Okay well im in this big love circle okay.. This is the first half.. well first there is Adam and i've gone on and off liking him since the 6th grade and now im going into the 8th grade and ever since the 2nd grade he always had a thing for this girl named Melinda and she didnt start liking him untill the 6th grade and they went out then he dumped her 5 months later and he still liked her after that and then during the beginning of the 7th grade he finally stopped liking her and i still liked him and he didnt like me and then in the middle of the 7th grade when i was finally over him i started liking his friend Josh and Josh liked me a little bit but barly and then one night at a school dance me and Adam didnt even dance we just talked the whole 3 hours and i remember how he was like "Even though I dont like Melinda now I know that when i get older im gonna be with her in high school and we're gonna go to the same collage and i know i'm gonna be with her and it kills me to know that" and then that night i talked about how fat and ugly i was to him and he was like "No if u were fat and ugly i wouldn't like u" and then i was kinda confused because he just got done telling me how he was always gonna be with melinda and so he went on and off liking me when i was finally over him and then i started liking him again and he kissed me the last day of school and said all these sweet things to me.. This is the second half.. There is so other guy named Sean and me and him went out once in the 6th grade and once in the 7th grade and when we werent going out he always liked this girl named Bridget and she is such a wanna be slut because she had a boyfriend and cheated on him with Adam and like 3 other guys and so Sean wrote me a note one day telling me how he liked me and only me and stuff and then i went to a pool party with him last week and Bridget was there and i hung out with both of them and when Bridget was eating i was swimming in the pool with Sean and his kissed me and then that night at soccer practice Bridget told me that she was hugging Sean and he was like "Bridget I really really like you a lot u know" and so im completly confused with everything and its weird with me because if Adam and Sean both asked me out at the same time i would say yes to Adam because i waited so long for him to ask me out because he has only gone out with Melinda and every girl only wishes she could go out with Adam but if Adam and Sean were both hanging from a cliff and i could only save one I would save Sean because Adam really broke my heart last summer. Im confused and i'm sorry this is long but i need advice so please help me!
twistedteen25 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 5:56 pm: Dude this is really confusing but that slutty girl probably told you that because she wanted you to get jealous! If what she said was true then get some paperclips and put a paper clip for everything that specific guy did something bad or good (your choice) to you! Who ever has the least for the bad and most for the good you will choose to save from the cliff!
Capish! [ twistedteen25's advice column | Ask twistedteen25 A Question ]
margarita_luvs_ya answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 7:46 pm: Ok 1. You got some major guy issues and your not even in highschool yet. 2. Go with the guy you like best make a list of the good and bad thing you like and dislike about both of them. 3. I need to go lie down because this is just too much drama I hope this helped cause I was confused like through out the whole thing. I'm sorry but this is just too complicated. Why don't you just reamin friends with both of them and talk to both of them. Sean is obviously a player and I don't think he truely like either one of you. Adam may have broken your hert but people change. [ margarita_luvs_ya's advice column | Ask margarita_luvs_ya A Question ]
Sportychicc9393 answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 2:19 pm: Wow! It sounds like you have a handful. It sounds like Bridget is lying to you. I bet Sean really likes you. I would go for him. Cause it seems to me like Adam is treating you like the rebound girl. You dont want to get hurt again do you? If I were you I would go for Sean. And Bridget, well it just sounds like shes jealous of you cause her old man likes you. Well I hope I*ve helped you! Im me if needed Sportychicc9393! [ Sportychicc9393's advice column | Ask Sportychicc9393 A Question ]
TheCynic answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 5:03 am: I apologize if you percieve any harshness in my answer:
If Adam's picturing himself with Melinda forever and always and blah blah blah... he's not picturing himself with you. Which means, deep down, that he's not as in like (if he is at all) with you as you hope. Remember, just because he's kissing you doesn't mean he has any feelings for you, besides lust.
Don't feel you have to date Adam just because you've wasted so much of your time on him.
As for Sean.. well he doesn't sound that great either. He's leading both you and Bridget on. Which means that Sean also isn't as interested in you as you hope.
To me, both of these guys don't sound like great choices for potential boyfriends... Boyfriends like you and only you. They picture thier futures with you, not Melinda or Bridget or what's-her-face-whore-in-a-box.
So don't just settle for that one guy who sorta likes you. Or that guy who can't get over his ex-girlfriend. DON'T SETTLE. Your settling on the fact that you're wasting your time with someone who doesn't care about you as strongly as you care about them. [ TheCynic's advice column | Ask TheCynic A Question ]
Teza answered Tuesday August 9 2005, 12:22 am: This seems a little confsuing but I understand how you feel. Okay I just want to let you know that I`m gonna give you my honest opinion and answer and I hope you understand =). They both seem to like you but I think that when you and Adam were talking and when he said if you were ugly I wouldnt like you.. well I think he meant that in a friend way. Unless you are for sure that he likes you. Now about Sean.. I dont think he is over Bridget. While I was reading this question it crossed my mind that I think that they just go back and forth with you and their ex's. They seem to kind of mess with you mind but you dont seem to notice it very much. You just have to wait and see how things go between you guys and then you will be for sure. And dont wory about the lenght of the question! Long ones are always interesting. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
ViTaChaN answered Monday August 8 2005, 11:52 pm: Em...it took me 3 minutes to read this question..LoL..interesting..well..I think you should choose adam..or all of your thing you've done was a waste <waiting for him and everything> But it's kinda hard too..You like adam but in some reason you don't..Okay..If I were you I'll choose adam..Because I've been waiting for him for a long time..Hope I helped! [ ViTaChaN's advice column | Ask ViTaChaN A Question ]
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