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what are some good songs to let people know how muhc you love them and miss being with them. please help me! i really need some good songs to express how i feel. thanks much!

Well, these songs are kinda old but they're all love songs::

--Right Here Waiting : Matt Tyler
--I Swear : Matt Tyler
--Can't Stop Loving You : Phil Collins
--You're Still The One : Shania Twain
--Have I Told You Lately : Rod Stewart
--I Knew I Loved You : Savage Garden
--How Do I Live : LeAnn Rimes
--You Don't Have To Say You Love Me : Dusty Springfield
--When You Tell Me That You Love Me : Diana Ross

Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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my sis broke up with her bf last night and she is 21 and im 13 and i dont know what to tell her to make her feel better i really want to help her cuz im sure she would help me if something like that happened to me please help me

Well, you can cheer her up..You can ask her to go to the cinema..Ice cream shop and a lot of fun place which can make her happy and forget about her bf.She will feel better, soon!!Hope she's okay..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Hey I was just wondering what some good ways to find families to babysit for are. I want to babysit within my town though. I'll rate high!
Kelli

Flyers or bussines cards are gonna help you..And you can also tell your neighbor about that..And maybe your parents can promote you for babysit to their friends..You know? Sometimes parents know the best for their children..So..I really recommend you to tell your parents to promote you to their friends.Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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i have a friend that i liked for a long time and a couple of days ago we had this day that was great we made out for the first time and we talked about relationships and stuff and now it feels like she doesnt want to hang out anymore i think she is making excues for not being able to hang outi really like her and i thought she liked me back im not sure wat do i do i feel like crap do i tell her how i feel she might be leading me on and just move on at the last second and go wit a diff guy. she doesnt want a boy friend for the summer which i think is crap. i think the other night was great and i want to go out wit her do i tell her or do i find someone new i did that before and i kept comparing them to her but they didnt even compare to how much i like her i want her to like me the same i feel like i like nothin else exept her . i need some help i cant go on wit out her so i can really need some help i cant go on life isnt thee same it feels like thanxs

Well, some girls don't want to go out with boy, because they're scared or don't want to hurt that someone's feeling..You know, most girls don't want to hurt someone's feeling, especially if she likes that boy..So..maybe you just have to wait till she's pretty sure..But don't give up!!I know she likes you..^_^' Hope I helped!!

-ViTaChaN-

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14/f

there is this guy i met at camp hes really sweet and everything my age and since the camp has ended which just ended three days agoi have spoken to him for everyday for three days for like an hour a day i dont have anything to talk about now and i cant hang out with him cause he lives far away and were just friends but we now have like nothing to talk about. please help
ps remeber i cant hang out with him he lives like 8 hours away

Ok, I really really want to help you with this problem..Because my sister had the same problem, and she lost her friends..and now she's really sad..don't worry, I'm so gonna help you at this time..Hmm..Well, you just have to keep talking talking and talking..If you're runnig out of words or topic, ask him something, like hows your day, or hows your parents..I meant, there's a lot of things to talk about..music, family, friends, school, tv show, books, game, computer, plants, weather, etc..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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The new school year is coming very soon and I'm going into 9th grade (so is my friend)and we recently received our schedules. She really doesn't like school, and she says she has no friends in her classes, and we don't have any classes together except maybe lunch. And she's not looking forward to this year at all 'cause 7th and 8th grade sucked, and I'll agree on that. I just told her to try to look at school with a positive outlook. She won't listen and doesn't believe. I just don't know what to do. I really wish she would just try to enjoy her time even though it's school.

Does anyone know what I can do about her feeling this way? I've tried to help her, I just don't know what to say.

thanks in advance.

Oo..I feel sorry to her..Well actually, I don't like school either, I meant..I don't really have much friends and I'm kinda shy..Tell her that she doesn't have to worry about anything, school is not that bad..There's a good thing in school..You just have to try to fit in..Bring her to your friend, maybe you have to like introduce her to someone who will be in her class.Show her that school is a fun place to go..You can meet your friends, teacher, and even your homework!!lol..just kidding..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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I really love to sing and my friends say I'm good. I don't think I am all that good though and I want to know some good ways to get better without taking voice lessons because I don't have a lot of money. My goal isn't to be a proffesional singer but I just want to be a source of entertainment to my friends because singing is a huge part of my life. Please answer I'll rate 5's

Oowh..cool..you can be like Celine Dion , maybe, someday..haha..Well, you don't have to take a voice lessons to be better, just practice on your own..And if you're really good, maybe you can get like a scholarship..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Well, my mother doesn't like me hanging with almost everyone that I want to be around. She always complains about every single person that I'm friends with or trying to be friends with she hates. She usually complains about their wealth, looks or just some other characteristic.

