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does age really metter?
me and my boyfriend have been together for quite some time ((3 months)) he is 18 now & im 15... my parents think he is 16 and i hate lying to them but i love him and i want to be with him... how bad does this make me??
my b-day is on may 5th
and his on the 13
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Well, the only problem is parents normally find out the truth. It doesn't make you bad exactly, but it's always better to tell the truth. Then again, you'll get in trouble for the fact that you lied and his age. You're just in a bad situation. Sorry that I didn't help you.
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well tell your parents how old he is!! if you explain to them tht hes dont gunna do nething to you..ten they mite let..if you wanna see wut they mite say..ask them like wut age range theyll let you date..yah kno? but soooner or later you gotta tell them..cuz if sumthing happens..they wont no like the rite facts n shyt
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at dinner one night, just be like, "So how do you like ____?" at dinner one night. Then when they say that they like him enough tell them about your teeny lie. If they do like this guy they should understand and if they do get upset you can say something like, "But I had to lie or else you wouldn't have let me date him and I knew how great he is."
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hm. u shud b/c the guilt is jus ogonna get bigger and then if ur parents find out.. their gonna be even madder *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi
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i dont think age matters but you guys should be careful because he can get in trouble for you your still a minor and hes basically an adult.Just tell your parents the truth im sure they wont care..but to be on the safe side id deff. tell them no matter how mad they would get because if he gets in trouble for you then they can back him up sayin they approve and stuff. but if you want to keep it a secret go ahead!
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I do beileve age does not matter....to a certain extent. First, make sure HE IS THE ONE FOR YOU! Don't start a relationship because it may make you seem adult like. And remeber,respect your parents. THEY may be right. If he doesn't respect you limits, leave. Hear me clearly, this dude is older than u and probably stronger.
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I would just tell your parents the truth because they are bound to find out sooner or later and that will just make them not trust you more, if you and this guy are serious about keeping your relationship then let him meet your parents and what not if he hasnt already and they are bound to like him if he is a good guy. Im sure your parents will understand, just tell them you cant stand how immature guys your own age are.. Hope I helped! :)
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first of all wut your doing i illegal you need 2 ber 16 to date somone 18 or older. but besides that i would tell yoru parents after your 16... hhat way it will be legal by then. sorry this wasnt my best advice. hope i helped alittle
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Well, I'm lying about my boyyfriend. (lol) Sure its not kewl* to do, to lie to your parents. But what they don't know can't hurt em* he, he. *Quote: I'm not even supposed to be going out with anyone*. But it doesn't really make you a bad person at all! Hope I Helped Atleast a Lil*! :) Good Luck! If you need more advice just ask me! I most likely can give you more.
Shann
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You can't lie to them, you know that. You have got to tell them before they find out on their own, because then it'll be worse. Just calmly say that you lied because you liked him so much and didn't know how they'd react. Who knows what will happen; they might be okay with it, they might be so mad that you aren't allowed to see him anymore.. But you'll feel so much better after telling them.
And by the way, 15 and 18 isn't that big a deal to me. Just think how far apart in age they are (well if they're close this won't work, but if they are then you can bring it up). If you point that out, they might understand more and be a little nicer.
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