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I am a guy, 32 years, even though people say I look and act 25. On May 9 2006, I met this 21 year old girl when she came for a 10-day workshop in my film school from another university some 3 hours drive from my film school. She is in her 3rd year. She gave me the impression that she liked me, always hanging around me, and I started to give her my time. I really got to like her afterwards. She told me she had no boyfriend, as her previous boyfriend, who was a student in her school had graduated and left the town and wasn’t calling her frequently enough the way she wanted and they tended to drift apart. Time could not permit us to start sleeping together before she returned to her school. She told me she was not good with long distance relationship but we agreed to give it a try. We exchanged phone calls everyday, with me doing most of the calling, but then she beeped (flashed) me very often whenever she wanted me to call. About first week of June she stopped beeping (flashing) me like she used to, even though I continue to call her regularly. I wondered if she wasn’t as enthusiastic about our relationship like before. I’ve visited her once and she promised to visit me in my school but she doesn’t until I graduated from my film school last month and left the town. I once told her that it seems we are not as imitate as before and she says it is because she has doubts that I can handle a long distance relationship. When I promised to play my part right, she promised to play hers too. In the last 9 days, I have been putting up in a town some 45 minutes drive from her school doing some screenwriting and I visited her once. She keeps saying she would come visit me in return but keeps saying she is not sure when, until she told me today that she will not come for reasons best known to her. I still do all the calling, she still doesn’t beep (flash) me always claiming she is broke, even when she is from a rich family. However, whenever we chat she sounds as friendly as ever. I have not slept with her or even kiss her, although I am not eager to, because I truly love her. I wonder if all is well, or if I am wasting me time on her. (link)
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im a girl and i think that something is wrong with her behavior. usually she would be the one calling or visiting frequently. most likely she isnt interested anymore but she doesnt want to hurt you so she wants you to break up with her. Either that or she really is all the things she is saying (broke, bust, ect.) you are probably still wasting time with her and you should break up and find someone your own age
Hope it goes well.
~DarkChocolate794~
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all summer ive been on my computer and i cant get off of it.. im jus ttoo addicted. is there any way i can get off? i mean, i know i can.. i just get soo bored i just come on my computer. (link)
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i have the same problem (i am on the comp now and its 1:24 AM) try hanging out with friends or going outside if that doesnt work watch TV
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im not fat, i just want to work out. i dont wanna get skinnier, maybe 1 or 2 pounds would be good but i just want to be healthy and excercise. im about 75 lbs. and i dont know what kind of exercises i should do, any suggestions? (link)
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well you are at a good weight but considering i dont know your age ill say sit-ups push-ups maybe treadmill or weights nothing too extreme
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14/f
Ok, before I give you the actual question, I'm going ot give you the background.
Here it goes,
It started yesterday, it was my dad and I, watching Jeapordy, and he was making fun of all the contestants, so I hit him in the arm, but then he hit me back, I don't think he realized how hard he hits, but it's very hard. So I hit him back again, and so on, and so on. But at one point he slapped/hit my leg so hard that it left a huge hand print, and I got so mad. My mom wasn't home at the time, I tried contacting her, but she didn't answer. So I took a picture of the mark. It was ok, after that, seeing how I got out of the house for a couple of hours with my friends.Then he and my brother, came to pick me up, we decided to go rent a movie. After that was over, this is going to sound childish, but we were arguing over who got the front seat. And my dad always takes his side, so I was frustrated, so frustrated, that when I got in the back, I said "I hate you both". My dad went "Hate is an awfuly strong word." Then I went "Fine I loathe you, I despise both of you." And it was a quiet car ride after that. When we got home, I had a serious attitude, and my mom wanted to know why. That's when I showed her the picture of my leg[from earlier]. She got really mad, and started hitting my dad. Since I was just as mad, I went upstairs to cool off, and watch the movie I had chosen. When it was over, I wasn't quite as mad, and we[my brother, dad and I] watched the other movie. That was fine.
But, when I woke up this morning, I woke up an hour late, so I jumped in the shower, and while I was in there, my dad comes in and goes "Your too late, Your too late." I have no idea why, but it irritated me. So I snapped back at him; "I can still take a shower!". After I got out, my mom came in and started telling me, that she was going to leave my dad, that we don't get along, and she's leaving us both behind. She asked if I deserved the hit on the leg. Then she goes that stunt you pulled, really screwwed things up.[Refering to showing her the picture, to get my dad in trouble.] And I wasn't allowed to go, where I had planned on going. So I slept. When I woke up, my dad was leaving for work, and he said "Bye." I said "Bye." And he goes, "I hope your happy." And as I sit here now, I can't help, but believe that I was responsible for my family falling apart. My parents have been otgether since they were 14, and I feel as though I ruined it all. That I was some sort of mistake. And I don't know what to do. Does anyone know how I can fix things? I'm feeling very depressed right now,and I have no idea what I'm going to do.
Thanks for anyone who tries. (link)
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Personally i think the easiest to fix this is to apologize to your mom and dad for trying to get him in trouble
But really its not your fault if you mom and dad can split up because of something like this they arent really that close are they? If they can really split up because of this then they are better off apart. Just remember its not your fault.
