HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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So I take a shower everyday. haha. I thought I would start with that. But every day *like 12 hours after I shave-- less than 1 day* my legs are prickely *is that even a word?!* again. I hate it. Because I usually shower @ like 5ish, after camp and going to my towns pool.
I dont use shave gel or anything... just soap. Does using gel or those kind of products help get a longer feel?
And I know that hair grows faster when you shave more, but I have been shaving for a couple of years. *since i was like 12ish* I never had this problem before in the summer *I only shave my legs in the summer.*
So is there anything I can do?
Thanks! (link)
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you obviously use the wrong stuff for shaving...if you use a razor or shaving cream then STOP cuz itll get your hair thicker....waxing gives you the best results without having your legs "prikley" after.
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ok, my like best friend, has told me weird things ever since we were in like 5th or 6th grade. Like about God. & she told me yesterday, that god told her to like walk through a closet & she would go to heaven. & she thought she saw a white sparkly light. & then she thought yesterday, late at night, she saw a red lightt. & like she thought shes seen like jesus before & stuff.. so my question is, is she like pyscho? or is she really seeing this stuff? like, it was just weird. & like her mom, takes sleeping pills to fall asleep, her dad is like weird.. he takes pills for everything. he tells her that shes fat, when she probaly only weighs like 90 pounds & shes 13. & like he just puts alot of pressure on his kids..
do you think that has anything to do with it? like she always gets so worked up. & i dont really know what to say to her. (link)
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something is definitley wrong with your freind here and something psycological is behind it too.She probably has a LOT of family problems,or health problems,lack of confidence and school problems and a really wild imajination you need to help her.talk to YOUR mom about this mabey she has an idea what this can be or if her parents are good people mabey you can talk to her mom.if that wont work then its either your freind really needs to go to a psycologist or she could be lying to get the attention she lacks at home.advice her to go to a psycologist.
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ive been dating this amazing guy for about a month now and we met online. i know him through a friend but we met online. the only thing that sucks it that he lives 40 mins away so i wont get to see him much. hes an amazing guy and i never want to lose him. should i keep working at it? (link)
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wow thats great keep it going,so what if he lives far away from you,you never know if you will find a guy like him again.
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I lost my virginity to my boyfriend a few days ago in the shower. I happened to notice some blood trickling down the drain. It wasn't a lot, but it was enough to concern me. Is that normal? Please tell me! (link)
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yes its normal,its because he popped you hymen or in other words popped your cherry,your hymen is a tissue that prevents you from getting pregnant so its normal for you to bleed a lil after its been popped
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oh ok so I have this friend named karen and she is really nice to me but whenever we hang out with my other friend she trys to act like all popular around her.The thing is I don't know why she does that,that is not the karen I know,i mean I nvr see her act "all that" around me and thinking that she is bigger than me.only around my other friend she acts all snobby.I think I know how to solve this problem but I need some second opinions. (link)
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she does this to make herself "liked" by your other freinds to make more freinds.talk to her about it you need to confront her if it annoys you,ask her why is it that you get all snobby around her freinds and it annoys you and ask her to stop doing that because people will get the wrong picture about her.
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Is blow drying bad for you hair?
Is shampoo bad for you hair?
Why?
Thanks guys! (link)
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shampoo cleans your hair not ruins it,if you use it right by massaging the shampoo on to your scalp and the rest of your hair(after your hair is wet ofcourse)then you rinse it well,if theres still shampoo in your hair that you didnt wash out itll get you dandruff!!!and blowdrying your hair isnt that bad either its just TOO much that makes your hair bad.
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This is going to sound really daft to most people so I apologise but I don't know how to properly apply eyeliner, so I was hoping someone might be good enough as to explain it to me?
I also need to know whether liquid or pencil eyeliner is better and what colours are best for me if I have brown hair and wide brown eyes?
Thank you to anyone who helps! (link)
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pencil eyeliner is a lot better because if you like cry or tear up it wont be as much of a mess as liquid eyeliner.ok to put on eyeliner you use the eyeliner pencil you put it right above your bottom eyelashes,its like your drawing your eyes from the right side of the top of your bottom lashes to the left and since you have big brown eyes you might not want them to look bigger by using eyeliner under your bottom eyelashes.and the eyeliner colors that would look good on you are black and dark purple.
