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Online Love


Question Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 10:38 am

ive been dating this amazing guy for about a month now and we met online. i know him through a friend but we met online. the only thing that sucks it that he lives 40 mins away so i wont get to see him much. hes an amazing guy and i never want to lose him. should i keep working at it?

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chakra answered Sunday July 23 2006, 2:25 pm:
40 minutes is nothing. i used to travel half an hour on the bus everyday to school and college so that 40 min distance should be no problem.
i'm guessing your young if you think it is, although you dont say how old you and your boyfriend are.
I'm not sure if you've met in person yet, but when i was 16 i met my boyfriend online and we were together for 2 years so yes it can work, he lived about a 2 hour train journey away from me and we saw each other 4 days a week so you have to trya nd come to an arangment so you can keep your relationship going.
If you havnt met him yet then i would do as a month is a long time to be "dating" someone you've never met.
Although play it safe, meet in public and dont go anywhere quiet with him, when i met my boyfriend for the first time we kind of had a 3 day date, as i went on holiday with my family just so i could meet him, it was actually my mums idea. so they got a holiday too.
We met in a town though and stayed in busy places, thats the safest thing to do so if you meet your boyfriend then make sure your in a public place.
If you really like eachother then you can make it work, long distance relationships take more effort, but 40 minutes isn't long distance so you should have no problem x

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oXoCutiex6 answered Sunday July 23 2006, 2:02 pm:
OMGSH! sameee here! I love him to death. Go for it. I just keep thinkin of how hes gonn abe drivin soon and then we can do whatever we want .. and then we can go where ever..I'm gonna marry him. Seriouly; like past b4 bfs have been like were gonna get married and ive seirously told themy ea right wahts the changce of that.. but hes diffrent. Dont listen to these people telling you it own twork out only YOU know know in love you are. goodluck with evreything i wish you the best of luck

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holahayley56 answered Sunday July 23 2006, 1:20 pm:
No. Internet relationships never workout. & how do you know hes not cheating on you? I mean its not like you'd ever find out. To me, in my opinion internet dating is stupid. Half of dating someone is for you to be with them, & hang out. Not sit online or on the phone. Because it should be more then that. So, yeah. Thats my advice.. kbye.

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Cloud14 answered Sunday July 23 2006, 1:07 pm:
Dear,love struck i too have dated a guy online and yeah it does suck when they live 40 mins away..he's some advice for ya! DON"T GIVE UP!" if you truly love someone it will work..love like yours doesn't come around every day just remember that so don't give up i'm rootting for ya! Your friend, Violet

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caramella answered Sunday July 23 2006, 1:07 pm:
wow thats great keep it going,so what if he lives far away from you,you never know if you will find a guy like him again.

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