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Hey Everyone. My name is Barbie. I am 22. Working full time and in college. I'm here to give advice to serious questions, not to share my whole life story. I've not been active until recently. All of the questions I've answered on here, as you see are very old and out dated. I will no longer answer silly questions, but only more serious ones. If you want my opinon, ask me a question. I'm 100% honest to the best of my knowledge, blunt, and to the point. If that's what you're looking for, then you've come to the right place. If not, then my apologies, but you can go to some one else who will sugar coat things for you and make you hear what you want to hear.



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my boyfriend called last night and asked me why i haven't called him all summer. the truth is that i have called but i can never get through. so he thought i was mad at him, but i wasn't. at the end of the coversation we broke up. we had been going out for three months but we never saw or talked to each other. and techanically i shouldn't of been dating him anyway because my parents set the limit at 16. so now that we're not together, i think he's mad at me. its really confusing. what happens now? did i lose him as a friend as well as a boyfriend? if you can help me then please do. thanks.

well call him and ask him to hang out with you one day so you can talk. let him know why yins dint talk all summer. and also ask him if he see's a second chance with you any time in the near furture and if not ask if it is still ok to be friends. good luck.

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(14/f) i have a hard time getting along with girls. i only have 3 really close friends that are girls and 2 of them are changing alot and i'm begining not to like how they are acting lately. the majority of my friends are boys. i really can't stand being friends with girls! they always find a way to piss me off and with my guy friends... they are so much more easy going! my friend amanda she's been my best friend for about 3 years and she's the same way as me so i guess that's why we get along. but is there something wrong with me that i don't like being around girls and i just like being around guys??

no... i know what you mean. girls can tend to be bitchy alot and it is very agrivating. guys are more easy going and easier to get along with.

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is it wrong to flirt and make out and stuff w/ a guy when you aren't dating..? like little benafit buddys?

no, not at all. i thin everyone in there life has done it or will do it. if you like to do it then go for it.

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Ok well i dont have a clue on how to rate people so if you can tell me how to then I'll rate you!

when you ask some one a question and you go back to thier page to find a response it will have a little link that says rate answer or something like that, then just pick the number you want to rate the person with. hope it helps

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I had sex with my boyfriend about a month ago.. and since then my periods have been messed up. I got one at the beginning of July.. then I had sex.. and got it again in mid-july. Then.. I got it again today.. Is it nomal for ur period to be all outta wack after u have sex? or is something wrong?

if it was your first time having sex then dont worry about it. it is normal for this to happen. and i dont think you were having your period in mid july... you were prolly bleeding bc your cherry popped. if it wasnt your first time having sex then consult your doctor.

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my best friend always talks to my mom on the comp it drives me so insane! bcuz i dont want my mom knoing about EVERY single fricken thing thats going on in my life i tryed telling her to stop but it doesnt work and i told my mom 2 stop and she wont wut the hell should i do? im miserable Answer ASAP

talk to your friend and your mom and let them both know how you feel. butbefore you jump to conclusions did it ever cross your mind that your friend just talk to your mom and turns to her for advice in life?? maybe she does it because she doesnt have that kind of relationship with her own mom and is seeking that. and that she finds it in your mom. good luck and hope this helped.

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Hello! I was wondering if any of you know any good home remedies to get rid of pimples, besides toothpaste. Thanks!

rubbing alcohol removes dirt and oil from your face to help prevent pimples. but if you have them to the extreme, then you should prolly see a dermatologistand have him prescribe you something.

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Does anyone know if burning incense causes lung cancer?(Please answer only if you really know)

no they dont. if you have lung problems then its probably not the best thng for you but other than that you have no worries.

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heyy does anybody know any good sites with quotes. Not just lovepoetry.com but quote sites that teenagers have made? Thanks!!!

firehotquotes.com
quoteland.com

it all depend on what type of quotes you want to look at. but these are two of my fave.

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what does it mean when a guy "eats a girl out" or when a girl gives a guy "head"???

when a guy eats a girl out it means that he goes down and licks her vagina. and when a gurl give a guy head then it means the girl will suck the guys penis.

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What are all the flavors of condoms? Do they really taste good? What kind taste best?

there are tons of flavors. there are vanilla, choclate, cola, cherry, banna, grape, strawberry, etc. the list goes on. as far as tasting good, it all dpends on who it is. some people like them, some dont. you'll never know if you like them until you try them. and as far as which are the best- it again all depends on you and what you like.

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ok well there is this girl that i have liked for a long time now but thought she was always " out of my league " well finally i told my best friend that i liked her one day and the next day he went and asked her out well they broke up and now the girl found out about how i liked her and she liked me the whole time too so now we wanna get wit each other but my friend keeps sayin if we do he wont ever talk to me again so im not sure what to do


what would you do???
sorry its so long

if he wants to be like that then he is not a friend. first off he had no right to go and ask the girl out for himself the next day all because you liked her. if she is the person you are gonna be happy with in your life right now, then go for it and dont worry about what other people say or think. as long as your happy then you dont have to worry about it.

