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This isn't working!
OKay my 2 friends and i are in a fight because it all began when they started taking drugs, smoking, and drinking! i felt uncomfortable so i left them alone and i kind of ignore them too! so anyway today my other friend tells me to come sit at the same table as them i did! well they didn't give me the time of day! last i heard one of them is smoking weed afterschool and it all started with these girls they have been hanging out with! What should i do? My other friend is determined to get us to be friends again! I 've already tried talking to the 2 of them but they won't listen! What should I do? I rate!!
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Well, you should tell those 2 *friends* of yours how you feel about it that you don't like them hurting themselves like that (once more). And if they don't listen to you (again) and do it anyway then they really don't care so that means they aren't really your friends. Just talk to them as soon as you can and be very persuasive before someone *~*Quote*~* Really Gets Hurt!! I have seen ppl* in the hospital for overdosing themselves on drugs. It wasn't a pretty sight. So just go along with it and do what your heart tells you to do. Remember if they don't listen they truley were never your friends... Hope I have helped you a lil* Good luck with that!!
Shannon
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just tell them if they want you three to be friends that they need to be clean and sober without ever thinking about going back to drugs and alcohol as a fun thing to do or even just to do it for any reason.
hope i helped you out!!!
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Get away from them!
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Well fi they are realy your friends you dont just stop being there friends because they do somethign liek that. The best thign 2 do is to keep reminding them and try to help them. I have friends liek this ... but you just need 2 keep reminding them and being there for them.
-beccers_boo
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youv got to stop them-yes even if that means sending a letter or talking to their parents--belive me-iv lost over 5 people to drugs and drinking-not too cool-you wanna kno wut suxs-i could have told their parents and they would have done sum10 about it-they could still be here if i would have just done sum10 so simple to send a letter-you dont even have to put your name on it-but once there gone or sum10 happens-it is way past bein to late to save them-so do it while you still can and while they are still here-belive me-you dont want to lose them
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They need help. You may think it's nothing right now, but we are talking life and death. Seriously. Maybe you should talk to a counselor or sumthin, because really bad things could happen, and you could have to deal with the guilt. Sorry if this makes you feel bad, but i gotta tell you the truth. Drinking is one of the worst things you mentioned. I dont know if you guys are old enough to drive, but if one of your so-called friends got in a car and was drunk, she could get herself and innocent bystanders killed. Smoking is really dangerous for your body, sorry if i sound like a teacher or sumthin, but you need to know, and people can get sick from secondhand smoke. Drugs are just as bad, and your friend could get arrested! If you dont think you can talk to somebody who could get them to stop, you need to just make other friends, because those people can only bring you down in life. I hope i helped!
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hmm you already did the right thing by talking to them! all you can do it just IGNORE!! if they come and ask you why you are ignoring them tell them again! show them what can happen dont just let it go!
HOPE I HELPED!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle
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