Allow me to introduce myself, I am the Knight Owl. Or, as my friends know me, Sean. I can't guarantee that I can solve your problems. But the majority of the people I know seem to come to me for advice. I listen to people very well, and I assess. Sometimes I can offer suggestions, other times there are no suggestions. But I promise to try my best. Remember, everyone has problems, I know I do. All you need to do is ask. I invite you, to talk to me on AIM or Yahoo, if you want to ask me privately for some advice.
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hey can anyone help me? i just gave myself an abortion yesterday with a close hanger and im really sore. can anyone help? like medicine wise, or will sex help the pain? (link)
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.... You need to go see a doctor. Giving yourself an abortion is so unsafe, and doing it with a close hanger's even more usafe, you're opening yourself up to so many diseases. Go to the pharmacy, get some anti biotics. Then go to the OB/GYN and have the doctor check you out. Good luck, and I mean that.
-The Knight Owl
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I have a huge crush on this guy in my school. He's a wonderful person! I like to call him a "Man's Man"! Lets just say that he has enough girls who like him to have a fan club!!! Anyway, I was wondering if anyone could give me advice on how to be "me" around him. I tend to act different...almost as if I'm not good enough for him and maybe if I act differently he'll like me. I realize this is a typical boy problem that happens all the time, but all the same, I still need help!!!
Thank you very much for any suggestions, advice, etc. Some helpful info: I'm 13 & in the 8th grade.
Thanks again!!! (link)
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Hmmmmm, how to be yourself around him.... this is very difficult to even think about. It kind of makes my head hurt. I wouldn't look at him any differently as you do any other guy. That's the best advice, just don't think of him differently. The reason you act differently is because you're obviously intimidated by him, that you're afraid you won't be good enough for him. Once you realize that he is the same as every other guy, you should be able to relax and be yourself. Good luck, I hope he chooses you over the other girls in his "fan club".
-The Knight Owl
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im never allowed to go to warped tour cuz im "too small" i'll like always be short and its not fair cuz i really wanna goo! (link)
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I wonder if you're from Massachusetts, because the Warped Tour is playing here in like two weeks. But it seems to me that you just haven't really grown yet, ofcourse if you're like 16 and really small then you have a problem. I'd see if you can get some of your friends, who are bigger go with you. Sort of as protection. Then once its arranged, see if you'll be allowed to go then. Good luck I hope you get to go.
-The Knight Owl
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I think I'm falling for my exboyfriends best friend. We're all really close and whatever... So I feel really lost. One of my good friends told me that I should go with what I want, but I'm not sure. I do know what I want, but I also don't want people getting hurt. ahh... (link)
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Well to be honest, its not exactly cheating, you know? But I can see how your ex would get hurt. Here's what I would do, if you are as close to your ex as you say, then talk to him first. Find out if he would be comfortable with you dating his best friend. If not then I wouldn't go for it. Good luck I hope it all works out for ya.
-The Knight Owl
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please tell me how to make my column or watever thingy make the backround and words different colors from eachother. please help me people don't like to help me for some reason...
so please. (link)
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Its really easy. On the left side of your screen there is a a link that says Column Settings. Click it. Then scroll down you'll see all of these categories that say, #FFFFFF and junk like that. Those are actually your colors. There will be a link just below the Bold COLUMN COLORS words that says If you're confused blah blah blah click here. Click that it will tell you the color codes. Have fun. Good Luck.
-The Knight Owl
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how do i get a pink background(or anything) on my advice site thing? like idk where to get a background or where to paste the URL for it!!!i rate high babes! thanks a bunch! (link)
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On the left side of the screen there is a tab called Profile Settings. In there, you'll find a link that will tell you all the color numbers. Just follow the instructions, you'll do fine. Look forward to seeing the new page.
-The Knight Owl
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im not sure if this is the rite category but im a 14 year old male and i wanna run away. i dont like tthe way im being treated at home my parents r taking away my comps cuz they saw somethin on this site that they didnt like and they think i had somthin 2do w/ it. my mom is always yelling 4 no reason she thinx im always doin somthin rong my dad gives me no privacy and tries 2 read my messages. i hate having my life consumed by them. i want a life of my own.so should i stay or should i go? (link)
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You should stay, everyone's parents are strict man. Don't think you're the only one. My parents suck too sometimes, but you gotta consider this, if you ran away, over something as trivial as being punished, doesn't matter if you did the crime or not, then where would you go? You're 14, not even out of high school yet. How would you support yourself? And don't say male prostitute, it doesn't work, trust me on this one, you just get the WRONG clientelle. Anyway, hang in there I hope this helped you. Good luck.