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okay, i am a 17 yr old girl, and i have only ever ahd oen alcoholic drink in my life. Mike's Hard Lemonade . but ever sicne i had it, i have wanted more like all the time. and i have wnated to try many other types of alcoholic drinks. i have never been drunk or high in my life, but i really wnat to at least once. is that a bad thign and when are you supossed to draw the line and say "i've had enough" and when does that turn into an addiction?

no. it is def. not an addiction. you have only had one drink before. and it wasnt that bad either bc there is a very little perentage of alochol in mike's hard lemonade. its only like 5%. and its normal for your age to want to go out and get drunk and find out what it is like. and if you were addicted to alcohol then you would have it all day long and every day. it would be a 24/7/365 type of thing. so just go out and have fun. there's nothing wrong with that.

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I'm 13/f with long blonde hair. I'm getting my hair highlighted (a lighter blonde) in a few days and i was just wondering is it really really bad for your hair? Can highlighting it do permenant damage? I'm not sure if i still want it highlighted if it's gunna ruin my hair.

it wont ruin your hair. i go for hair so i know about this stuff. i think it will tuen out cute. dont worry about it, your hair will be fine afterwards.

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hi i got my carltidge peirced like a little over a month ago and its kinda sore and theres a bump over the hole. is that normal?

no... thats not normal. it means that it is infected. you should either take the earing out and let it close up or consult your doctor on what to do.

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my best friend changed so much in the past year. when i first met her she was almost prude and she was such a lil goody goody. she said she would never let a guy go up her shirt and how she would be afraid to jerk off a guy because she would think she'd hurt him lol. well she has been with this guy for about a lil bit over a year now. she has changed so much. she's drinking now, she has sex.. like too much sex (she does it with him every night like 3x) i really dont know what to do. i hate the fact that she has changed so much. all of our friends say the same thing and talk behind her back. they say stuff about how shes changed so much and how gross her and her boyfriend are when they are out in public with us. a little while ago her and her boyfriend were on me and my boyfriend's asses about how we hang out too much.. well now they are being hypocrits bc ever since they started having sex, they have been hanging out like everyday. i wonder if its because they wanna have sex? idk but i really need to say something but i dont know how.. what do you think?

ok well first thing its her life and if she and her bf want to have sex then its their choice. there is nothing you can do to change that. but just let her know that people are talking behind her back. and let her know what people say. and tell her that when she goes around telling ppl what happens between her and her bf to keel it on the DL. (down low, i case ya dint know). just tell her as a friend that you dont wanna see her get a bad rep. and your just concerned she might.

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okay, this guy likes me, i mean really really likes me, and i am crazy fro him too, and we have a history. but anyways. he told my friend he really really likes me (we are a big group of friends...lol) and that he doesnt want to give me the impression he doesnt liek me cuz he does. but he's not ready for a relationship right now. but when he's ready he'll ask me out. and i think that i know why he isnt ready, and it's cuz of my freind (now ex-freind) who caused him to break up with me once and and then flirted around with him, just cuz she liked the attention, she didnt care a thing about him, and he ask her out and she laughed in his face and told him no. so, yeah, i think that may be why. but i dont know

so my questions are what does he mean by he's not ready for a relationship and what shoudl i do abotu what my friend did, cuz it realyl makes me mad that she would play with his head like that (even tho it was like a yr ago.)

any one have any ideas?

I RATE!!!

he prolly means that he likes you alot and doesnt want to jump into things out of the fear of rejection and being hurt again. try talking to him and let him know you feel the same way for him and let him know that you dont wanna hurt him. and as for what your friend did to him, there is nothig you can really do except for maybe talking to her and telling her how bad she really hurt him and now because of it he is scared to get into a relationship with you. and if she doesnt care then you dont deserve to have a friend like her. but whats done is done and you cant change the past. lemme know if ya need anything else. ill be glad to help, just leave one in my inbox or IM me. let me know how things work out. good luck! XOXO

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See I have boys that are my friends and their best friends , but they both have a crush on me , but when they both found out that each other liked me and they stoped talking to each other, I like one but the other I don't want to hurt ,what do i do???!!!

just explain to the both of them that you wanna be firends. and tell the one you like that you like him and explain to the other one that you rather have him as a friend than boy friend and that you dont want to jeopardize the friendship you two have. hope it help. drop one in the inbox if ya need anything else. good luck and let me kow how things work out for ya.

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My ex boyfriend whom I haven't talked to in a month just called me the other day. We went out for 6 months and he is 19 and im 17. Then for the last 3 or 4 months we talked like a couple times a month until last month when we didnt talk at all and during those 3 months i would always cry because i missed him so much and couldnt talk to him or anything. Then he called me a couple days ago and apologized for everything, told me he loved me and missed me and how much of a jerk he was and asked if i would give him anotehr chance. i really want him back but I dont know what to do i love him so much but I dont want to get hurt again but he is like the only person who truly makes me happy and makes me smile...I need advice quick! :(

if you really like him, then go for it. apparently what he did couldnt be all that bad if yins were able to talk right after breaking up and also you wouldnt have to reconsider giving him that second chance... now would you? it sounds like you want to take that second chance with him and have the risk of possibly getting hurt again. so go for it. i hope that helps. good luck

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im a freshman and all the senior guys are all over me. its great but its kinda bad ya no. this really hott guy invited me to a party and there will b drinking drugs sex and everything there and i dont want any of the guys to expect sex or a hj or bj from me. do u think i should go to the party? thnx

when a senoir guy goes after a freshman girl, they're only looking for some fresh meat. by that way you have explained the situation, it seems that you already know that you dont wanna go. why waste your time if your gonna go to this party and not do anything. and if you get drunk or high then you may do something that you'll regret. and one of the last things you want is to get a bad rep.

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