding and trying to help people even though i suck at putting the words in the right order to make it say what i'm thinking -_-
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ok, so heres the rundown.. me and my girlfriend of almost a year, ill go ahead give names and ages.. (as bad as that sounds.) shelby-14 and daniel-16 (me) i konw you want to quickly judge us based on age, but we love eachother.. we do. as much as i do love "getting some" that is not why im with her. im with her because i love her, we laugh, cry, joke, and we sometimes argue a bit. anyways, we had sex, in a public bathroom, and well... her mom found out. she knows we used pretection.. but.. she wants to not let us see eachother.. i mean.. i went to cozumels for cinco de mayo (cozumels is a mexican resturant) and her family was there... they saw me and they immidiately left... (they didnt order yet).. because of me... i mean.. i have to see her. i will wait the full 4 years if i have to.. but i cannot allow that to happen.. we will both spend 4 years of misery.. and i wound like to intervene... somehow.. i sent her mom a long txt.. nothing too personal, just telling her about me loving her, and that i want a long realationship with her... didnt work. needless to say i only sent 1 txt.. i mean, i dont wanna harrass anyone.. anyways.. help plz?.. just any suggestions im up for.. (link)
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If your true to your word you will wait for 4 years, but will she? i know its not in your mind at the moment to leave this how it is and get on with life but wouldnt it be easier? her parents are obviously a little raged up about it and im sure she's hurting over it now as well because well yeah you both have been through "it" together (im guessing its both your first time(s)?) if you can weedle your way around her parents because really it is them that you will have to convince. if in this time you cant get your way around and do have to wait the full 4 years. will your feelings stay? will her's? what about other guys for her and other girls for you? theres many different things that could happen during this time. think about what would be best for both of you to do and stay out of trouble as much as possible so that if the opportunity arises in the future you may be able to reeunite with her.
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15/f
ive recently picked up an acoustic guitar and started writing songs.
i dont have a manager or an agent or anything, but i was wondering if there was any software that i could buy to record music in my home on my own computer.
also, ways to put myself out there.
you know, how to find a manager or an agent, record a CD, how to find places to play at, etc.
please help!
thanks! (link)
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Hey iv been doing what your trying for the past 9 years, download a FREE program called Audacity its a mutli track recording program so you can record what ever tune you like through it then play it back while recording the next part to it.
i have a cheap microphone from asda (walmart to you if your american) heres my youtube channel if you'd like to look see.
http://www.youtube.com/user/dobby240
i have many music related videos, if you'd like to ask me any more questions youtube me with a video and send it to me and ill video reply back or sotmhing about how my rig works and then i can help you out with your home recroding studio without spending out huuuge amounts of money. i spent probably at most 40 pounds for everything i use. (not including the 4 instruments i play lol)
but yeah deffinatly send me a message on youtube and i'll show you how my computers turned into a recording system because i havent made a video on that yet, and knowing somebody will want to see it for thier own purpose will motivate me more to make one :P
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i need to know were would i be able to get a 911 tape recording (link)
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911? umm Youtube could help you here just type in 911 call (if you meant 9/11 as in the date of the twin towers collapse then youtube can help you ALOT for that subject) but for 911 calls as in emergency services. just find a recording on youtube then if you need to download it use this website
www.vixy.net
Vixy is pretty unreliable when it comes to it but it will convert videos into mpeg format and other things, it will also download just the videos Audio if needed.
If you do just want the videos audio then us this website, it works much more often than vixy does.
http://www.listentoyoutube.com/
hopefully i helped a bit
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OK so me and my ex girlfriend broke up because she was crushin on another guy.....and i loved my choice on brakin up with her but i just i cant move on i just cant and each time i get a text message from her my heart jumps for joy and i loved er so much and she tells me she loves me everyday what should i do???? (link)
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Well to be honest if you keep talking to her shes going to keep making your hart jump. Some how try and break it off slowly with her, you may not want to do this but its for the best for you other wiseit'll stop you getting over her.
the less shes talks to you, over time, the less youll think about her.