~DarkChocolate794~
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I asked a question about how much to pack, and this is what I plan on packing. I'm going away for 5 days.
7 tank tops & shorts sleeved shirts
5 pairs of shorts
1 mini skirt just in case
3 pairs of flip flops (I'm not gunna wear sneakers.)
11 pairs of underwear
1 face cloth
1 hair straightner
tons of earrings necklaces bracelets etc.
all my make up (mascara eyeliner lipgloss etc)
1 pair of sunglasses
3 bras
purses cell phone ipod all that good stuff
1 sweatshirt (its warm there)
3 bathing suits
3 pairs of pajamas
tooth brush and tooth paste
a hair brush and a few elastics and headbands
shaving cream and razor
Does that seem like enough stuff for 5 days of vacation? Or do I need more of something or did I pack too much? Or did I completely forget something? (link)
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you got all of the essentials
you might need some shampoo and body wash but if you are staying at a hotel then you're all good. I might suggest to leave about 4 pairs of underwear since you are only going away for 5 days. why so many bathing suits? i think you only need 2 instead of 3(while one is getting washed or is dirty wear the other)other then that have fun on you trip =]
~DarkChocolate794~
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Well, last summer I met this guy at camp and he seemed really sweet, so we started hanging out. After a while we started dating and after about a month we had sex. After, we broke up and this guy at my school asked me out. He's really sweet and I like him a lot, but I still have feelings for the guy I met at camp. Then about a week after I started dating the other guy, the guy I met at camp wanted to get back together. Do you think I should get back together with him or is he just using me for sex? I really like the other guy and he's never mentioned sex once and he told me he loved me, what do I do? (link)
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if i were you i would stay with the boy you are currently dating. it seems like the guy from camp is using you for sex or he's jealous that you are with another guy that loves you so soon after he broke up with you. the guy from school seems to like you for who you are and not for how much fun *ahem* 'in the sheets'you are. but i cant control you so follow your heart most of the time it will lead you in the right direction.
~DarkChocolate794~
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how do you make your breast bigger?
and does putting toothpaste on your nipples, or massaging your breast make it bigger? (link)
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hmmmm thats a good question i have heard nothing about the toothpaste idea so i wouldnt go for that it would probably only irritate your nipples i have heard that you could drink more milk to start growth in that area but im not completely sure. sorry i couldnt help that much but ill look into that area some more to help you out.
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My boyfriend and I have been going through a "rough patch", and we both want our relationship to work but both are confused as to how to make it survive. I really like him and I'm so happy when im with him, I just dont know the best way to deal with the worst that might happen for example; If we split up. Any suggestions? And how can i let/show him that this relationship means the world to me? (link)
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you should talk to him tell him that you love him and that you are happy when you are with him-its easier to talk things out instead of going overboard with presents and stuff like that
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Ok, so I got my first period in April of this year, and it was regular for April and May (I start on the 9th). But in June I didn't start untill around the 20th and it was very irregualr. Will my period start around the 9th or the 20th this month (July)? And is it normal for this to happen? Will I skip this month? Thanks. [= (link)
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periods suck...anyways since you just started about 3 months ago it wont be regulated for a while trust me i started my period aroun january and i still cant keep track of it
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Theres this boy Jordan, he`s in the grade above mine. We both liked each other before, and he kissed me. It was so sloppy and gross, he just became completley repulsive, and we got into fights over stupid things. Now we both like each other again, or atleast I thought I did. So I`ve totally lead him on, but now I just don`t feel like I like him very much again, he`s not exactly attractive, he`s really sensitive, and ugh he`s lame. I want somebody exciting, and cute ;] I went out today and saw a bunch of hotties and the whole time I was like " ugh, and all I`ve got is Jordan " So what should I say to him, were not going out, but were flirting like crazy, and I want that to end, please help! (link)
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ok by the way you say this the guy is a complete loser
dump the sucker he obviously isnt worth your time and you dont seem to like him very much so say bye bye and be ready for water works
now get to it
-darkchocolate794
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Heres the sitch...im a 16yr male senior at my high school, and ive been BEST friends with this girl since sophmore year...problem is, ive fallen for her...hard. i cant get her out of my head, i get jealous of any other guys she talks to or who like her, and im really protective of her...but she doest like me when i like her, she said she had a crush on me back when i had a gf soph year, but now she doesnt like ANYONE. what should i do? ive liked her for two years, but she says it would be wierd to date bcuz weve been friends for so long... (link)
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thats sad hmmm....
