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I am a 17 year old boy, the only son in family. I have four sisters, three are elder and one is younger. My all family members love me a lot as I am the only brother. I also love them. But I don’t know why I have dirty feelings about my sisters. My mind always filled with dirty feelings about them. My mind always work on dirty schemes.But they all think me a innocent boy.I share a room with me eldest sister she is about 24 years old. She has a fat body. She snores during sleep. When she is in deep sleep I touch and caress her body and feels the softness and smells her private parts, specially her hips. I also try to hear the sound from washroom when she use it. Many times I have shown my male organ to her as I come out after taking bath in towel. I like to see her impressions when I (posing that I am unaware) give her view. Twice I have also shown to my youngest sister (she is 13 year old).
My sisters are friendly in nature, I have habit of slap and pinch their hips. Some time we fake fight with each other and during that I touch their private parts posing my self innocent. They believe this brotherly love but I have dirty thinking. I try to see them using washroom or taking bath from the backyard and when ever I succeed many days spend in dreaming about that

In spite of all this I have no sex thoughts about my sisters, I never thought about that. I just like to do the above mentioned things & enjoys.

Please give me an advise, how should I control my self to avoid such things. IS I am sick?

Hey!

Well, no it isn't normal to have thoughts about your own family members. As long as your not having a sex dream/thoughts about your sisters. When you start to have "dirty" thoughts about your sisters, just try to remember that they're YOUR SISTERS. && also try to think of other girls outside of your family.

Try to think of a girl you think is attractive at your school, not in your family. Try dating around and get them off your mind.

Also, don't pose naked in front of your sisters and don't touch them innapprotiatly when play fighting. Just keep thinking of other girls.

Hope this helps, leave a message in my inbox if you need anything else.

♥ Kourtney

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Okay here it goes it may be a long one this time..

For starters I'm a 18/f I have been dating this guy he is 22 for 5 1/2 months. On my birthday he asked me to marry him. I said yes. Well that next week when we got home we got into a little argument which is normal and he said u know what i never even fell in love with u. Right when he said that my heart broke. I was totally in love with this guy you know ? Okay so then the next day he loves me again..hes like playing games with me. Well then i get a phone call from this guy i have known since march and had a total crush on well hes looking for a serious relationship and he is like totally falling for me. But i dunno what to do. Should i stay with the guy and fuss and have him play games with me or get to know this other guy ? I so need help !!!!

Well, you've only been dating for 5 1/2 months with this guy and he's already asking you to marry you (which is totally fine!!) and you said, you two got in an arguement, which is normal.. so does that mean you two fight alot?

But, anyways, when you two got in a fight, was he really mad? Because sometimes when you're angry, you say things you don't mean. I know I do. Even if he was angry and didn't mean it, you should never say "I never fell in love with you anyways" That's just messed up on his part. && you seem like the sweetest girl ever, and do NOT deserve to be treated like that, no girl does.

On the other hand, what is this other guy like? Can you see yourself with him, in the future? Getting married? Do you argue with him alot? Does he make you happy?

Now, go back to the guy you're with.. ask yourselves the same questions.

&& Go from there. I think you can make your decision by that. Because, as much as I want to say "Oh, go for the other guy, you two will get married" I don't know that. I don't know if you two will get married or not. I wish I could tell you what to do, but no one knows. You really need to answer those questions and follow your heart.

Because the guy you're with right now, is playing games with you (like you've said) and broke your heart into a million pieces. It will take him SO MUCH to put every little piece back together. While the other guy, might put it back together in just days.

If it's ment to be with the guy you're with now.. you two will find each other's love again.

You need to think of pros and cons for each guy and like I've said answer the following questions I've asked you for each guy. If you need help doing any of that, you leave a message in my inbox. && I'll totally help you out.

I hope this helps you out and please tell me how it goes!! I hope everything goes great!!

♥ Kourtney

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Hey I have an account, the name is Angie. Probably some of you have seen my account thing. Well anyways, I was banned about a year ago for being 12. My account was supposed to be unbanned Nov. 27, 2005 and now it is Dec. 11, 2005. I lost my password so I typed in my email and reset it. It said a new password waa being sent to my email but I never got one and I re-typed my email correctly over and over again but I still did not get an email. I looked at FAQ and emailed admin@advicenators.com but now I do not know what to do. Please help me! thanks
~Angie

Hey Angie.

Aww I'm sorry you got banned! Geez, that's a long time to be banned!! =(

Well, you could always try to report it to them and telling them what you said to us.

