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im starting 8th grade soon and im sooo stressed. i have to get all a's as always...i have to get into this privite school next year which means i have to apply and do well this year. i also have to do ballet..pointe..guitar..the play..and more..how do i take the stress off?

Stress i know this its hard to get off but one thing you have to do is stay calm talk to people write down what you feel cause if you leave it all bottled inside then your going to freek out just learn how to generate things and just talk to people
-Cass-

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I would like to thank y'all in advance before you read this. It's probably rather long just because I think you need a little backround information about me... Good luck and thanks if you give me advice... I'll rate you high for this one (That sounds like a bribe)... ANYWAY... I'm having kind of a friend/idenity crisis. First off.. I use to NEVER hang out with girls. I was always one of the guys until 8th grade (I am not going into 10) When I grew boobs, had a NICE body, and was the captian of the competition cheerleading sqaud of my middle school. I had everything I wanted... I was beautiful, and popular (Shalow.. I know) Then, I didn't even make the high school cheerleading sqaud and I was kind of at an all time low. It was one of the most depressing time periods ever for me. That summer I gained 30 pounds and had no friends except my boyfriend. Luckily, I had my boyfriend there for me, which is still with me. At the begining of my freshman year I told my boyfriend how I was kind of nervous about going back to school because of my drastic change. So he told me I should hang out with girls. And so I did. I found a group of girls to hang out with. Turns out the year before I had bad thoughts about them but once I got to know them they werent what I really thought... (big lesson you all... don't jugde) Anyway, So that year was okay. I had girlfriends and stuff.. But I was kinda over weight and feeling really crummy about myself. But I wasn't gunna let that get me down... So I decided to get in something to take the place of my lifetime love, cheerleading. I became an active member in student council. There I became class president, And now I am student body president. I kinda prefer this position over cheerleading. ANYWAY... back to my friends... This summer was kind of weird with my girl friends position. I was happy i had girls to talk to about girl stuff and do girl things with. My boyfriend was happy too. So this summer I started big with TONS of partys and tons of drinking. Me and my girlfriends had a riot. But then I went to 3 leadership camps and decided that I wanted to be a role modle. So i stoped smoking, and drinking, and the parties. Well after I didn't want to do that my girl friends kind of left me behind even though we were really close. We barely talk anymore... And if we do its because they don't have anything else better to do and they wanna chill because they're bored. I know my possibilities.... I know my position.... I know what I can do... But what do y'all think about my position? About me? And what I should do.. Thanks

I mean just cause your not hanging with those girls ne more doesnt mean that thers not more out there and everything i think that what you have done in the past year or so im proud of you for even if i dont know you that well and i give ups to the bf for sticking by you all this time...but i mean girlfriends can do that shit to you and i mean you can either take it or try and talk to them but i mean they have to understand you and what you want to do in you life...i hope i help im always here
Cass

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okay hey heres how it goes... I'm gunna be movin inna month. ([ to King Of Perssia ]).. Is there anyone that lives down there.. ? [( im gunna be movin 8 miles away from the king of perrisa mall )]?!im going to the highschool in 9th grade..

but heres my question..

I've been going with my boyfriend for 8 months! And i love so much words cant explain how much i love him..and he loves me too [ the same way ] .. as you can see this is a SERIOUS relationship...we've done alot of stuff. [sex] [jerkin off] [and lotzZz more] shitt the sex is good :-)... [ lemme get back to my question ] but we talked about whats gunna happen when i move and everything.. and we decided to stay with eachother. But im still scared! I know im gunna be seein him and talkin to him on the phone and everything, hes gunna be allowed to stay over my house.. but the thing is... there is alot of gurls and guys that is hatin on me and my boyfriend.. and they always be startin shit to get us to break up.. it worked once but as you see we worked it out and are still together..but i know the second i move all these gurls that are hatin on me are gunna be all up on his dick! and tellin him lies and shit so he can break up with me. i already got in fights with these gurls and hes gotten into fights with some guys.. and its just to much drama..but I dont wanna break up with him but from where i live now to where im moving to is like 45mins away. (im 15) But do you think i should break up with him or trust him.. see i know that he wouldnt do anythin to hurt me.And i told him that if he hears something that he doesnt like that he should come to me and see if its true. But he tells me everyday "your not gunna hear and words come out my mouth that were gunna break up / i wanna be with you for the rest of my life / you my heart" - and he wants me to have a baby with him.. but im just confuse what i should do.. should i stay with him.. like i dont even know i just need help on what i should do please help me.. ill rate..