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3 months into going out w my boyfriend things got very heated and we tried to have sex. we were both kissing completely naked. i went to move foward sexually but i noticed he wasnt hard. he tried to help the and get himself hard but that didnt seem to work either. after a few more tries at seducing him i stopped and asked him if anything was wrong. he said no and that he didnt know what was going on so we left it at that. the next day we talked about it ad he said it had only happened once bfore with his first girlfriend and that he was sorry and embarrassed and didnt know what to say. i have a low self esteem so it hit me pretty hard and i thought i was the problem, even though that had never happened to me bfore with any other guy, but after talking to my girlfriends they made me feel as though it was something normal that happens to every guy once in a while. a couple months after that we tried again. this time he got hard only after i gave him oral sex and after i stopped i continue just kissing him and he went soft again so he asked me to do it once more. I did so and he got hard again, but as soon as he put the condom on to move foward, he got soft once more. we've been dating for 5 months now and honestly im terrified of trying again because i really dont know whats wrong. does anyone have anyy idea what it could be?? or what i should do?? or what i can say?? this has Never happened to me before and i really enjoy sex so i really hope i can figure this out soon! thanks! (link)
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Hey im 17 and a guy. iv been with one girl who ever gone further than kissing she grabbed me down there and i was semi hard but not full. i was very nervous though like shakey nervous. Is he a nervous kind of guy when he goes out of his comfort zone? BEing nervous somtimes makes mr,wiggley not wanna stand up for a standing ovation heh heh.
hope i helped a little ;D gd luck next time.
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well i have a lil problem im kinda in the middle of an sffair ,
and i dnt no how to prepair for when wife finds out.....
if eny futher questions please email me at
andreairianda20@yahoo.com
thanks (link)
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I think you need to tell her, she has a right to know.
because loving some one is putting enough trust in them not to break your heart. how do you think she's gonna feel if she finds out the hard way and not the more trusting and respectfull way?
Its gonna hurt like hell either way on her side so you might as well especially if she's been faithfull to you.
you got the ball's to do it?
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ok well im kinda dumb haha my boyfriends smart. he analyzes me all the time n sometimes i take it the wrong way. so can you please tell me what you think he is saying here:
i think you wallow in a bank of self pity not quite adressing it because you are too busy trying to help others n most of the time this leads to your discomfort which you dont mind because you feel like you deserve it i also think you have a subconsciously weird obsession with what could have been not what is
WHAT DO YOU THINK HE IS SAYING?!?!?! thanks! (link)
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Seeing as h's your boyfriend i would think he meant it in the nicest way possible. so pretty much what i think he's saying is =
Though you have a really nice heart to go out of your way and help other's, you need to stop once in a while and tend to your own needs because focusing on others for too long seem's to make you forget you have your own life to live as well.
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i just wanna know how many of you believe in mythological creatures like
-unicorns
-mermaids
-werewolves
-vampires
-dragons
things like that! i don't wanna hear something like..." we all would like to believe in such things for the joy of it...." blah blah blah
yes or no only please and why you think so , i would like facts to support your answer please!!!
thank you to all who answer my random question!
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Nothing like that in that list but there are some very interesting creature like things called "Rods" they appear in photographs in certain parts of the world. most say its a trick of the light but it sounds too good to be true (They also travel at huge amounts of speed and have also been seen on video footage)
ill link you a few things that i'v seen rods in
but other than what you listed about mythological creatures and such nah i dont lol
http://unitedcats.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/flying_rod.jpg
They are also called SkyFish the next link tells you pretty much what they are (Bugs with Wings) but i thnk theres a bit more to them than that :P
http://images.google.co.uk/imgres?imgurl=http://www.asios.org/img/reports/big/skyfish_cg.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.asios.org/skyfish_en.html&usg=__jaSgQyBqCRRegRh-1qLx3egLLeI=&h=433&w=433&sz=151&hl=en&start=10&um=1&tbnid=gJqQz6kse-DDmM:&tbnh=126&tbnw=126&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dflying%2BRods%26hl%3Den%26safe%3Doff%26rlz%3D1T4GGLL_en-GBGB302GB302%26um%3D1
This is a youtub video it explains alot better
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=amnNgXRK_vo
hope it interests you :D it interested me
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i want to find a legit, but updated boombox that plays cd's. one very similar to this... http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp?itemdescription=true&itemCount=60&startValue=1&selectedProductColor=&sortby=&id=14769103&parentid=A_ENT_CAMERAS_MUSIC&sortProperties=&navCount=33&navAction=poppushpushpush&color=&pushId=A_ENT_CAMERAS_MUSIC&popId=A_ENT_MUSICCAMERAS&prepushId=APARTMENT_FURNISH
except not for ipods only. any help? and nothing to over the top expensive. (link)
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Iv never had a desire to look for one but i am very into music so i'v had a good look for say 30 mins shamefully iv only found this pathetic list of 1. seems Ipod's and mp3's have taken over from huge chunkey old school ghetto blasters which is a shame because they have a real character about them.