-this is my cousin-
ignore her talk with other girls and hang around them then after you go back and be straight forward with physical contact ((hold hands grab her waist)) she will go to you and see you with a different light
i guess
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My boyfriend and use to have sex like probably once a day. So i got use to it and it my vagina didn't get sore anymore. But hes been living with his dad this summer so i don't get to see him. but he came to visit this weekend and we had a lot of sex. And my vagina was really sore. does anybody know how to make it not as sore without having sex????? (link)
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well i dont usually answer these kind of questions but probably (i am not promoting this) with masterbation with large objects (dildos and that sort of thing) so you are used to being 'filled'
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My 17 year old daughter quit school, does not have a job--and does NOTHING around the house. She
does have money in savings which she has been blowing like crazy, but that's almost gone now. She lied to me about last night, said she stayed at a friends to babysit younger siblings, and I found out differently. The friends Mom doesn't even care that our daughters weren't there, so she is not much help. I don't know where my daughter is right now. When she comes home, I am going to tell her she cannot stay anywhere from now on. (she did this one other time and was grounded) I am prepared for a big fight from her, and she will probably leave without my permission. I am going to tell her that I will report her as a runaway.
However, then I have no clue what will happen next (if I get the law involved)
She might turn the story on me and say she is abused. (Which of course she is not) but she plays the role of the victim well, and threatened to call CPS another time when I put my foot down.
Her BF is 19 and lives in a bordering state, but is it against the law if he takes her across state lines? She is (17) and other people seem to think that would not be against the law because she is over 16.
So my questions are.
Is a relationship between a 17 yr old and 19 yr old legal?
What happens when a 17 yr old is reported as a run away?
Does CPS automatically believe a teenager who plays the victim?
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wow i would say to kick her out she does nothing for you and dosent even go to school if not kick her out wait until she is 18 then say she has to pay rent
their relationship is legal but if the have sex its not
do not report her as a runaway it will do nothing but cause controversy
one simple answer NO
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Hey today I asked my husband to fix me 2 pop-tarts you'd think all the work involved was poppin em' in the toaster but no he puts butter on the back of them. Have yall ever heard of this? 5's for all thoughts. (link)
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wow thats wierd but at least he did it for you next time say without the butter please
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ok..so..i like this guy..we'll call him kv. well he turns out to be my brothers best friend..i eventually told him, and it didn't bother him at all. i told my friend jordan, who was kv's age (they r 2 years older then me)and kv's friend, and asked her if i should ask him out. she told me no, because he had a girlfriend, and his grifriend was her best friend. i had absolutly NO clue kv had a girlfriend. i immeadiatly felt emmbaresed. i remembered his old girlfriend (lets call her dee)dee, and wondered if they were still together. she moved to florida. i found out they were still together... a couple days after i told kv, he IM'd me and told me he needed to tell me something that was private, and not to be said to anyone else. he told me that he really liked me, and his girfriend, and he was confused. he told me that she would be coming back to where we live on june 21st to visit. he said they would probobly break up...but i'm not sure if i believe him...what do i do???
-conufsed.. (link)
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Wait-if the out come is positive to you then you will be glad you did if its bad then its okay since its only two days right? hop i helped
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I'm planing on making a small slide show.
I was wondering if anyone knew any good love songs?
If so thanks a bunch.
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everytime we touch by Cascada
I heart that song
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I really want longer hair, is there anyway to speed my hair growth? I want my hair to be healthy, so how many times a week should I wash my hair? People say wash it everyday but I don't think that's good..And they tell me to wash it in cold water? Should i listen to them? (link)
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well i have relatively short hair but i can help you first off you dont have to wash everyday maybe 3/4 times a week is good dont WASH with cold water RINSE with cold water wash with warm or hot water go to your local hair salon and ask the people there hope i help ya
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well i really like this guy and he is real nice including really HOTT. Well i want to do some thing with him because ive not got to hang out with him out of shcool. but im not alowd to have him over. eny ideas were we could hang (link)
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you COULD plan a 'date' like at the mall or a fun place like a bowling alley or skate rink that is pretty mild if you're not really 'dating' him then you can progress to more 'romantic' places like fancy resturants or a park in the nighttime with the stars over you and....o sorry getting into my own world hehe you get the point well hope i helped ((look on google for more))
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hello, this is Jackie here. I have a problem. I am confused... there is this boy, I like him and from what I can tell, he likes me. I am 14 and he is a little older. This weekend this boy, my sister and another boy went to a community swimming pool. We sat next to eachother, he put his arm around me, and we held hands. after that I went home and soon I got a call from some girl saying that she was the boys new girl friend and that I need to stay away from him now. and I'm not sure if she's for real, or just being mean? I think that it could be this girl who's friends with him, that I made a comment about me not liking. So maybe she found out and knows that I like him, and wanted to get me back. I'm not sure. what do you think? Please help i rate well
*jackie* (link)
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HE LIKES YOU so that girl needs to back the hell off or you need to talk to that guy about your relationship with him if you're friends or more hope i helped no get to it
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well the ppl who i thought were my friends always go put and never bother to call me to ever go but then when they need a ride home they always seem to call me cause i can drive i cant stand it what should i do ? should i get new friends and let them know how i ffeel ....Ill rate!!! (link)
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ok ill tell you straight up that if they only call you to get a ride HOME then you either need to tell them to include you in their plans or they are walking home and if they dont get it get new friends easy as 1-2-3 do-re-mi lol hope i help
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