Hunny i know what you are going thro i went thro it but the best thing is to believe him if you love him so much i mean hes going to tell you the truth and everything like he says i mean you have to believe the guy and stay with him i mean when your not close to him youll be thinking about him and your love for him will get even stronger trust me i hope that you believe him i know i have always believed in my bf and were still goin strong after 4 years
-Cass-

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I think I might be bipolar. How can I tell? And can I get tested w/o my parents knowing bout it?

What makes you think taht you might be bipolar like what do you do to make yourself think this?
Write me back
-Cass-

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im 13/f never made out with a guy and i feel so...unloved lol! is there sumthin wrong with me? where did i go wrong?!?

Just cause you havent made out with ne one doesnt mean you went somewhere wrong mayb your just not ready yet you dont have to make out and everything to make yourself fit in or whatever you need to just relax and if you wanna make out with your bf or whatever then go for it
-Cass-

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When waz ur first kiss?

my 6th grade was just a peck type thing but my real first kiss was my freshman year of high school
-Cass-

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hey. well just thought u should know your hot. anyways, my girlfriend and i have just started school. we used to have a lot of time for each other but it seems like we dont anymore. she's busy with other things and never wants to hang. do i break up with her? or occupy my time some other way?

well i say dont break up with her i mean i know how you feel me and my guy are in the same things cuase im always busy with my activities and he has nothing to do and then he bitches when he dont see me what you need to do is talk to her and tell her how you feel about everything and just go for there hopefully everything gets better
-cass-

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okay my friends ( a girl and a boy) are in a fight and everytime i talk to the girl she alwasy says so have you talked to him?? What should i say?? should i tell her i did or not!! they are in a big fight and i don't wanna ruin my relationship with this boy, because i really likehim...i mean really like him!! Any suggestion?? :(

*Stuck -n- Middle*

I would tell her to take care of it cause if you talk to him your just putting yourself in the middle and everythign whats between them should stay between them adn everything i think that you should jsut stay out of it and just still be friends with both of them
-Cass-

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I'm going into highschool this year, and none of my friends from my old school are going there. I had a crush on this guy named Isaac, but he says he doesn't like me, even though he flirts with me like crazy! What are some ways I can hang out with him, without it seeming too... intimate? Oh yea and I'm a girl.

Go to the movies or something just something fun you could take friends and everything like that make it like a group thing i mean you dont have to just do stuff where it is you and him you can make it more idk fun i guess...
-Cass-

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Is it considered "dorky" to roll jeans that are a little short into capris? or should I just cut them? Thanks

i do and everything but it just depends on the person like im crazy and weird sometimes so i just do it for fun but i mean you can if you want to
-Cass-

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on the song milkshake what does milkshake mean?

Your whole body like if you have like a great body and everything ou just puting yourself on the table
-Cass-

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I just broke up with a longtime boyfriend. He didn't seem to care at all. How do I deal? What do I do to keep my mind from straying his way?

just write things down talk to people and everything thats waht i saw cause it helps i think tahts waht i did when i lost one of my longtime bfs it helps but like me i got over it and hopefully you do to..Good Luck
-Cass-

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okay i LOVE to cook. whenever i make this dish... it's chicken in a lemon sauce with garlic pasta.. my chicken never comes out tender. but when i make all of my other dishes, like chicken parm. chicken marsala, chicken stir fry and everything else, they always come out tender! how can i get my chicken to be tender?

this might happen cause your chicken might need to be cooked a bit before you do the pasta stuff and everythig i love too cook to and everything but you might want ot try cooking a bit before you do everything that might help
-Cass-

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Why is sex such a big thing now? I mean young people are even doing this, I just don't get it. What happened to waiting until marriage?