this ones a cilinder shaped ghetto blaster
http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/PORTABLE-GHETTO-BLASTER-CD-PLAYER-CASSETTE-MP3-RADIO_W0QQitemZ250404267323QQcmdZViewItemQQptZUK_CE_Portable_Audio_Portable_CD_Players_ET?hash=item250404267323&_trksid=p3286.c0.m14&_trkparms=72%3A1683%7C66%3A2%7C65%3A12%7C39%3A1%7C240%3A1318
the only bad thing is its like 80 quid, but i have heard one of these before and they are LOOUUUDDD, very good sound quality too.
other than that try going to your local hardware store they could direct you to different (maybe unknown?) brands that specialise in ghetto's and boom box's
sorry i couldnt have been of more help :/
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Definition of love?
How do you know when you are in love with somebody? (link)
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i agree with the guy/girl that said it vary's from person to person.
love is when you know at the end of the day you get to see them again, or during the day you get to see them. when you get to talk to her and know she'll listen but when you get there you get butterflies and start hacking the sentancing and end up embarrasing yourself... love is the sincere abundance that you feel when you see them and dont expcet it. when that one person control's your every thought so thoroughly you could cry with happiness. love is perfection, nothing could match the emotion you feel at that exact moment in time. love is what you make of it... what you desire most from another
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There's this guy and I care a lot about him. We met this summer and he was really good to me from like July to December. Then, in late December he told me that he still had feelings for me, but that he wanted to be alone. I refused to leave him alone because I felt like he needed me. So, he finally ended up telling me off and we didn't talk for awhile after that.
Then in January, I myspace messaged him with a letter of closure letting him know how much I loved him, and a couple of things that I wanted to get off my chest. He wrote me back saying that he still loved me and wanted to get back together. I called him and soon enough he and I were back together. He told me that he had cheated on me on Christmas time, and that was why he broke up with me. We lasted for about a week until I broke up with him because he was acting like a jackass, even saying that he had more feelings for the other girl than he did for me. He was going through a hard time, having dreams where he killed me because I cheated on him and his little sister got shot, and his mother was going on for life-threatening surgery, he was almost diagnosed with lung cancer but instead they found out that he had a bleeding ulcer. Then, he told me that he wasn't happy in a relationship, and when I told him never to say that he loved me again, he said, “Your right, I can't love you, I don't even love myself.” This was the day after he proposed to me.
A couple of days later, I text him telling him that I was sorry for everything, and that I was going to get out of his life. He told me that he okay, but that he still loved me, and we talked for a little while. When I talked about the prospect of getting back together, he was keen on it at first. Then, he told me that he was no longer single, had started dating a girl the night that I broke up with him, and that he had loved the girl that he was now with for two years, and would appreciate it if I didn't contact him again.
I left him alone for a little while, and then for Valentines day he got me a romantic gift to initiate contact. He told me that the poem contained his true feelings for me and that he was now single, which I honestly do believe. He started treating me very, very well this time. I was really happy, we were both afraid of losing each other, he wouldn't let me leave him again when I started mentioning the girls that he told me about, he didn't even want to talk about it, and things were going really great. That was from February 12th to March 18th.