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my parents are seperatedddd and are finalizing divorce plans...i dont know who to live with when and its hard to like handle this...i know a lot of people have gone through this, so does anyone have any suggestions???! (link)
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live with the one you think will be there for you most of the time,will help you whenever you need it and will hear you out.its ok dont be mad about divorce i mean think of it this way,imajine YOU were married and had a husband youre having big problems with and your kids are whining to you not to divorce,its hard enough for you to divorce after being together this whole time but to have your KIDS not understanding makes it even WORSE,its your life with your husband ,if youre having problems just leave him......its like the same with your parents here.mabey its even better for them to divorce so they wont fight all the time infront of you!your parents arent the first or last to get divorced.
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i have this friend and one day ill be hanging out with her and were laughing and talking a lot and having a great time, but then the next day comes and shes all mad at me for no reason. i mean, its not like i even say anything mean to her. is it something she doesnt like about me? or is it just her personality? (link)
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ask her why she does this and if theres anything you did or anything bad about you you might need to change in order to not lose a freind.you need to confront her about it and thats the answer to your problem.
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so apparently i have a major peoblem opening up to people... and i admit it that i do... i really want to break this because i had A LOT of problems with people last year and stuff... and if that happens again because people cant get over things... i really want to know what the hell to do =] so ... how do i open up to people and ask advice...in person... i dont know whats wrong with me but... im going out to lunch with my aunt soon and i want to talk tot her so someone please help! (link)
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just let it all OUT everything thats ever been bothering you let it out.if you dont let it out itll get bigger and bigger till you get depression and can EVEN cause you health problems!first off start by saying there are a lot of problems i want to talk to you about then just let it out one at a time,its not gonna be that hard,shes not gonna make fun of you,shes gonna help you.if you dont then your going to face very bad consenquences.
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yeah, this might be long, and from my viewpoint its pretty confusing so leave now if you want...
okay, im a sixteen year old male to begin with, and ever since i can remember, ive had five best friends (and i mean BEST, these five people mean more to me than anything else in this world). these five friends consist of four girls and one guy (the guy has nothing to do with this so you can forget him). Well, the problem is that near the end of last year, the girls all started fighting with eachother, even though theyd all been the best of friends since forever. the group ended up split apart, with two girls on one side, two girls on the other, and me and my guy friend stuck in the middle while still being best friends with both sides....so here comes the complicating part...for the whole time i can remember, ive really liked one of my friends (lets call her girl 1). well, girl 1 has always acted like she doesnt want to be more then friends with me. so now one the girls from the other group (girl 2), has told me that she likes me...so i asked her out and weve been going out for a month now. well, ever since i asked out girl 2, girl 1 hasnt spoken to me at all (by the way, the two groups of girls hate eachother a LOT)...so ive been trying to find out why girl 1 hasnt been talking to me...and it turns out that girl 1 really likes me....which sucks because im already going out with girl 2....i want to talk to girl 1 again because i love her to death, but i dont know how to do that...she wont answer her phone when i call, ive sent her emails, text messages, and even stuff through myspace...im about to just go to her house and show up with some flowers or something to show her that i still love her to death, and that the only reason that i didnt choose her is because she acted like she didnt like me....but im afraid that my girlfriend (girl 2) will find out and be mad at me for somewhat obsessing over getting my friend back....what should i do? any help is appreciated... (link)
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first off you need to sort out your feelings for both girls...then you need to talk to your girlfreind first,tell her that you realized that you like her alot but only as a FREIND,its painful for her but you have to tell her sooner cuz if you dont shell still be having hope that you like her and then you tell her later on when shes like in love with you and this way youll bring her down like hell and youll even lose her as a freind....imajine THAT happened to you! as for girl 2(the one you love) go to her house(like you said) itll be so CUTE and bring some roses and tell her how you really feel and that you liked her all along and would have asked to be her boyfreind if you knew she liked you, but she wasnt giving any signs of liking you.
