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I have been having theese problems I mean every thing schoolparents boys and I have been cutting myself for about a year and it is really bothering me at school I will go to the bathroom and just carve a knife into my leg and I want to stop but I jsut cant I tried to but I couldnt plz help me

The best way is to put a rubber band arond your wrist and when ever you feel like cutting... snap it. That is hte most popular wy to quit. hope i helped
-beccers_boo

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I'm 13 and i have gone out with this boy i really liked him and he was my first boyfriend but he dump me and now i don't want to go out with anyone because i have losed my confidence and scared i'm going to be rejected

Well your goingto get dumped and your probualy goign to dump people. But you cant be afraid to date. I mean other wise how are yio ugoign to find the person that you love??? If you are really upst wait a little bit before dating. But dont be afarid of rejection... just have somethign or soemone to fall back on likea friend. Hope i helped

-beccers_boo

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ok exactly 1 year ago from this past saturday was the start to some scary a$$ sh*t..vases flying off walls,rooms being completely rearanged..yes i mean everything moved to a new place,moans & cries coming through the heat vents at night..oh yea scuri..but we got the house blessed and after about a month it stopped..
so we thought..

well like i said exactly 1 yr ago..we're siting in the living room and i hear a scream..i look over n my friend is sitting,pale as a ghost looking up..a shelf that has been on the wall since we moved in is in mid air oh yes i mean FLOATING..was there for about 30 seconds then crashed to the ground..well that night there was banging coming through the vents..then today i came home and my bed is soakin wet ..like not water..but a sticky liquid..enough to fill up half the bathtub..their was literally puddles..and it smelled like death..oh yea and even better my moms room was dry..however u culdnt walk into it and breathe at the same time b/c it smelled so strong like mens cologne

please some1 b serious when you answer this..im so not kidding about one single word i typed..i was just a little freaked out..but now im scared..especially after i saw it floating & the liquid..out nowhere..please any advice or if any1 has a paranormal story to share.. i just need a piece of mind..

First of all i totaly believe you. You have had the house blessed before right?? Try it again but with a different person. Go to google and search something like get rid of ghosts or something. Try anything and everythign that will not harm the hosue or a person. Sorry i coudltn relaly help
update me please this is very interesting!

-beccers_boo

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Hello. :)
14/F ~ My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months now, and the other night he came over. We sat around and talked for a little while, but then he started to pull moves on me... It's not the first time or anything.. we started to make out then he put his hands up my shirt and down my pants..then we started making out more.. then he pulled me on top of him and we made out more. Is it wrong for me to let him put his hands in those places? I'm just wondering so I can tlel him weather he can again or not. Thank you :)

Well you need top set your own personal bounderies and dont let anyone pass them untell your ready. If you felt comfortable with him doign that and you believe it is okay then it isnt nesicarily wrong. Think abotu it tho... Personaly this will sound lie all geeky or w/e but im not going past makingout till marridge. You need to set a boundray like that.
hope i helped
-beccers_boo

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ok well i'm 15/f/ i'm dating this guy named Jesse and yesturday we were hanging out together and some chick named Stephanie text him saying I LOve you 2! and well i read it and i asked him what was that all about he tells me that this girl has a crush on him and thinks that he will go out wiht me and with her at the same time and well he told her that he would never cheeat on his girlfriend......what you all think? PLEASE HELP ME BECAUSE I"M CONFUSED

trust your boyfriend. I mean unles he has given you a reason not to trust him that i woul put trust in him. I mean if you question him then he will feel accused and no guy likes that. Just trust him

-beccers_boo

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me and my boyfriend have been together for quite some time ((3 months)) he is 18 now & im 15... my parents think he is 16 and i hate lying to them but i love him and i want to be with him... how bad does this make me??
my b-day is on may 5th
and his on the 13

first of all wut your doing i illegal you need 2 ber 16 to date somone 18 or older. but besides that i would tell yoru parents after your 16... hhat way it will be legal by then. sorry this wasnt my best advice. hope i helped alittle

-beccers_boo

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i'm a 17 yr old male that has a false reputation of being gay. i'm actually metrosexual and almost all the school assumes i'm gay. how can i show my peers that i'm straight without betraying who i am.

