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ask mackenzie





I did not write the book of love,
and I do not claim to be full of wisdom.

I sure do make mistakes,
but I live and learn!

I try to let no one come to me,
without leaving happier. [:



"Exert your talents,
and distinguish yourself.
Don't even think about
retiring from the World,
until the World will be
sorry that you retire!"



advice

♥[?]♥ Hi everyone I am planning to start my own magazine company. I wanted to know from teenagers what do you'll look for in a magazine. If you have any suggestions or comments let me know I will greatly appreciate them. But I don't want comments on celebrities because I already have that covered.
Thank you :)
Diversity. Your teenager years are pretty much a happy medium between hell and paradise. I'm assuming you've far learned this by now, so you know how tough it is. Seeing as how they're all pretty much a bunch of moody sacks of hormones, you can bet the issue of self-confidence is always on our mind. If you could gear your magazine more towards the desire of the generation (rather than a particular "label"), that would probably be a good idea, at least one worthy of some thought. And what better way to begin appealing to our "generation" than with a wide variety of religion, nationalities, and physical appearances?


I also agree with Southern_Chickety down there. The embarrassing stories page is the absolute very first page I thumb for. ;]

♥[?]♥ whats a good photo thing to download i want an editor that can make my pictures look cartoonish?
Photoshop: http://www.download.com/Adobe-Photoshop/3000-2192_4-10401295.html?tag=lst-0-3

♥[?]♥ Has anyone ever played magic the gathering? How...mystical/weird/gothic/spooky is it? Does it involve wicca? What is wicca?

Thanks!
I used to play that. It's basically just a card game of fantasy. It's nothing bad, and "Wicca" doesn't have anything to do with it. And as for what Wicca is, you can find more information about that at: http://www.wicca.com/celtic/wicca/wicca.htm

♥[?]♥ Okay, I'm moving to Maryland, and I've recently become obsessed with this guy I'm gonna meet there. I know I'm going to fall in love with him, and I half have already. I don't know who he is, what he looks like, or anything. I just know he's there.

Am I insane? Ridiculously desperate for companionship? (I'm really not.) Or can there be truth to the words "I loved you before I ever met you."?
I don't know if "true love" would be appropriate. I just believe for "true love" you'd need the entire package, and you don't entirely have that yet. I suppose I would say "deepest infatuation" might be a fine substitute, though. And, yes, I do believe it's possible. Just be careful. (=

♥[?]♥ Ok im 13 and im in 8th grade..and im already tired of school. Ok? Like i have a lot of friends i just dont like people and all the drama with my friends so it takes all of me to get up in the morning and go to school. Then like the teachers are ok and all but they just put too much pressure on me and i teach myself better than they teach me. So i want to be homeschooled for highschool...my sister said she would do it i mean she works at home anyway. But my dad doesnt think its such a very good idea because then i may not get into a good college but i dont know if i want to go to college...i really desperately need help.. should i stick it out and try for college or just be homeschooled what would you do? Also im pretty much inlove with this guy actually im fully inlove with this guy and we have our whole lives planned together. So we want to get married as soon as I graduate because he's joining the marines and like thats another thing... i was gonna live on base with him... so i dont kno what to do. I dont know if i want college and i dont know if i was to be homeschooled... i'm really thinking about it but then like i dont kno im just so confused can anyone help??
Sorry if this is confusing i just kinda wrote what i was thinking and my toughts are all jambled right now...please help!
Kayte
Where shall I start?


I know what you're saying about 8th grade kiddies and they're infantile "drama". Unfortunately, that's just the way 8th grade is, and it's going to be like that no matter which junior high you attend. That's just how people are at that age. The majority of them only care about whose jeans cost the most and who is rolling their eyes at them. You're not really asking, but my advice there is to grin and bear it; just as you are, I suppose. You're almost done with it. You can stick it out a bit longer. And hey, what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger, right?


I'm seventeen, and I am home-schooled. And for the record, home-schooling would be easier than you might think, believe me. I like home-schooling -- it is the right decision for ME. I, personally, couldn't be happier. However, before I jumped into home-schooling, I attended public school for my freshman year. I'm begging you to do the same. I'm not sure what your opinion of high school is like, but if you believe what you see in the movies, you're in for a huge surprise. Don't movies only show the prettiest women in the 00 size skirts? Yes. But, is every woman drop dead gorgeous and in a 00 skirt? Not by a long shot. And, do movies show only the most unbeliebavle teenage romances? Don't they look wonderful? Wouldn't they be a dream come true? Of course. Is that the way real love and real life are? No way.