And just recently I've been banned from the mall for no reason at all.

Another thing they wont let me have a boyfriend, not even let me talk to boys on the phone. And I'm 13! I'ev already got some people asking if I'm... bi or lesbian :/ and I'm not. I have a boyfriend right now, secretly. But I want to know what to do in the means of going on dates and whatnot.

My mother always laughs at me when I bring the subject of boys up. It really lowers my self-confidence in a way. D: I don't know what to do...

A lot of moms don't like their children to grow up..I mean, every mom thinks that their child is a baby..You know what I meant??Like my mom, she said this to me "Even though you're now a teenager, you're still my baby!"Have you ever heard a mom said that to their child??That's what happened to me..And you know what??You have the same problem as me..My mom doesn't allow me to go to the mall with my friends!She will just allow me to go, if my grandma will go to the mall with me..I hate it..But, what can I do? She thinks that I'm still a little baby, and I know how much she loves me..So..I never can go out to everywhere with my friends..It's okay, just do what she tells you to..She will change someday..Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-

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hay, I got a huge problem!!! I get a lot of IMs from guys and they all want one thing, to have cyber sex w/ me. Thing is, I'm christan and I don't believe in sex before marriage. Well, I kinda let a few guys have cyber sex w/ me. I don't know what to do, cause they wanna do it again. Plz help me! PLZ!!!!!!

Tell them that you don't want to do it anymore..And if they still asking you that thing, just block them!!Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Ok here's the deal. This is kind of embarrasing but I wanted to get a new computer, a laptop for school. And I wanted to get rid of my old computer. The thing is, my parents want to buy it, they don't want me to throw it out. Uh, I kinda may have gone on sites that they wouldn't approve of...but they won't take no for an answer of buying it. I'm perfectly ok with throwing it in the dump, but they're not. I'm so afraid somehow they'll find out what sites I went on if they buy it. What do I do!

Delete your history..And, you can even auto delete it..You can set your internet up to auto delete the history in every week or even every day..You just have to go to tools, click 'internet options', then you just have to click 'delete cookies.' And if you want to set the auto delete up, find an icon which is saying 'delete history' {it's underneath 'delete cookies' and 'delete history's icon}Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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How do you get rid of chubby cheeks?

Emm..I don't really know about chubby cheeks or anything..But I think, if you have chubby cheeks, just eat like fruits and vegetables..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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I am almost 16 and I have never kissed a guy. I've had the chance many times,meen I want to but every time I get nervice and tell the guy no. What should I do?

Tell the guy that you're not ready for that and you need more time..{every girl will get nervous if that's their first time}Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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there is this boy that i like alot. he is sweet,kind,and o so hot. but then there is this other guy same thing. but i like the first guy better than the second guy because he is older and more mature. i can't stop thinking about the first one. i am confused. but then i found out that the first one doesn't like me at all. he doesn't even care that i like him. he barely knows me and he is starting to hate me already. so here are my questions.

how can i get the first guy to start to get to know me?

who should i pick?

i will rate with reasonable answers

The first one is starting to hate you?? OMG!! You should pick the second one..Well except you can make the first guy likes you..You can try to make him likes you if there is a chance..If there's not..why should you waste your time??I really really think that you should pick the second one..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Hey,
Im a 14/m and i babysit. Im NOT gay!!! i have a gf (were pretty steady) and everything. But babysitting is fun bc i like to b with lil kids and im getting payd 4 it. its easy money. Do the parnets whos kid im babysitting think im gay? bc ive gotten a lot of ppl who think im gay.

It's not bad at aLL!!That's good!! The other guys just jealous..I don't think their parents think you're a gay..Because a lot of guys like to play with kid..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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can you get sick from the heat? like throwing up? thanks

Yes, it's dehydrated. You need to drink a lot of water!! Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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I have these two really good friends, one is a guy, the other a girl. Well they've liked each other for a while, so they're kind of off limits to everyone, but the girl (it will be easier just to call her Meghan) doesn't want a boyfriend. Well the guy (let's call him Seth) seems to think they are together. Then I was on AIM with Seth later, he said he thought Meghan was an ugly idiot. Well I got pissed and said some things I regret that include... some words I'm rather ashamed of saying. So of course he got angry with me. So then I had to tell Meghan what he said, and she got angry with me for telling her! And now, they're both mad at each other and it's all very confusing. Who knew entering middle school would result in so much drama!