-The Knight Owl
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i asked before about if there was anyone that could help me..well if ur a phychic cuz well my boyfriend and i dont get to see each other alot and i juss wanna know if hes chating on me and if hes been tellin me the truth bout everything..i juss want someone that can tell me what is goin on and how things are hopefully im his only gurl.. (link)
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Okay, going on personal experience, if his story changes about where he's been, then yes. I hope he isn't, but its possible. Don't fret, you could simply ask him. If he repeats the question, there is a good chance he is. I hope this has helped. Good luck.
-The Knight Owl
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hey i am just curious, the new song "I Miss You" by Blink-182 always gets to me when ever i hear it..i like just start crying!!! what does that song mean? or like what does it talk about?? i cant understand what the message it is sending is but it chokes me up! thanks! (link)
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Its about missing a person, possibly a lost love. Its okay, I'm a guy and that song is.... actually, that's just a good song to me. But I can understand how it could touch someone just right. Sorry if I wasn't helpful, but be strong. Its really just Blink-182's way of making money.
-The Knight Owl
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hey im 12 and like 5'2 or 5'3.. :not sure: and im 107.. bvut i think i lost a lil weight.. wuts the normal weight for this hieght?
xox CraZyBBie (link)
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Your weight is normal, so don't try to lose weight, and what ever you do, don't try to gain weight by eating. Its so unhealthy. If you think you want to gain weight, work out, build muscle mass. Hope this has helped. Good luck.
-The Knight Owl
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Should i have sex wid my bf for like our 1 year anniversary i mean it would be a nice present!! and i dunno ppl say im to young (i will be 14) but i kno pplz who r younger than me and have already done it i mean its not like he iz juss some guy he iz the love of my life and he means the world to me and i feel that im comfortable to have sex wid him but should i wait till im like 16 or juss do wat i feel iz right?!?!? thanx
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It really all depends on you. Every person is ready to have sex when they're ready to have sex, no one can really tell you when you're ready. Granted I think its a little young to be having sex, but if your biological clock is saying you're ready than you are. Just please be safe about it. Ofcourse, once you have sex with him, he's going to want more. just a heads up. Good luck.
-The Knight Owl
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ok well my so called best friends all hate me now and i feel like tha world has turned its bak and everythang and cant trust en1 cept my bf and he has really helped me alot wit all thi sand he trusly is tha only 1 i can talk to enmore and my bff r gettin more mad bekuz im alwayz talkin 2 him or with him but thats only kuz hes really tha only 1 there 4 me enmore wut should i do?? kuz ive tried talkin and ive ever sed i wuld sacfice luv 2 save our friendship they wont let me and everythang but nuttin is workin wut should i do??????
-Lost..Confused..Sad- (link)
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Well, if you don't know why they hate you then I would find out. Otherwise, really I would get some new friends, I mean they couldn't have been that great of friends if they turned their backs on you. I'm really sorry that they did this though. It's never easy when you're world is turned upside down in such a way. Take solice in the fact that making new friends will be easier when school starts back up again. Good luck, I hope this has helped in some small way atleast.
-The Knight Owl
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I want to ask this guy to prom for next year!! I know it's ealry but I want him to go and I even i don't go with him i just want to dance with him!! What should I do?? A lot of ppl think that he is gay but i think he's metrosexual like ryan seacrest!! A lot of other girls are gonna ask him if i don't ask in advance!!
HELP ME!!
*4evainLuv (link)
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Ask him as soon as you can. Trust me, Prom gets REALLY competitive, I had to ask my prom date like the year before even. Then when Prom year did roll around, she got like seven other invitations. So definately do it as soon as you can. Good luck, I'm rooting for ya.
-The Knight Owl
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O.K. my family members and all sometimes say that I'm annoying, I have also heard it from some friends, I am 13 years old but I act like I am 5, I try not to but I guess its a habit and I can't help it! Have any tips? How can I not be 'annoying'?