You've probably heard a ton of rumors about all the terrible things high school upper classmen do to "Freshmeat", and you would think high school would be like that. But, believe it or not: high school kids are very accepting of differences. If you want my personal opinion, I'm guessing it's that way because high school homework is hard enough. Everyone is basically just trying to get through it. The work is tough on mostly everybody, and since that's so... no one has any time or need to pick on anybody else.. because they wouldn't want it done to them, ya know? Junior high kids walk around like they own the place, like they deserve respect. And really, I think everyone should deserve respect. But high school kids (from what I've noticed) have the mind set of, "give respect to get respect". That being said, as long as you're a polite person then you shouldn't have any troubles.


And if what I just told you about the homework being tough scares you, and that makes you want to switch to home-schooling, think twice. Just because you're taught from the comforts of your own home does not make the work any easier. It might be a relaxing environment that lets you think more clearly and concentrate better, which would be helpful, yes. But, that does not make the worse any less easier. Infact, it might even be more difficult. The reason I say that is because you can get online schooling (which is the way to go, by the way). And with online schooling they're pretty good with providing you assistance, but you still have that whole dilemma of having to teach yourself. And teaching yourself Chemistry isn't exactly easy for everybody.


Basically, please try out public school before deciding that home-schooling is the thing to do. Getting good grades and being accepted into college (or at elast obtaining the high school diploma) is what you're in high school for. However, the most important thing you will learn is not math, is not the works of Shakespear, or the French language, it's the plain people skills. High school is one big learning experience, inside of the classroom or out. High school is the last and biggest shove into "the real world". High school is where you will learn a plethora of life's little lessons; important lessons. I'm just asking you to think about this, and test this out. Go and see what you're getting yourself into before you pull yourself out. Be optimistic, you may like it. You may love it. Whatever the case, you need to live it.


As for your plans with this guy, it's nice that you have someone you feel so close to, and it's great to have dreams. Marriage is a long way away, just remember that. I say that if you do infact wind up being home-schooled, that things will either work out with him, or not. And maybe if they don't, then you two weren't as strong as you had previously thought. Or if you end up attending a public high school, I think you'll be surprised at how much life will change. You're 14 (probably?). You're not a baby, but you're still a child. I'm 17, and I'm still a child. Hell, I'll still be a child after a few more years. Growing up is a long and tedious process. I can tell you right now that I am a completely different person than I was at 14. I'm sure you will notice the same in a few years - that's just how life is. It's funny like that. I've just always been one to believe that everything happens for a reason, and if you can not find that reason, then there must be a reason for that, too.

♥[?]♥ does anyone know how to put pics in your profile..like...going across the about me? thanks so muchness ♥
Are you saying you want them to scroll across the screen, or what? If that's what you mean, then your code would be:


< marquee >< img src="URLOFPICTUREHERE" >< / marquee >


Then you would just go through and delete ALL EMPTY spaces within the

♥[?]♥
I'm looking for a good shaving creme, one that smells really nice and thats gonna make my legs feel soft and silky. Also,looking for a good lotion.Thanks
Looks like I'm another vote for Skintimate. I also like Barbasol; I find that works great. However, it doesn't carry the sweet smell that Skintimate does. (=

♥[?]♥ first and foremost, i wouldl ike to add one thing to moderators. delete me! i do not care! you may delete at will! i trust you in your power, and the rest of us lower ppl should! quit saying dont delete me ppl! theres only like 11 or 12 levels 2's! if your deleted, theres a reason! so with that in mind, delete to your hearts content. and please, please, from the bottom of my heart, delete the next question that says do not delete. and thank you everyone, for reading this warm, heartful thing on deleted questions. or something. hm, i wonder if this makes any sence, what so ever.

Matt
You're nuts.