Help! Is there any way to smooth things out between all of us?

Well tell both of them that you didn't mean to hurt their feelings.And you just want to tell them the truth..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Okay well im in this big love circle okay.. This is the first half.. well first there is Adam and i've gone on and off liking him since the 6th grade and now im going into the 8th grade and ever since the 2nd grade he always had a thing for this girl named Melinda and she didnt start liking him untill the 6th grade and they went out then he dumped her 5 months later and he still liked her after that and then during the beginning of the 7th grade he finally stopped liking her and i still liked him and he didnt like me and then in the middle of the 7th grade when i was finally over him i started liking his friend Josh and Josh liked me a little bit but barly and then one night at a school dance me and Adam didnt even dance we just talked the whole 3 hours and i remember how he was like "Even though I dont like Melinda now I know that when i get older im gonna be with her in high school and we're gonna go to the same collage and i know i'm gonna be with her and it kills me to know that" and then that night i talked about how fat and ugly i was to him and he was like "No if u were fat and ugly i wouldn't like u" and then i was kinda confused because he just got done telling me how he was always gonna be with melinda and so he went on and off liking me when i was finally over him and then i started liking him again and he kissed me the last day of school and said all these sweet things to me.. This is the second half.. There is so other guy named Sean and me and him went out once in the 6th grade and once in the 7th grade and when we werent going out he always liked this girl named Bridget and she is such a wanna be slut because she had a boyfriend and cheated on him with Adam and like 3 other guys and so Sean wrote me a note one day telling me how he liked me and only me and stuff and then i went to a pool party with him last week and Bridget was there and i hung out with both of them and when Bridget was eating i was swimming in the pool with Sean and his kissed me and then that night at soccer practice Bridget told me that she was hugging Sean and he was like "Bridget I really really like you a lot u know" and so im completly confused with everything and its weird with me because if Adam and Sean both asked me out at the same time i would say yes to Adam because i waited so long for him to ask me out because he has only gone out with Melinda and every girl only wishes she could go out with Adam but if Adam and Sean were both hanging from a cliff and i could only save one I would save Sean because Adam really broke my heart last summer. Im confused and i'm sorry this is long but i need advice so please help me!

Em...it took me 3 minutes to read this question..LoL..interesting..well..I think you should choose adam..or all of your thing you've done was a waste But it's kinda hard too..You like adam but in some reason you don't..Okay..If I were you I'll choose adam..Because I've been waiting for him for a long time..Hope I helped!

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ok, well, my bf's friend asked me if i would make out with my bf and i said i would. you see my bf had never made out with anyone before. so when we went to the movies with him and our friends something happend. all the guys were calling him a wuss bc he has never made out before and stuff. so anyway in the middle of the movie he turns to me and says "look, i love you but i dont want to mess anything up so can i kiss you?" and i was like...um...yea ok. so he was like.."lets do it then". i felt REALLY werid. so then everyone came and sat by us so we kinda stoped talking or doing anything. so then about...i would say 10 mins past and he said "ok, i know this is gonna be akward but im sorry". so out of no where he starts to make out with me. and im not saying it was bad but it felt werid. so after 3 seconds i pulled back and said "this feels weird". and he said sorry and stoped talking. so now i feel bad. i mean, i want him to kiss me bc he wants to and bc he likes me. not bc his buddies are making fun of him! so the question is...should i tell him why i pulled away? and was it bad for me to pull away? sould i say sorry? im so confused so I BEG OF YOU! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!!!! theres some 5's involed : ).

Tell him about everything..I'm pretty sure he'll understand it..It's not that bad for you to pull away, maybe you were just nervous..That was your first time, right?If you explain everything to him, he'll understand it!!Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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hi i really like this guy and i don't no if i should tell him because i think he hates me what should i do?

If you really like him..Just tell him..Don't worry about being hated..And if you're not sure to tell him that, be his friend first because everything starts with friendship.Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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what should i get my boyfriend for his birthday? im 14 hes turning sixteen.

Hm..maybe a watch? Because a lot of guys like watch..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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