People think im a lesbo but im not. When it comes up just tell peop elthe truth otherwise just act yourself. Screw wut the retards at school think. I mean the people that you should are wut they think are the friends that stick with you.

-beccers_boo

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OKay my 2 friends and i are in a fight because it all began when they started taking drugs, smoking, and drinking! i felt uncomfortable so i left them alone and i kind of ignore them too! so anyway today my other friend tells me to come sit at the same table as them i did! well they didn't give me the time of day! last i heard one of them is smoking weed afterschool and it all started with these girls they have been hanging out with! What should i do? My other friend is determined to get us to be friends again! I 've already tried talking to the 2 of them but they won't listen! What should I do? I rate!!

Well fi they are realy your friends you dont just stop being there friends because they do somethign liek that. The best thign 2 do is to keep reminding them and try to help them. I have friends liek this ... but you just need 2 keep reminding them and being there for them.

-beccers_boo

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Ok, so i was thinking about babysitting the kids nextdor, but i've geard thast little kids are hard to take care of. is that true? i need tha cash, and cant afford anything for my friends for the holidays. I'm not really patient, but i have 2 younger siblings, but i get sick of them really easy. my brother is 8, and my sister is 2. the kids nextdoor are 7 and 9, if that helps.

Well you need 2 write down wut each kid is allergic to, there bed times, and the basic house rules. Usualy if the jid tells you somethign that goes against the parents dont trust them... hope i helped just get the besics and you should be fine.

-beccers_boo

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ok, my question is...heres the story...i met this guy who i really like and who likes me and hes always working and whenever i call him his grandma always says hes not there even when he tells me hes going to be there and i think shes either lieing or he just doesnt wanna talk to me and i dont know what to do or what to think...hes a great guy but i mean it upsets me that i cant talk to him and i dont know how to handle this..i called him tonight and his grandma said that he wasnt there and i asked if i could call back and she said we're all about to go to bed...and then i said well can i call back in 10 mins to check and see if hes there and she said yes and then when i called back no one answered...i dont know what to do so if anyone has any ideas for me please let me know!!...Thanks

Well you said he likes you... maybe the attraction vanished... i mean he doesnt nessicarily like you anymore. He is dealing it iin the wrong way if this is the case... just keep trying and if things dotn change give him up.

-beccers_boo

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ok well i just made a new friend and her name is samantha. well anyway shes really really nice but shes only 13 and shes already gave some guys head! and this was when she was 12. well i know that shed do it again if she found a hot guy at our school but i really dont want her to. we're not really that close so i cant tell her what to do right now. what can i do about this?

well first of all no matter how close you are 2 a friend you can NEVER tel them wut to do you can only give them your opinion and advice. Abotu your friend just trust her... its HER life not yours. if it happends again THRN talk 2 her.

-beccers_boo

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What is the best way to break up with a boy if you are going to. Should I call him, write him a note, E-mail him, or IM him?! :-/

-Worried

notice you didnt list tell him to his face... which is ALWAYS the best option.

beccers_boo

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Hi, there is this guy i like and i've heard t hat he likes me too and might ask me out. One tme when i was walking by and i heard his friend say "Comon ____, go ask her" loud enuff so i would hear it..and the friend started pushing him toward me. This sort of thing has happened for a days now...like the guy i like would come over and then look at me and walk away, its pretty cute. I wanna start talkin to hjim so maybe it wud give him some courage to ask me..(if that's what he is intending to do)Any tips of what i should do?thanks

You can always be the one 2 ask him... or if your to shy just like aproach him like afriend and start talking to him... this way it takes off the pressure of him starting the conversation... ask him for help on your homework the old fashion cheesy stuff...

-beccers_boo

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Ok..our uniforms are the navy shirt w/ khaki pants or plaid squirts..i have brown hair(past my bra strap) and brown eyes and i have no acne and i have a natural tan..so what kind of eyeshadow should i wear to go to school?