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what are the signs of being in love with a boy??? (i'm female of course)sorry its short but that's all i need to know...thanks! (link)
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you think about him a LOT and smile when you think of him.you make up conversations in your head between him and you,youre nervous when you pass by him,you ask your girls to see if he checked you out(lol)you cant WAIT for him to call,you laugh at almost all his jokes(although they might not be funny)you would change anything aboutyourself to satisfy him(you find out he likes curly hair so you curl yours)
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uhh how bad is drinking for you actually? I'm 15 I drink almost every day but I'm pretty much an honor student so I don't get it what's so bad with it? (link)
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badder then you think it is.you know that these drinks consist mostly of alchohol and THAT da,ages your brain big time and causes bad breath too!its going to affect your studies and youll find yourself unable to study anything,your way too young to drink and since your young and you drink(since your body and horomones are still developing)it can affect that too!!and worse of all its ADDICTIVE!you wont be able to stop later on till you DO get brain damage it can damage your liver, your heart, your brain, and other organs. Among the biggest threats is cirrhosis of the liver - which (quite honestly) is a pretty awful illness to suffer from.
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ok like i have big bags or circles i dont know what there called under my eyes. and people say to get rid of them you have to get some more sleep. but all i do is sleep. like i go to bed around 10 pm or 11 pm then i wake up the next day at like 11 am. i get like 12 hours asleep per nite or even more. so i was just wonderin how do i get them to go away? i eman there not bg but there dark. it makes me look like bad or like im on drugs or whatever so it like changes my appearance. sorry if this is in the rong category. so... does anyone know like what to do?? thanks (link)
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put tea bags(wet ones that have been used)under your eyes for 15 min everyday till it goes away
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When I had my last boyfriend everything would always go so great and after about 6 months we were both inlove and I really loved this guy! But then about 3 months later we were laying in his backyard in the hammock his arm was around me and we were just relaxing then i decided to put my hand on his chest and give him a kiss so i did and he pushed me out of the hammock smacked me and told me don't touch me so i ran away crying...i didn't talk to him for a couple weeks but he kept calling so i answered
~Convo~
me-what do you want?
him-im sorry i love you
me-too bad
and i hung up
then when my dog passed away he came over with flowers my mom didn't want him to come up to my room because i was really upset but she finally let him, then he started kissing me and telling me he was truley sorry so i forgave him and for about 3 more month it was all good and back to normal then again one night we were watching a movie in his basement (his parents weren't home only his bro and his gf) and we were all watching a movie and he kissed me and we started kissing then i put my hand on his cheek a little bit and he pushed away and was like dont ever do that again and threw the movie case at me and his brother tried to stop him but he just went mad at started punching me and his brother while his girlfriend tried to do somethin --im not really sure what--
So my question is I still love him, I know I shouldn't but I really love him I mean we have been together for about 2 years but stuff like this keeps randomly happening! I thought this guy was really right for me and sometimes he treats me really nice but others he hurts me phsically and mentally...I just want a guy to treat me right thats why Im trying to forgive him again but I can't just forgive and forget I'm scared something like this will happen again PLEASE help! (link)
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you need to stop him in his place....NOW!dont wait for later!! if you dont stop him now hell NEVER stop and he might even hit you hard enough to bruise you!!tell him straight to his face this....."listen up cuz imma say this ONCE....you lay your hands on me or hit me ONE MORE TIME and its over between us"cuz you are a woman and women desserve to be treated with RESPECT!you didnt do anything wrong whats so bad about kissing him?!and in his basement HES the one that started kissing YOU.also tell him not to try to kiss you or anything like that since he gets all mean and hits you...to hell with kissing him!dont if his reaction is so mean!and next time he trys to kiss you push him away(not like he did but just push him)to give him a taste of his own medicine!!you seriously need to stop him call him now if you have to before its too late!and i think this guys no good for you,you desserve to be treated better.its in YOUR hands to make others respect you and in YOUR hands to let them treat you like an animal(i dont mean it the offensive way) hope this wasnt harsh srry if it was...no hard feelings :P
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I have dark brown eyes and i wear black eyeliner but i dont think its enough. does anyone have any ideas on what makeup i should wear like eye shadow or anything? thanks in advance. (link)
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for dark brown eyes you need a golden shade to give your eyes a ladylike impression.....you can also go for a peach color to make your eyes "show" and make their color show....just put concealer the same color as your skin tone on your face or above your eyelids then put on a peach colored eyeshadow on your lower eye lid and on the top put a darker shade of peach or even a light brown color.if you have on a lot of eyeshadow (its like thick) you should make your lip makeup less(not thick) and if you have on too much lip makeup then you shouldnt have a lot of eyeshadow on in order to not look "fake"
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This is going to be long.
My best guy friend, Sam, I don't know what is going on with him! He would always flirt with me and talk to me. I heard him say that I was hot to one of his friends at the beginning of the year if that matters.
