i have a friend that i liked for a long time and a couple of days ago we had this day that was great we made out for the first time and we talked about relationships and stuff and now it feels like she doesnt want to hang out anymore i think she is making excues for not being able to hang outi really like her and i thought she liked me back im not sure wat do i do i feel like crap do i tell her how i feel she might be leading me on and just move on at the last second and go wit a diff guy. she doesnt want a boy friend for the summer which i think is crap. i think the other night was great and i want to go out wit her do i tell her or do i find someone new i did that before and i kept comparing them to her but they didnt even compare to how much i like her i want her to like me the same i feel like i like nothin else exept her . i need some help i cant go on wit out her so i can really need some help i cant go on life isnt thee same it feels like thanxs
ViTaChaN answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 12:08 pm: Well, some girls don't want to go out with boy, because they're scared or don't want to hurt that someone's feeling..You know, most girls don't want to hurt someone's feeling, especially if she likes that boy..So..maybe you just have to wait till she's pretty sure..But don't give up!!I know she likes you..^_^' Hope I helped!!
sum12die4u answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 7:53 pm: MAYBE URE LACK OF PERIODS DROVE HER INSANE!! lmao im just kidding dont worry. lol
i bet u any amount of money shes scared. she doesnt wanna get hurt, or there's another guy that she is scared will go after her when shes with you. its kinda a macho kinda "i can steal ure girl away from u" situation, but it would screw with her head. get what im sayin? if she went out with you, her options would also go down, too.
maybe its that she'd rather not go out with you at all, than go out with you, get dumped, never talk to you again and cry herself to sleep for months. i think if thats teh case, she's one heckuva smart girl you've got. a lil too smart to go for chances, but smart nonetheless.
maybe one of her friends is pressuring her or sumthing, too.
I feel for you man, but you have to do sumthing for ureself... dont let go. if you love her, then hold on. maybe this is a case of hard-to-get... [ sum12die4u's advice column | Ask sum12die4u A Question ]
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