In March, he got discharged from the army. The army was basically his dream job. He wanted to be in the army for 6 years, and get out as a second lieutenant. From there, he wanted to go into the marines and eventually become a police officer. However, he shattered his ankle and his wrist when he fell 20 feet from a tower. That night he told me that he felt like a failure, that he had failed at everything, our relationship and the military (which was all he felt like he had). But let me know that nothing was changing.
The day after things did. Things changed for the worst, we got into a fight where he told me that he couldn't go without sex for four months while was in basic training. Which I don't think had anything to do with it at all. I think that he was just looking for some excuse so that he could push me away again. He told me that he had, had sex with another girl, who I later found out doesn't even exist. And, I noticed how the story about Christmas time kept constantly changing.
During that week, I text him a lot. I found out that, that girl didn't even exist, and he mentioned being afraid of getting closer to me when I asked him. Also, during that time he told me that I was right, that he didn't want to leave me but that he wanted to run away. He was talking really crazy. I guess that this was to get my attention. I called his phone to make sure that he was okay, he didn't answer, he caled me later. I told him that he really scared me, he told me that he knew and that he enjoyed hurting people, because people always hurt him. He mentioned that I had hurt him this summer when I messed around with other guys.
I wrote him a letter about a week later apologizing for the way that I had treated him this summer. He was the only guy this summer who was actually worth it, and I feel like he still is, despite everything.
He told me to call him, I did, but he didn't answer the phone, he called me. I asked him what's up, and he started making small talk with me. Talking to me about how he should probably give up smoking, he's 19 years old, has been a heavy smoker for 5 years and has been smoking for 10. Then, I asked him what he thought about that letter, he told me that he thought that I needed to stop trying to figure him out. That he thought that he figured out why he treated people like this. He thought that it was because he was in so much pain that he enjoyed putting others through the same thing. I told him that I just wanted to apologize for what I did this summer, because looking back at what I did was probably really hurtful, considering how he felt about me. Then, he told me that he wasn't entirely innocent either, and that I should have kissed his ass this summer when I had the chance to. I listened to all of this, he went off on a tangent. After going off a tangent, he told me that I was too young and naïve to understand it. I asked him if he purposely hung up on me, told him fine ignore me then, and he didn't answer. My friend told me to show him that I meant that, so I deleted him off my contacts list and haven't talked to him for like 3 day.
Here's what I did this summer, I messed around with two different guys, we did everything but have sex. That, however, was a coping mechanism because he was engaged and I didn't think that we'd be together, which he doesn't even seem to understand. And, I did even tell him that I had feelings for one of the guys but I felt like he deserved to know.
Yes, a lot of that is really immature and I understand that. Some girls have told me that they think that he's just dicking me around, but I really doubt it. A lot of other people who are experienced in the push-pull game and know about bipolar disorder think that it's probably because he wants to play that game with me, although they can' t tell if he wants to be with me or not. And, that he basically sounds like he's textbook bipolar.
So, who I should listen to the harsh critics who are telling me not to talk to him, to just drop him? Or, the people that are telling me that he might actually be really into me and want to be with me, but that he could probably just have closeness issues? Both could be right, but something keeps on backing up the latter. Either way, I think if he does call me again, I'm going to play hard to get. In my perspective my harsh critics have been wrong before. I even see images of the two of us together, and as much as I've wanted to give up, I can't ever. What should I do?
Like to me, there's a lot of evidence that he's actually really into me, despite all these games. #1- When we're talking, he wants to be on the phone with me all the time. # 2 – I feel like he tells me a lot of things that he doesn't tell a lot of people. He might even show a side of himself to me that he doesn't show other people. # 3 – He listens to me and gives me advice on certain things. # 4 – On a good day he's protective of me, wants to put a smile on my face and make me laugh. # 5 – I think it's really weird how he read my letter if he's not interested in me at all. # 6 – I think it's interesting how if he's so into hurting me, he would actually tell me that he likes hurting people. Wouldn't he play around the bush? # 7 – He'll talk about things that occur in the future all the time with me, like... he'll be like, “when I'm 21...” “15 years from now...” etcetera. Am I looking too into things or is there actually a possibility that he might actually be really into me? And yes, I do understand even if he is, he's very fucked up, but I really don't care. I just want to know what people think. (link)
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firstly WWOoOOOoOoOOWWWwwww thats alot info.
and my advice would be
think, how has he treated you before? you know him better than any of us on here. if he's allready admitted that "he doesnt love himself how can he love any one else?" how do you know that he loves himself now to give you what you need and probably deserve in a relationship?