♥[?]♥ One of my close male friends and I email each other. We are just friends, but he sent me an email that made me think that he may like me more. Well I told him in an email that I got 8 inches cut off my hair, and that is was really short now.
He sent me an email back and said " I can hardly WAIT to see your new look, and now you can show off you sexy neck".
Do you think this means he likes me more than a friends?
Based on what you've told me, I don't see any screaming signs that he "likes you, likes you". Of course, he could.. but your story doesn't make that painfully obvious. But if you feel there's hope, pursue it and see how it goes. ;]

♥[?]♥ what kinds of foods should i avoid if i want to get a flatter stomach ?
You can find lists of healthy foods at:
- http://www.fit4free.org/healthy%20foods%20list.htm
- http://www.whfoods.com/foodstoc.php
- http://bellaonline.com/articles/art1862.asp

♥[?]♥ Okay so im 15/f and ive got stretch marks on my upper thighs and hips and also on my bum and i wanted to know if there is anything i can get to fade them? i no i cant make them dissappear forever but i just want to make them less visable

can any one help? also im from the UK ENGLAND
You're right; unfortunately, they will never disappear completely. On the bright side, they lighten. And yes, there are some products that promise to lessen the visibility of stretch marks. There is a product called Strivectin, HOWEVER, it is VERY expensive, we're talking $115.00+. You can find more information about that at:
http://www.skinstore.com/store/category.asp?catID=1621 But if you're looking for something a bit LESS pricey, try Coco Butter Cream, which can be purchased at stores like Walgreens, Walmart and so on for under $3-7.00, depending on the size of the bottle.

♥[?]♥ My mom just kicked me outa the house ... what am i suposed to do to get back?? or just do period??
Uhm, is that even legal? If you're under the age of 18, at least 16.. I don't think they're allowed to do that. Of course, I'm not an expert or know-it-all on this. I recommend going over to another relative's house or a friend's house and speaking with one of their parents. Perhaps they can call and talk some sense into your nutty household. If it's any help at all, my family is a bunch of crude whackos, too. =)

♥[?]♥ I like 80's music; but I don't know the names of many of them. So far I've downloaded "In the air tonight" by Phil Collins. "Tainted Love", andTheres another song called "What is love?".. I Think. It goes "What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more".

Anybody want to give me some more 80's music?!!
Or hits of the 80's?
I love 80's music! !
THanks!!
"What Is Love" is by Haddaway. Great song. Classic. You could also try:
- "Every Breath You Take", by Police
- "Footloose", by Kenny Loggins
- "Girls Just Want To Have Fun", by Cyndi Lauper
and others found on http://www.afn.org/~afn30091/1984.html

♥[?]♥ For this year at my school we need to have a year book qoute. I need to have one by Friday so please answer with some good quotes!
These might help you:
- http://www.wisdomquotes.com/
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=xx____qu0tezz
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=x_emo_quotes_x
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=quotes_4_yeew
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=flip_x_flop_quotesz
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=SiMpLe_SwEeTqUoTeS
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=love_quotzx3
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=SO_CUTE_CWOTES
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=AwesomeQuotesx
- http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/keywords/popular.html

♥[?]♥ Hi
Im currently in a psychaitric institution, this is my 5th month now.

I am being evaluated for asperger syndrom , can anyone give me any hints on what this is; the _symptoms_, the prognosises etc.?

Thanks for all replys.
Well, I found a website which might be of some use to you:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asperger's_syndrome

♥[?]♥ what is the code to leave a comment with a picture? thanks
If this image is one you found online, right click it, go to "PROPERTIES", and copy all of it's "ADDRESS(URL)". What you've just copied is the URL to the image.


Now, if this image is something on your computer, you need to HOST it. You "host" something by going to: http://www.photobucket.com and SIGNING UP for a FREE account.


Then the page will refresh, and you should see a new page with an option to click on "BROWSE". Next, search your computer for the picture(s), and click "SUBMIT". Then the page will refresh yet again. You will see all/any images you happen to have on the new screen. Simply find the picture you want, and copy the PROVIDED URL in the top white slot.


However you went about getting the URL to the image, insert the URL where I instruct you to within the following HTML code:
< img src="URL OF THE PICTURE HERE" >
Then you simply delete the TWO EMPTY spaces that separate the < and > from the rest of the code, make sense?


To get pictures to show up in a comment, just paste the "IMG SRC" code in the comment box.


It might seem difficult, but I assure you that this is actually very easy. And with my step-by-step directions, you will find that this is really a piece of cake!


