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what does he think of me
Ive known this guy for about four years im 16 and this guy i like is 19 and i realli like him alot i cant even begin to explain how i feel wen i talk to him he gives me so much ambition and everything and just realli brightens my day and i fell i could spend the rest of my life with him we talked like every day on the phone hed call me all the time n whatever n we hung out he didnt want to get in a relationship right away cuz he just got out of like a year long one nad the girl cheated on him n whatever so were just friends then after awhile wenever i called him it seemed like he was always busy and he was going to school fulltime and had 2 jobs he was busy but he always use to talk to me anyways then he didnt call me as much then we stopped talking for a long time n just tlaked online n whatever n he sayshe doesnt hateme n wants me to come over nad call him and im still like in love with him but i wanted sum opinions on what hes thinks about me n stuff
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Hello :) When you go to his house, I reccomend telling him how you feel. Once he knows now that you like him, there is a good chance tht he will ask you to be his gf. He just probably needs some reassurance so he knows for sure that you really like him. I hope I helped... drop one into the inbox if you'd like <3 Steph
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well obviously he still wants to be friends with you.. so call him.. invite him over.. tell him how you feel about him.. you can always have more options.. if you tell him how you feel doesnt mean you have to go out wit him.. sometimes guys need a little push cuz they are stuborn =P i hope everything works out =)
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Well, its really hard to say. It sounds like he's just genuinely swamped with work and school. He says he want you to come over, and from the way you describe him, he doesn't sound like the type that would lie to you. Just keep hanging out with him when ever you can, he may think that you still want a relationship, but that's not what he wants right now, so just be his friend. If you do that, then chances are, when he's ready for a new relationship, he'll realize that you've been there the whole time, and you like him, and just enjoy being with him. I know its kind of sappy, but that's the kind of guy I am, and judging by the way you talk about him, sounds like the kind of guy he is. Good luck, I'm rooting for ya.
-The Knight Owl
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"i wanted sum opinions on what hes thinks about me n stuff" How the hell should we know that? Only he does. It's really weird I came across this question, because something similar happened to me. Just so you know, I'm not pulling this stuff out of my ass. I know what I'm talking about. Anyway, when people that are really close start losing contact, and don't talk, things turn bad. For one, you can't go back. Once a mountain falls, it'll never be the same. Things change. People change. It's one of the saddest events that take place in life. But it happens. People aren't the same all through their lives. You may've fit then, but maybe you don't anymore. But you can't GO BACK to the same relationship you once had. You can just remember what you had and smile, or you can become aquaintances (sp?) and if you run into each other wave, and make nice nice and reminice. I think that is more sad. Only having half of what you want. But maybe I'm wrong, and there is hope. But if I am right, you can love him...and miss him, but just...don't expect to get the same relationship as you used to. And remember. You don't need him. You are the same person you always were, with or without him. That took me 9 months to realize. I'm giving you a head start. :)
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