I also heard his friends tryings to guess who he was going to ask out and they kept saying my name and he didn't respond. All he did was stare at me and that day in my last class. right before the bell rang, his friend was like, "Do you like Sam?" and I was like, "Ummmm...No. Why?" and hes like, "Oh, just wondering." and he went out the door.
on my birthday I had invited sam to my party, which was that weekend. I took 10 of my best friends to a movie. While we were in line waiting for the popcorn, he asked if i was going to the dance on tuesday and I said, "Oh. Probably." he smiled and looked at his friend and the exchanged some weird look and then his friend said, "sam doesnt have anyone to go with." and they both stared at me expecting me to say something but I just said, "oh." and we went to go sit down.
the week of the dance, he asked my best friend, Sarah, out. She kept saying, "he barely even talks to me!" but he would only talk to her or hug her when I was around.
during the last class of the day, his best friend asked me again, "would you ever go out with sam?" and I said, "uhhhhhhh i dont know! why do you keep asking me that?!" and he was like, "Dunno..HE MIGHT LIKE YOU!" and I gave him a weird look and he said, "IM JOKING! IM JOKING!" but he didnt sound like it.
But, he broke up with sarah and started going out with taylor again and all he did was ignore me and he wasn't nice to me at all unless she wasn't anywhere close to us. I talked to jake and he said that sam answers when he calls but I've tried to call him many times over the summer but he never answers the phone.
So, I don't understand what he's doing! Does he like me or not?! (link)
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so obvious that your freindship lead him into liking you,and youve got so much signs that he likes you.look dont play around by asking someone to ask him if he likes you,you go ask him yourself!tell him how hes been acting strange lately and ask if he likes you.if he says no then its ok whatever.but you need to sort out and see how you feel towards him cuz he can ask you if you like him!youll have to give him an honest answer here,if you dont,tell him you guys are just freinds.
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my friend has a drinking problem and she is only 14.any advice to get her to stop. (link)
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(if she has emotional problems) tell her that drinking aint gonna solve anything and how beer and drinks like that consist mainy of alchohol and its poisonous and can cause her brain damage and many other health problems in the future.tell her that you care about her and you dont want her to drink anymore and that it even harms adults.you need to talk to her about this.tell her how many people lost all their loved ones to alchohol.
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in this school year, i got very popular, i have so many more frineds and everything, but my old friends are getting really pissed at me.. i dont even feel like a part of them any more .. what shud i do? :( (link)
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mabey they feel left out that youre hanging out with your new freinds more.they feel that now that your popular you dont have time for the "old" freinds.i think you should talk to your freinds and listen to what they have to say and how they feel.and promise them that youll hang out with them again,because your probably ditching them with out even noticing it.make some time to hang out with them too.go out with them,call them just like your new freinds...the more freinds the better!
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ok, so my boyfriend of 2 years broke up w/ me about 2 & a half months ago & I am still upset about it. Some days I hate him & other days I miss him & want him back. When he broke up w/ me he said @ first it was because I was possessive and then he told me he just wanted to be single for awhile. Well two weeks later he starts dating a girl who is 15 (he is 17) & she lives 3 hours away. And they only had met once before they started dating. I don't know what to do anymore. Ive been depressed for awhile & it feels like I will never get over it. Then school is going to start in less then a month and Im really scared to see him because I haven't seen him all summer and I loved it but Im afraid when I see him @ school Im going to get upset and the progress I had made will be gone. Do you think that his relationship is just a rebound? And he will ever call me again to apologize? I just want some answers but I dont want to talk to him until they break up. What should I do? (link)
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forget about him,he broke up with you,got over you AND is even dating another girl!is he the last guy on earth?your probably a sweet person with a great personality and many guys would want you.itll take a while to get over him but time DOES heal everything and the sooner you feel your feelings thew more you are able to get over it later on.he doesnt seem to care and you shouldnt either.school is starting and all you should care about is your education so it wont be his fault your marks are low.nobodys worth it.open up about this to a freind,parent and they will help you get over it.who CARES if hes got a girlfreind hes 17 and probably not even ready to be in a relationship.your still going to be going to grade 10,11,12 and college and i think thats like a lot of years full of a lot of guys!and besides you woulda gitten bored of him anywayz cuz your 15 and IMAJINE having to know him all your life...now THATS boring lol dont worry you WILL get over him because you can get any guy you want.
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