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my bf cheated on me. i should dump him because he made me cry and really hurt me
but i'm scared to dump him because he will get angry,
what should i do?

don't stay in a relationship thats hurting you.. get out of it

and if he does something, then get help..

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alright so i like this guy and well im not shure if he likes me.
ok so in school we have laptops and we all got an email address.
they told us not to email each other but hah we do anyways.
so my friend sits next to the guy i like & hes kept asking her to ask me if i thought he was cute er whatever. this was in study & i sit in back of him & he kept turning around at me and smiling? & then he kept bugging her about it and kept asking her. he only asked about me. so i dont know if he does or not. he just got out of a relationship w. his girlfriend like a couple weeks ago. [he broke up with her] but the thing is me & him barely talk. im shy around him and i cant help it lol.
so i was wondering if i should ask him to turnabout [or sadie hawkins if your familiar with the term] its the girls ask the guys.

thankss!

why not..
the worst it that he will say no but then you will be sure and not have to worry..

and if you need creative ways just ask..

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Alright. My left arm has been really irritated.


There is no rash. And it doesn't itch.


But, from the thumb, to my elbow my skin is so sensative.

When ever I move my arm, it burns, when ever I touch it, or its touched it burns. Its also extra sensative to heat or cold-ness.

Any idea what it is? Or what caused it?


By the way, I'm Fourtee years old, and female.

thats difficult to say...

there could be many things..

like maybe you pulled a muscle?
ripped a tendon?

try puuting lotion on it..
also when you are at school, just swing by the nuse, its an easy way to see whats wrong.. then either she will take care of it or she will recommend you to a doc
good luck w/ that

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14/f * not using the actual names
so i gave 6 of my friends like 5 dollar gifts. I gave Meg, Jill, Molly, and Lauren
each a bracelet. I gave Brianna and Annie each a ring and Brianna a little bracelet i made. I thought they all liked them. Now 3 of them aren't really that close of friends w/ me i mean we've hung out a little. I didn't get any presents from them but they've been talking about what they are getting other people right in my face. They're a little late though since winter break is over.

Meg, who i'm closer friends with got me a pair of earrings so that made me happy.

I gave Brianna and Annie the rings and they seemed to like them. Brianna, the girl i gave the ring and homemade bracelet to sort of seemed dispointed I didn't get her one of the bracelets, but i thought the ring was better. Turned out that the ring rusted..because i have one of my own..so it's sort of crappy. IT did cost more than the bracelet and it said love. But after break she came back w/ one of the bracelets...so maybe she really wanted the bracelet.

anyway everyone is talking about what they are getting each other right in my face. They are even telling me what they got the other person. So i'm kind of mad. I mean i don't want their gifts, it's just they shouldn't say it right in my face.

I gave Annie who lives in a dif state the ring and a really long loving letter. Brianna went and visited her and Annie said she would send my present home with Brianna, but did she? NO!

So my question is..why are people saying this stuff in my face, and why aren't i recieving?

thanks i know it's long, but you wouldn't get it if i did a he said she said long message.

I know this is probably not the answer you want but, when you decide to give somemthing to someone, you should never expect to get something in return..

i mean the reason you give is out of the goodness of your heart..

some people will immediatly give a present back because they feel happy you got them something and want to give you something in return

while others are like "thanks..." and thats it

its just the nature of some people..
some are kinder and think about other while some only care for themselves

my advice would be to forget about it... i know you want something but unfortunatly you might not get it.. thats just how some people are

im sorry. but if you ever gave me something (1, i would be iving it to you first and 2, i would get you something the next day) :)

people just don't have that much of common sense to realize this..

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ok so i am getting a new phone from alltel but they dont cary it any more so i have to get it from ebay. how do i do that, like does my mom put in her credit card or w/e...and if there if more than 1 bid does the auctioner like just pick the highest bid??? I just don't understand any of it

she would have to create an account and for it you will have to put in your credit card number

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I am doing a play in May and I want to get a new haircut in time for the show.
This is the cut that I want to get:

http://s56.photobucket.com/albums/g164/risingloafer/?action=view¤t=100_1747.jpg
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g164/risingloafer/100_1738.jpg
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g164/risingloafer/100_1737.jpg
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g164/risingloafer/100_1629.jpg
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g164/risingloafer/100_1625.jpg
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g164/risingloafer/100_1624.jpg
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g164/risingloafer/100_1621.jpg


This is what my hair looks like right now:
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g164/risingloafer/100_1757.jpg
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g164/risingloafer/100_1762.jpg
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g164/risingloafer/100_1761.jpg
http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g164/risingloafer/100_1758.jpg

I have two questions about the haircut.