"So, who I should listen to the harsh critics who are telling me not to talk to him, to just drop him?"
Thats a good question. The people giving you advice have 2 motives for doing so, they care for you and want you to be happy what ever way possible and they'r not emotionally attatched to the guy that your into. so they're oppinion and advice wont be blinded by love. i found that out the hard way not so long ago...
Though wouldnt trying to start fresh again with some one else be such a bad idea? if you keep trying to renew old memories with past boyfriends would you really be moving forward? or just stuck in the past? if you both are really meant to be with eachother then you will soon find that answer soon enough through your own personal thought's.
even though you see yourself with him as much as you'v wanted to give him up which would you want really more? which would you be more happy with? which would he be more happy with? If people say he's a "text book bi-polar" then your going to have to help him through his problems no matter how many problems for your relationship it takes. "I think it's really weird how he read my letter if he's not interested in me at all." it could just be curiosity to see what you'v said, being (sort of?) bi-polar makes him want to know as much information as possible to make him feel good about himself thus giving more confidence and lifting his problems out of the way a little more.
sorry if the advice isnt amazing you wrote a bunch and i'v read it like 3 times to try and get more info to better my answer. good luck
M.
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16/f
serious question and im looking for guys answers mostly. why cant you just like one girl? why do most of you have to been hooking up with alot of girls? i dont understand why one isnt good enough =( please help me understand. (link)
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Im a guy (17) i dunno i never got that either, iv never done it. although i do get confused once every while to who i actually like but then soon after i just think its lust that took over me. i dont think the guys that have loads of girls on the go reallllly care about them as much as you think they do :/ they just thinking with thier nuts and not with thier head. its natural though, the hormones kick in like a bitch around 15. iv only really started gettin increasingly more horny in the past couple of months. but i try like hell to not let that cloud my judgement of a person, i'd still rather get to know some one than just say yeah shes hot i love her. dont be too mad at us :) we cant help it (some of the time) other possiblities could be that they'r insecure of thier freindship status so they try and make it seem as if they like the girl more than a friend to try and get attention.
hopefully i helped a bit
M.
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so i think im being recruited to do porn. that isnt exactly the problem- i wont do it, but i would like to know if straydogg entertainment modeling/ webcam whatever is porn. i dont want to invite viruses by google searching it, for our family only has one functional computer. (link)
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i just went on flirt for free, its DEFFINATLY a porn site lol
stay wellll wellll away from that
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Hi!
I was wondering if it costs money to download limewire? If limewire was legal, and if it does cost money, is it worth it? Thanks a ton!
~Sky
13/f (link)
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Its not illegal to have the program but it is illegal to download music and movies from it, use it wisely. by the way just download limewire pro off of lime wire thats what i did when i had it. but i buy my music now
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K so I'm 15/f frshman and HS and I've never had a bf, and only 1 guy that I know that's actualy ever liked me. All my friends have had/have bf's and I haven't, I've never kissed anyone either, and my bestfriend just told me that she had sex for the first time, and I just feel like I'm a total freak because I've never had a bf. Is that normal?? (link)
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omg i feel for ya.. im in the same position, except in 17 a guy and the only guy in a class of 9 other girls all with BF's. i havent had a gf for 4 years and iv only ever kissed one person (my last gf didnt last long :/ )
but dont worry! theres some one for everyone in this life, some people search and search untill they find the right guy/girl for others that person just comes along easily. i havent exactly put my self out there and asked some on out kus im allways way too busy doing somthing else like skating or snowboardin or playing me guitar or somthing. i could probably get some one if i tried and thats all you have to do to ^_^ just get to know a few different guys go places, join clubs what ever it takes go for it! :D
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OK, i was in the kitchen eating breakfast, and my mom was at the counter. And she dropped a fork and when she bent down to get it, i saw up her skirt!!!!!! how do i get that image out of my head?? its sooo gross.... (link)