Or, what I would do, is just make a new account and start over!

I hope this helps and if you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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Okay
So basically I live in Arizona
and it's pretty warm here year-round
& a few of my friends have heated pools and they throw x-mas/newyears pool parties.
Problem is:
I kinda lost my bathing suit and I need a new one.
Anyone know where they sell juniors (xs,s) bathing suits?
online,in stores, I don't really care.
Websites are helpful =]

Haha. Yeah, I live in Arizona too haha.

Since it's winter, a lot of the swimsuits are on sale now. So try going to:

www.victoriasecret.com
www.ae.com
www.pacsun.com
www.target.com
www.dillards.com
www.alloy.com

Those are all I can think of, I hope this helps and if you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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Today when I went to change my pad ( I'm on my period) the blood was a dark red pretty much a brown color. Is this normal?

Yeah, it's totally normal!

Kinda freaks you out, because you just expect just red! But, you'll get that too, just means it's old blood coming out.

But, nothing to be worried about, it's normal!

I hope this helped and made you feel better. If you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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http://fashionbug.charmingshoppes.com/Shopping/product.aspx?product_id=FM002607&nav=FM

Anyone think that shirt is cute cause i want to buy it

Yeah, black is the only color left anyways.

I really like it in Black.

I think its adorable. You should deffinatly buy it && it's on sale!! =)

It'll look really cute with gaucho's!!

I hope this helps and if you need anything else just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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My best friend's birthday is in nine days. But my problem is that i have absolutley no idea what to get her! She has everything ! I need some ideas. Please help =)

I don't know about her, but, I like meaningful gifts. haha.

You could try making a Best Friend Scrapbook.
&& put all your inside jokes in there and stuff.

My friend and I did that.
It was so awesome.

Or you could take her to the mall.
&& take her in all these stores and just look, and see if she says like "I like this" or "This is cute" or whatever.

Or you could get her a gift certificate to the mall, or take her to dinner with some other friends.

I hope these help and if you still need ideas, just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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why do people like to follow fashion trends?

When you look at me, you'll think "WOW! What a prep." But, I just like to be all dressy, I love clothes, I dress how I want, sometimes I'll be in sweatpants, or my favorite band shirt, sometimes I'll be dressed up with high heels. I just like to wear clothes I think are cute, some may not think that, but I don't care. I just like fashion, I mean I'm going to be a fashion stylist.

But, some people are like that, they love fashion. Some people like to fit in, so they don't get teased for wearing something that's "not in." While others where it to look "rich." Just depends on the person.

But, you can't always judge someone by the way they dress. Some people do that with me, when really I listen to like screamo music, but dress all preppy. I have a different personality, while alot of people out there, are like that also.

That's what I think. Just depends on the person I guess. I hope this helps and actually makes sense haha. If you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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hey!
where can i go (online since this is like a usa thing!) to get GREAT clothes?

Hey!

Depends on what you like to wear.

But, I'll give you some of the clothes I like:

www.abercrombieandfitch.com
www.hollisterco.com
www.ae.com
www.bebe.com
www.forever21.com
www.victoriasecret.com
www.wetseal.com
www.nordstroms.com
www.dillards.com
www.luckybrand.com
www.guess.com
www.alloy.com
www.buckle.com
www.hottopic.com (band shirts)

Thats all I can think of right now. I hope this helps! =) If you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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does anybody know any good lipgloss/chapstick/etc...brands or flavors that work well while kissing? I'm looking for something that is moist like chapstick, flavorful, and looks good...i'm actually more concerned with the moist and flavor thing..any ideas? thank you.
I RATE HIGH

I love♥ lipgloss. My favorite ones would be the Jessica Simpson one. My boyfriend (well ex) always loved it. He said it tasted good. && another favorite one is so awesome. You get it at Bath and Body Works. It's called: Mentha Lip Shine Mint-Infused For Fresh Breath. It works great, and it also refreshes your breath! It's so awesome. It's in a green tube and lasts forever. Get either one of those!

I hope this helps you and if you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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It says my pictures too big.. How do i resize it?

Sign up at photobucket (www.photobucket.com), it's FREE! && then put your picture in there. Then when its on there, get the URL for the picture, and go back to the advicenators site and under profile settings, where it has the URL (not the browse) put the link there and hit submit. Your photo should come up. I hope this makes sense and if it doesn't, just leave a message in my inbox!!