A) Is it possible for my hair to grow out to the appropriate length in four months?
B) If I got the haircut, would I have to blow-dry and use a curling iron to get it to poof up, or does the layered hair naturally fall that way? In other words, how much time would I have to spend on my hair?



well, it depends on how long your hair grows but i think that you will need to do things to it to get it that way.

im sure that if you show the hair dresser the pic she will know what to do.

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ok here it goes. me and my boyfriend were having sex and the condom broke but he says that he didn't cum inside of me. and i completely believe him. he wouldn't lie about something like this. if he came on the outside of me but still on my vagina could i possibly be pregnant and if so what should i do to find out if i am pregnant? oh and when the condom broke while still inside of me what does that mean. like could that right there mean that i'm pregnant . please help me. i cant go to anyone so i have nobody to help me. someone with real advice at least.

i definatly think you should get yourself checked.

this is a very serious matter and you should know for certain so that there are no surprises!

Im not trying to sound rude but it would be very important or to be 100% sure, also this way you can relax afterwards

good luck

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My mother gave me some money the other day, but she did it while i was completely zoned into the tv, and I cannot remember where I put it. Is there any way to trick my mind into remembering? thanks

just keep looking, even in places you don't think it is in..

cause sometimes i put things in unusual places so i would remember but i forget :P

anyways, if you keep seaching then it will come to you or you'll find it

good luck

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people keep calling me with numbers that idk and i don't wanna call them back so i was wondering if there is any FREE way to type in a phone number into yellow pages or something and see who it belongs to? I've tried googling it but they all costed money

have you tried yellowbook.com?
i use it for things like that, its very helpful...

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My ex boyfriend (I'll call him L)and I went out for a month last year, and broke up becuz we were just acting like friends (it was our first relationship). Anyway, we are a rare case, because we just got ridiculously closer and its exactly a year today that we were together; we talk everyday, and he is almost like my best friend, only more. Anyway, i never completely got over him. I honestly love him. Not in love, but i do love him so much. We connect in a way that I never have with anyone. And i know he loves me too, we make a cute couple and balance each other well, but two months ago, i told him that i still had feelings for him and he told that we should just be friends. Anyway, my guy best friend's good friend J likes me alot, and I am attracted to him,but I cant see myself with him, because I still like the other guy. So, last night, I asked L for advice on what to do: whether I should give J a chance or not (because he is the only one who could give me a true answer). And he gave the sweetest advice, that if I saw myself with him than I should give him a chance, but if I cant than maybe I shouldnt. I told him that he (L) would be fifth wheel if I went with J (becasue my guybest friend, his girlfriend, me and L...and now J hang out alot). And he told me not to worry about him, and be selfish for once. Then he quietly asked if I liked someone else, why i was so unsure about J...and I didnt want to answer(because of course I like him). There is nothing wrong with J,but I love L, and I want us to have another chance. We are perfect for each other. We are always flirting with each other, and i love the way he talks to me. He said I brighten his day. Should I give J a chance, or try to give it one try with L again (mind you, he might not even want to try it again.) I want L to know that I do love him. I just dont want to get rejected again. But I dont think I can be with J unless..

give'em a chance. it can't hurt.....

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Ok, so I've been trying to lose some weight lately by running. But whenever I run, my legs get really itchy :/ I don't know what is causing it or what will make it stop. Is this normal? If it is, is there anything I can do to make it go away? Please help, it's really annoying and discourages me to go out running. thanks!

when its cold and i run outside in jeans or even the sweatpants that cling to your skin, my skin gets really icthy and red. i found it better to wear those sweatpant that are like cotton, they are so much softer. Also making sure you legs are shaved and have lotion on makes it much better.

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hi
i have an art project. its about good vs. evil.
i have to draw objects that represent the good things in this world. the things that make you happy, execieted, and so on. then for the evil side i have to have bad corupt things. i have some things drawn for both sides but i need more.
good side, ice cream, books, fairys, presnts, choclate, music, rainbows, cake hearts, clouds, dove bird.
evil side, skulls, scary eyes, cigarettes, bombs, black bird.

thanks for you help and its ok if some things that you say arent so obvious like i think televison and money are corrupt in their own way.
=]

good:
health
warmth(bed, blanket)
beauty(could be both)
hearts
rainbow
nice smile
flowers
sun

bad:
money
tombs
fire (hell)
gun(bad choices)
evil smile???
gray clouds w/lightning

thast all i got (if you need more, then send me one to my inbox and maybe ill have more ideas later :) good luck!!

AND YES I WOULD DEFINATLY LIKE TO SEE IT!!!!

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I need a good nickname.. im almost 20 and i am very tired of Meagan... if it helps im white with brown hair and blue eyes.