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hahahaha!! XD omg im so sorry for you because there isnt a way to get it outa your head unless you just act normall lol xD sorry i keep giggling
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I LOVE to draw. Last year I went through 2 sketchbooks just during the school year (about 200 pages together). So yeah, last year was really awesome because I could think of something and just draw it as it came to me. And I could see as I improved. Now, I don't draw nearly as much :( Over the summer, I guess I kind of lost inspiration and just didn't bother getting started again. Well this year I'm taking art again and I love it, but it's so hard to start drawing again. I don't draw near as good as I did last year, I don't draw near as often, and my ideas aren't nearly as creative. I hate feeling like I have to start over at the beginning again, but I'm just not as inspired and creative as I was last year. This year, I've taken to looking at pictures on art sites like Deviantart. I love looking through them and everything just amazes me and inspires me. Unfortunately, it's the wrong kind of inspiration :( It's like, if I see a picture of flowers, I want to try to draw flowers like them. If I see a painting of a circus, I want to draw a circus too. I hate it because none of those are my original ideas and I feel like a copy cat :( How do I get my creativity back? Not only do I love drawing, I'm also going into advertising in the future and that involves a GREAT deal of creativity and originality. Please help :( thanks! (link)
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Haaa well this is a good qustion. iv been into art for years i did it all through school and 2 years of college too. i love doing pencial sketches and pastel pictures. i was like you i drew what ever came to mind and tryed to make it look like what i was thinking of, but suddenly i lost it and got bored of drawing because my frustration for not having anything creative to put to paper just illuded me. i soon got back into it though after finding sculpting and painting too much of an arsey way of gettin my ideas out. i tried what you did by copying somthing but i grew tired of getting the same results... mainly the result of having a copy of somthing that allready existed. I detatched my mind and started drawing somthing but then with out a thought i put a line down by not meaning to and the vase and flower that i was drawing suddenly sparked somthing off to me to draw somthing mechanical looking. so the vase looked normall at the bottom and as it went up the vase the organic quality's of the flower disapered into rust and gears and wire looking objects making up a flower shaped man made object.
so my advice would be to try and detach your mind and mix it up a bit by putting in things that would usually contrast what you had intended on drawing. say the fight between organic qualities and mechanized man made obbsession. if you get my meaning. hopefully i'v sparked off some means of insiration, but dont give up! iv only coverd a tiny part of what you could draw or design, your mind is your own and no matter how silly you may think your idea is, just try it and add too it when your feeling arty! good luck
M.
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yes, but every single site that i looked at said the exact same thing. either : [Intro: (some 'dreadhead', won't translate to avoid offending)]' ORR
[Chorus: (some toaster, once again won't translate to avoid offending)]
EVERY SINGLE SITE SAYS EITHER OF THOSE TWO THINGS
also, what does he say in the beginning that is so offensive??
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i think people have just copied and pasted the lyrics from the same site so they all say the same thing. i dont have a clue what he says sorry, i did try to listen hard for some words he says but it loses me everytime sorry i couldnt be more helpfull :/
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I'm trying to look up the lyrics for the song "wicked" by icecube. some sources say that during the chorus, he's saying "i told them not to keep on the fire" but then other sources say this:
Verse: .....
and then....
Chorus: (some toaster, once again won't translate to avoid offending)
what does this mean?!? (link)
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I just listend to the song you mean (just wanna say its freekin awesome!) but i think it has ALOT of racial and controverstial content in those first few sentances, so the person either couldnt hear what the hell they said or that he wont translate because its too offending and it goes against his moral's.
hope i helped
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ok so i like it when guys kiss me neck when we makeout and i got a new boyfriend how do i get him to kiss my neck without telling him to? (link)
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sometimes its just easier to tell them (while your gettin into it) if you kiss me here i like it or somthing, but other than that try looking up and closing your eyes while he's on top and get him to look down or somthing and push his head towards you. though he could get the wrong idea and kiss you in more places than you bargained for xD hopefully i helped a little bit this was a hard question to answer with decent advice :S
M.
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