♥ Kourtney

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Okay.. I have contacts and you kno how the doctor says that your supposed to look away when you put them it. I dont i look directly at the pupil and put it right on the pupil. will that do anything to you eye?

I;ll rate five

My sister wears contacts and thats how she puts them in.

Just put them in which ever way is comfortable for you!

Some people just have their own opinions on how they like to put it in!

I hope this helps and if you need anything else just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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k im pretty athletic i play basketball, soccer, softball and i dance - but like i always feel fat - my stomach is sorta flat - but my lower stomach is kinda out there anyone know anything to make my stomach flat??

I'm sure you're not fat!!!

Go to this website though

http://www.bluesuitmom.com/health/personaltrainer/abs.html

I hope this helps!! && don't be too impatient, just keep exercising and you'll lose it in no time. If you still need help with anything else, just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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i'm 13yrs.old and a girl. is it bad to feel.... well happy if a guy makes comments about your boobs and butt or touches it?

No, not at all.
It's always nice to get compliments!!
Girls love♥ compliments.

Just don't let it get out of hand if a guy touches your butt!! (not saying you would)

I hope this helps and if you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox!!

♥ Kourtney

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hey everyone. i was wondering if you can flush condoms downt he toilet? thanks

Hey!

Well, when I was in class one day, this girl was telling me how she flushed a condom down the toilet, and it turned out it got the toilet plugged up and when she got it repaired, the plumber told her mom what happened, && she got in BIG trouble.

You can flush it down the toilet, but there is a possiblity of it getting it clogged down the toilet!!!

I hope this helps and if you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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okay, i have dirty blonde hair that is long. i wanna cut it shorter with choppy layers. also, im thinking about getting side bangs. do you think it will look good? here is what i look like. www.myspace.com/tara_xoxo

Aww, you're so pretty.

I had long hair like that && I wanted something new, so I went and cut my hair like Kristin from Laguna Beach && I LOVE IT!! ♥

That hair style would look really cute on you too. But I also like the choppy layers and bangs to the side. That'll look so cute on you.

Either one would look adorable on you.

&& besides, choppy layers and bangs are in!

I hope this helps and if you need help with anything else, just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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hey my mom said i can choose any kind of car for my 2nd car. my last one i wrecked. since ill be getting a new one when i graduate. i want to get just a nice car now. and be able to get a fucking sweet car then. what would you get. ps im a 16 girl. so a girl car.

Aww how awesome, she's going to buy you any car you want!

You should get:

BMW
Celica
Mustang
Lexus

Those are all really cute!!

Tell me which one you decide!!

♥ Kourtney

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well my x boyfriend loves to talk a lot of crap about me and laughs when i get hurt but some of his friends tell me he still likes me but i do not know whato think please help me sincerly confuse!

Boys can be dumb sometimes.
I'm sorry..

But, if it's really bothering you.
Confront him about it && tell him you don't like him talking crap about you.

Some boys, think if they are mean to the girl, that, that's flirting, when really, it's not! haha.

But, if you still like him then I would really confront him about it.

Just tell him how you feel and be like "Alright, I know you're my ex, and I see you like to talk crap about me, I don't know if you're trying to be funny or what, but it's not funny to me when you do that.."

Just say something like that. I mean, if it hurts you that he's doing that to you, really say something to him about it so he can stop!

I hope this helps and if you need help with anything else, just leave a message in my inbox.

♥ Kourtney

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I've been dating my boyfriend eight months. What do you think would be a good Christmas present to give him? =)

Aww congrats!!♥ =)

Hmm... do something cute.
Boys won't admit it, but they love it when girls do that.

If you have a lot of pictures of you guys, you should make a scrapbook of it.

Or you could get a camera and take pictures of everywhere you guys have been (like good memories) and then make a scrapbook of that. Then make a page for like your song, some inside jokes, etc.

Those are always good!!

I hope this helps and if you need help on making it just leave a message in my inbox. Or if you still need ideas and don't like these, just leave a message in my inbox. Good luck!! Tell me how it goes.

♥ Kourtney

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Do guys like girls who are like really muscular in the legs to wear skirts? (i play on a school soccer team so my legs are pretty buff) like is that hot or not?

Every guy is different when it comes to that.

Some like it muscular, some don't care.
Some like legs tan, some don't care lol.
Boys are just difficult.

But, most guys rather have them nice (which would be muscular) than all gross or whatever.

&& if the guy doesn't like it, psh forget about them then =)

I hope this helps and if you need anymore help, just leave a message in my inbox!

♥ Kourtney

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