Well im only of those girls that are at least waiting but any more it seems like its a compitition to keep up with the jones' if you understand what i mean by that and all its like a oh i have to have sex cause she did nd everything and you dont i know thats not the case for me 4 years same guy no sex!
-cass-

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I have played basketball all my life... it has become an every day thing for me ... every day i practice 4 to 6 hours a day... This year for some reason Im confused about wanting to play or not...I played this summer with our towns varsity and want it to stay that way, but if i end up of JV i will be really depressed like last year should i still play even if it means being on JV?

yeah i think that you should i mean if you honestly love the sport and everything then you shouldnt just give up just because you will play on JV or nething and all i mean if you work your ass off at practice and everything then you will play varsity and all but more and lkly you will neway
-Cass-

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this is gonna be long but i promise iw ill rate u really good. ok here goes: i used to be best friends with this boy but we're not really as close anymore, but we still love eachother and care about eachother and stuff. ok so he went on vacation for a while and his gf started becoming friends w/ this guy, and the guy told me that she did all this stuff with him like lick his neck, french kisshim, lay on his lap and rub his thing w/ her head, etc. well her boyfriend came back and he found out they were hanging out and he was sorta mad cuz well you know, why wouldn't he be? my question is should i tell him? i want to stay out of it cuz i dont want any drama but i luv him and wish he knew. i dont think she'll tell him or break up w/ him soon but i dont know. help.

It depends on how well he really loves you and cares for you and everything and how well he takes things cause i mean you dont want it to back fire or nething like that i mean i would tell him but i would be afraid that he would take it the wrong way or something cause thats not right for her to do while her bf is away its like gezz keep it in your pants or just stay out of it...Talking about for her...but i mean i would tell him cause thats not right at all and i mean yeah its his gf and all but i would more in less recommend you for him gf you should better then her shes a slezbag if you ask me i think that you should tell him but stay calm about it and everything and just be there for him
-Cass-

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this guy that i was friends with for a long time was having a bad day and when we were in art class i asked him what was wrong. and he was like back the *uck off and leave me alone. i was like jesus okay i was just asking i didn't mean to get you upset. that day we were making these clay things and there is this tool that has a very sharp edge on it and he held it up to my throat and he said if you don't get away from me i'll stab you with this. the look in his eyes was absolutly terrifying. that night on AIM i had asked him what was wrong and he was acting really funny. his typing had changed. he was making alot of errors and not correcting himself like he normally would. he threatened to blow up my school and then he threatened to kill me and himself. i got scared and i told my dad about it and the next day my dad called the school and my principal, my guidance counselor, and the schools D.A.R.E. officer sat down with the two of us and we were talking and he kept saying that he was joking about everything that he had said to me that night. We aren't friends anymore and i do not want to start a new school year knowing that he hates me. what should i do? should i try talking to him? or should i leave him alone? he was my best friend for a while and i miss having him as my friend

Hunny im really afraid for you and everything this would freek the crap out of me i think that you just need to leave him alone and just let him come back to you cause i mean what if you try and talk to him again and the same thing happends yeah he might have been your best friend and everything but who wants a best friend who does that kinda stuff i know that i dont but let him come back to you if you have ne other questions just ask
-Cass-

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how do you make out? what do i do with my tongue? please explain in detail....i do not understand...this sounds to diffulcult

Well its not that hard to be honest just when you kiss or make out dont use that much tongue the way that i like it yeah i know this is weird and everything but just touch the tip of the tongue and everything and just move it back and forth you can also bit the lip its all up to you i mean if you find a guy and everything that is willing to go slow and teach you as well as you teach him it helps...Good luck
-Cass-

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i have a boyfriend and i wonder why im so afirad to kiss himits weird isn't that i have a boyriend and im scared to kiss him

I think that you do need to get to know him a bit better and everything...You had me think wow does the boy have bad breath or something? but nevermind that just get to know him just cause you have a bf and everything doesnt mean you have to kiss him yeah it would be nice and everything but just give it time.
-Cass-

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iight theres this guy that i meet saterday! he is awesome! i mean i can be my complete self around him! and me and him both have a thing fro each other...and i mean i do like him and he is going to ask me out the next time we see each other...but i'm jst scared that it's going to be awhile before we see each other! and i kind of don't want to wait!?? but then i do cuz i don't want to rush things!? wat should i do?

if you can jsut find a time soon that you can see one another i mean yeah you dont have to go out right away i mean get to know him a bit more and then go from there
-Cass-

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