Thnx in Advance!

Wel i would wear a either light blue or dark blue... i have light brown hair about alittl epast my shulders... i think pink also looks good and green.. hoped i helped

-beccers_boo

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For the past while i have been cutting myself. At first it was just scratches and then i started cutting deeper and deeper. I am really scared and I don't want to talk to my parents, they have enough to worry about, so is there anyway i can break the habit and just stop...and please don't answer if you are just going to poke fun at me and mock me. I don't need that. Only post if you can help me.

get a hair band... not a big one a skiny one and put it on your wrist... when ever you feel the need to cut snap it

-beccers_boo

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At school I was in the locker room and I was taking a shower and then a brat came by whe nI got out and told me she wanted to show me something and I only had 5 minutes before the next class so I just was like fine so when I went to see what it was she got about 3 of her friends to take off my towel and pushed me out side with all the other people and then the classes where changing and the locker room was locked and every one say me naked I mean butt naked and now ever one makes fun of me saying I should be a striper and all

wow that is just horrible!! Well i would just try and laugh it off with the people laughing at you... make sure everyone knows wut REALLY happened... im sure if people knew who did it and wut exaclty went down she and her friends would be the ones tormented for being so rude... i mean thats just sick and wrong.. i am really sorry this happened to you

keep me updated i really hope i helped

-beccers_boo

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i've been kinda cutting myself...it was kinda stupid at first but now it's serious. my life is kinda like crap rite now. grades, family, friends, and love...all that jazz. sometimes i feel like i just randomly wann cutt myself. i hate it. i know there is other ways to work it put but i don't wanna talk to my family and i've already talked to my friends. please help me and don't just pick on or make fun of me...really answer this question.

signed,
confused and lost

I know many people who are cutting or have cut in the past... and it is a very serious situation. I think the best way to stop is to first get ride of the sharp objects in yoru room or where ever you cut... then put hair bands around your wrists and every time you think fo cutting snap it tight.... not too tight tho... it will relive the strain without the risk... eventualy you will need to take off the rubber band and just carry it around... only you it is you have 2. I really hope i helped. Also if you need to you can go top your school conselor... they are now liable to tell anyone wut you do or say.. even your parents... they can help you as well.

hope i helped

PLEASE keep me updated

-beccers_boo

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Me and my best friend liked the same guy, so I decided to back off of him so she could have him. He started liking her, then she told him she didn't want a boyfriend. Tonight at a b-ball game I hung out with him alot and he started liking me and then at halftime my friend came up to me and said "Damn, Andy looks hott tonight" and so I was like..crap. I don't want her to be mad at my, but I like this guy and he likes me, but I don't want it to like mess with our friendship. Its not like I'm going to go out with him right away, I want to get to know him and all....but what should I do?

Okay you just need to talk to your friend... ask her how she would feel... and try to respect her feelings... also tell her that if she wants to date him your fine with that since ovbiously you are fine with it soince you said you backed off. If she says she would be upset about it you need 2 decide who is more importnat to you the bff or the guy?

-beccers_boo

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One of my bff's, Becca, who i've known since i was 5 years old has a very bad self image. She thinks she's ugly, but then again I've never met someone who's ever said "wow im pretty" (about themself). She even started crying the other night and saying that she was depressed because she thinks shes ugly. Me and my friend Alicia have told her a million times that shes not ugly but she won't believe us. What are we supposed to do?

Okay... hi my name is becca 2 :) well anways. My mm thinks her legs are fat and alot of my friends are like ohhhhhh i am so fat or w/e and they are WAY skinner then me, and im skinny. Well thi sis goign to sound retarded but get picutres of the most hideous people of the internet and give them 2 her... ask her if she would reather look like them?

lol

hope i helped

-beccers_boo

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Hey guys! I'm burning my boyfriend a CD for Christmas and putting a bunch of love songs on it. I need a few more and I'm running out of ideas. I was just wondering if u guys had any good suggestions. Thanx so much ! I rate high.

put all i want fr christmas is YOU on it... it will be cute and it will go with the holiday!!

-beccers_boo

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