I have a MySpace, also, so if you're ever in need of additional assistance, know that you can always come to me. :D

♥[?]♥ whats a good way besides lifting weights to get fat off your arms? xo thank you! much appreciated
Going with what WiseAl said, if you want results, you need to eat properly, I agree. However, this doesn't mean that you have to necessarily give up all of your favorite foods. You just have to eat appropriate sized servings in moderation. That being said, you also need to establish some selfcontrol. Just take it easy on all of the extremely unhealthy foods, such as cake products, white bread [substitute it with wheat], soda, ice cream, and chips. Yes, these foods may be delicious, but they're not suitable for every day consumption. And they're most certainly not the key to weight loss. Cut back on [if not eliminate them all together], for two weeks. Challenge yourself. Prove to yourself that you CAN do this. So, accomplish a two week stand off with the sugar, and then go celebrate one night with an ice cream sundae - just keep it at an acceptable size! It's okay to treat yourself, that's exactly what you need; a system. Let this be your plan of attack!! You CAN do this.


But as you probably already know, it's best to eat several small portions a day; but this does not mean to "starve" yourself. Say, have an apple and a piece of cheese, two hours later have a few crakers, and an hour later have one piece of wheat toast, and so on and so forth, ya know??? And those are just some snack ideas. When it comes to solid meals, you don't really have to cut out much. Just take in moderation. Little intakes of food like that gives your body time to digest it properly. You see how that's better than eating one or two huge meals a day?? Because then it would take too long to catch up, and your body will not be able to burn the calories quickly enough; so it just quits, adding body fat.


That being said, you can find lists of healthy foods at:
- http://www.fit4free.org/healthy%20foods%20list.htm
- http://www.whfoods.com/foodstoc.php
- http://bellaonline.com/articles/art1862.asp


And as far as an exercise routine goes, a few good activities that can simply assist in porportioning the body in it's entirety would be anything that gets the blood circulation goin', such as: jogging, jumping jacks, jumping rope, walking, and bicycle riding. Another thing, if you have access to a heated pool, water aerobics work like a charm!!


To tone your triceps (I do this one and it performs miracles, by the way!):
- http://www.akard.com/tone_the_triceps.htm


And here is something I'm sure will spark your interest. This website has a list activities, and the numerical amount of calories they will burn:
- http://www.nutristrategy.com/activitylist.htm


Of course you must realize that weight loss takes time. I can't really say how long it will take; I suppose that differs from person to person. It really just depends on how much weight you're looking to shed. I'd say you could lose 10 to 20 pounds within the first month; that's very possible [seeing as how a good portion of that 10-20 pounds will be water weight].


You just have to stay committed, and strive to keep up the drive. Some tips: just try to keep yourself busy, and sleep as often as possible. Those things keep your mind off of food.


Sure it seems like you're giving up so much, but think about what you will be gaining if you feel better about yourself! That's the best damned grand prize you'll ever find! (=

♥[?]♥ Can anyone give me a website to go on to get sad poems or quotes about deat or suicide??

Thanks
Here's a few websites containing the death qoutes you requested:
- http://quotes.prolix.nu/Death/
- http://en.thinkexist.com/quotations/death_and_dying/
- http://quotations.about.com/cs/inspirationquotes/a/Death2.htm


You could also search:
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=xx____qu0tezz
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=x_emo_quotes_x
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=quotes_4_yeew
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=flip_x_flop_quotesz
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=SiMpLe_SwEeTqUoTeS
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=love_quotzx3
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=SO_CUTE_CWOTES
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=AwesomeQuotesx
- http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/keywords/popular.html

♥[?]♥ were can i listen to music with out downloading anything not limewire or cdzinc i really want to listen to music with out downloading anything with updated good songs any ideas? ill rate 5 for any good answers
http://www.singingfish.com , but that site is very unsafe. Other than that, try http://launch.yahoo.com

♥[?]♥ Well i really need some good quotes about love. does anybody have any good ones or good sites? I need the quotes kinda quickly but i can wait a little.
I rate
Thanks in advance
Quotless in Chicago
You're bound to find what you want at one of the following:
- http://www.wisdomquotes.com/
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=xx____qu0tezz
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=x_emo_quotes_x
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=quotes_4_yeew
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=flip_x_flop_quotesz
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=SiMpLe_SwEeTqUoTeS
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=love_quotzx3
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=SO_CUTE_CWOTES
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=AwesomeQuotesx
- http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/keywords/popular.html


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