Meg?
meggy?
megi?
nut meg?
may may?
maylee?
maisy?
mea?
meggie?
mo?
mimi?
Meh?
Meggsie?
Megster?

thats all i could come up with, some are lame, lol

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Whats are the best exercises to get rid of fat on your inner thighs!? i do lunges but they dont seem to work..

following are links

http://www.womens-health-fitness.com/thigh-exercises.html
http://yourtotalhealth.ivillage.com/diet-fitness/thigh-exercises
http://yourtotalhealth.ivillage.com/diet-fitness/thigh-exercises

but it takes commitment

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Whenever i put my clothes in the dryer, my shirts shrink and become too short. Its very upsetting. I want to try some kind or air drying or ventilation sysmtem. I saw a commercial for one where it would just air dry the clothes.. like there were mesh racks and you drape the clothes over them. I remember so little about it, that its been really hard to try to google. Does anyone know about any clothes air drying systems?? Or anything like that? That would be great. Thanks.

i don't know about them specifically but you can do other things

like put your wet clothes in a hanger and hang it by your bathtub over night

there is also an option on your dryer that says "air dry" that should help as well

you can also tkae a hanger a put it like a foot above your vent shaft

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I am 18/Female, and I have 6 weeks until my cruise. I was wondering what i should eat and what I should work on at the gym exactly. I want to lose some fat on my theighs, abs and hips. I am not overweight, i just need to tighten up those areas. any ideas?

thank you

look at the following links

on excersizes
http://www.hphdhelp.org/exercise.htm

http://www.fitstep.com/Library/Begin/exercises.htm

http://exercise.about.com/od/exerciseforbeginners/a/simple_exercise_2.htm

on food
http://www.diabetes.org/nutrition-and-recipes/nutrition/healthyfoodchoices.jsp

good luck and have fun on your cruize

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Ok, for school I have to add a couple people into a Little Red Riding Hood play.
Any ideas on characters I can add?
And what they could say or do?

Thanks =]

im thinking this up as i go

-a bear that smells the sweet in the basket and comes and want some so he plots with teh wolf to get the treats
-use that with bees, only they make LRRH take the long trial when they swarm around her and she ends up taking a even longer trail.
-the three bears!!! (that would be a nice twist and tis fun to see fairy tales mixed up) they were coming to see grandma as soon as they heard she was sick, they brought porridge with them!!!
-You can add Goldilocks to that aswell, and she could join LRRD on her walk to grandma's (but she too is ploting on getting some treats)!!!

thats all i can think up of for now, if you need more put it in my inbox and ill answer them

hope it help or sparks some ideas!! good luck!!

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i died my hair numerous (i think 2 or 3) times in october and november...would it be ok to dye it again now? or should i wait a couple more months?

you should definatly wait. if you don't your hair will become dried out and weak.

id say wait a couple of month and use strengthning shampoo

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On Monday my teacher warned my Eight Grade class that we are going to have a classroom spelling. Whoever passes it will go to the School Spelling Bee, which i am very excitd about, because i am a GREAT speller. Although I don't know what the words are going to be, I am very anxious, curious, and scared that I don't know how to spell a word because I never heard or seen it before.

Any tips on how I canbe good at Spelling Bees?
And also do you guys know where I can find the words that are frequently used in Spelling Bees? Either class spelling bees or school, or BOTH :)

I could really use your heklp for my advantage/benefits. I would gladly appreciate if you take your time to give me some advice and help me out so I will feel good & confident when it is my turn to spell, rather than freaking out.

Conclusion:
I REALLY WANT TO GET TO THE TOP AND WIN THE SCHOOL SPELLING BEE SINCE I DIDN'T WIN THE GEOGRAPHY BEE. I KNOW I NEED TO STUDY THE WORDS EACH DAY AND NOT CRAM ALL THE WORDS IN MY HEAD 3 DAYS BEFORE THE COMPETITION. BUT DO YOU GUYS KNOW ANY WAY HOW TO HELP ME OUT WITH WORDS? ANY TRICKS AND TIPS?

More:
Do you guys know any hard words that you think I can spell?

If there's more to say, please add more information and go beyond the advice, meaning, give a really helpful advice to me.

14/female/8th grade :),
Future spelling Bee QUEEN :)

on the words
http://www.spellingbee.com/

http://www.myspellit.com/downloads.html

http://www.spellingbee.com/cwl.shtml

http://www.eyedocgreg.com/homeschool/spelling_bee.htm

tips
http://www.myspellit.com/Spell_It_2008_download.pdf

good luck! you seem slike you can will and i hope you do, Future Spelling Bee Queen!!!!11

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ok i need a song thats about cousins who are best friends.

heres what i got off the internet

http://forum.letssingit.com/topic/258165/songs-about-cousins-or-friendship/1

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080101190832AAbw8Tz

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