*I RATE* (link)
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The answer is simple. Just try and keep quiet. Its kind of hard. But sometimes knowing what not to say is best. I know, its hard, I used to be the same way. But then i just clammed up, and people didn't think I was so annoying anymore. Well good luck
-The Knight Owl
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i just moved to newton, MA, and i found out that a girl my age lives next door(im a guy). i havent seen her or met, and how could i go about doing so? (link)
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You could ofcourse, hang out outside on your front steps, and wait until you see her come out. Then you just simply introduce yourself. Good luck man. I'm rooting for ya.
-The Knight Owl
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My friend and i have been best friends for a really long time but now i think i am losing her to a girl she used to not like but now does for some reason my friend thinks she has to lie to me about what they r doing this new girl is really nice and i love her to death but i dont want to lose my best friend to her how shud i handle this shud i talk to her about it and let her know how i feel or shud i just let her have some space??? (link)
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I would just talk to her, let her know that you're okay with this new girl. Its possible that your best friend feels that you don't like this new girl. I would not ignore the situation, your friend might get the wrong idea and think you're angry with her or something. Aside from that just keep your cool, don't sound upset with her when you talk to her. Good luck, keep writing. I'm rooting for ya.
-The Knight Owl
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im working on getting a better stomache i want a six pack.im 13 female. does anyone no any good site showing excercises for that which actually work. and wats better for it crunches or full sit ups? (link)
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Crunches, definately. You may also want to try the bicycle kick. If you don't know what it is, follow these steps. 1) lay on your back 2) stick your legs in the air 3) use your elbows to raise your pelvis 4) make sure you support your pelvis with your stomach muscles 5) kick legs in a circular motion as if you were riding a bicycle. These can be hard to do, but you will feel the burn, and you will be on your way to a great six pack. Hope this has helped. Good luck. I'm rooting for ya.
-The Knight Owl
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Ive known this guy for about four years im 16 and this guy i like is 19 and i realli like him alot i cant even begin to explain how i feel wen i talk to him he gives me so much ambition and everything and just realli brightens my day and i fell i could spend the rest of my life with him we talked like every day on the phone hed call me all the time n whatever n we hung out he didnt want to get in a relationship right away cuz he just got out of like a year long one nad the girl cheated on him n whatever so were just friends then after awhile wenever i called him it seemed like he was always busy and he was going to school fulltime and had 2 jobs he was busy but he always use to talk to me anyways then he didnt call me as much then we stopped talking for a long time n just tlaked online n whatever n he sayshe doesnt hateme n wants me to come over nad call him and im still like in love with him but i wanted sum opinions on what hes thinks about me n stuff (link)
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Well, its really hard to say. It sounds like he's just genuinely swamped with work and school. He says he want you to come over, and from the way you describe him, he doesn't sound like the type that would lie to you. Just keep hanging out with him when ever you can, he may think that you still want a relationship, but that's not what he wants right now, so just be his friend. If you do that, then chances are, when he's ready for a new relationship, he'll realize that you've been there the whole time, and you like him, and just enjoy being with him. I know its kind of sappy, but that's the kind of guy I am, and judging by the way you talk about him, sounds like the kind of guy he is. Good luck, I'm rooting for ya.
-The Knight Owl
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how can u tell if ur a good kisser or do sumin bout it if u r kuz i dont want my bf sayin stuff now or after we brake^((i kno this sounds really gay but...)) (link)
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No real way to tell by yourself.... There is the Starburst method, and this works. If you can put a wrapped starburst in your mouth and unwrap with your mouth then your a good kisser. Tips on how to become a good kisser, medium amounts of suction, be active with the tongue, but don't be sloppy. Oh, and suck on the bottom lip from time to time, drives us guys wild. Good luck.
-The Knight Owl
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hi. im 5'5 n 1/2 or something like that and i weigh 103 pounds and i know that im skinny but i want to lose weight. should i? do u think i might have an eating disorder? (link)
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If you lose more weight you will. Why do you want to lose weight? Its so unhealthy to that to yourself, if you only weigh 103. Please don't I hate to think you'd be endangering your health. Hope I helped. Good luck.
-The Knight Owl
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