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Well ya see i got outta a really serious relationship a month or so ago. I felt really betrayed becuase it was my first and he promised me he loved me and then he just dumped me after almost a year. the thought of love makes me gag because all i feel is its just fake. I've been really having a hard time even though i know my ex doesn't really care about me anymore. One of my friends, who is a guy, asked me to go with him to the movies. He's really a flirt with a lot of girls so i completely expected him to grab me when i sat down and like practically put me in his lap but it didn't really bother me since i knew we were just friends and he pulls this with all types of girls. The only problem was every few minutes or so he would put his face very close to mine and it'd be like we were about to kiss. I felt ridiculously guilty like i was cheating on someone and i couldn't stop thinking about my ex. He confronted me about the tension and said he wanted to go again but kiss me. I thought the guilt was just a silly thing and so i agreed. Then when he kissed me i felt like throwing up. I told him i didn't want to but i couldn't really give him a reason. I started trying to come up with crazy stuff so he wouldn't be hurt i tried to tell maybe we should just be friends or say i'm gay but obviously none of its true. He's a sweet guy, a flirt, but a sweet guy. I do like him but i don't understand why the thought of kissing anyone or actually doing it makes me wanna vomit and feel sick with guilt. Please i really need help. Because there really is only so long i can string him along with such unsure feelings. (link)
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First of all I am truely sorry to hear about your ex.
I don't think you dislike love or the idea of having a relationship. You just got out of a relationship so it seems you are feeling emotional and confused and the more you think about it the more it makes you feel sick to your stomach. I've been there and I know how you feel it sounds like it's a little bit of emotional distress. Tell your guy friend that you don't feel comfortable being close and that you need your space to yourself for awhile if he is a great friend I'm sure he will respect your wishes. Try to focus on your for awhile find things you love too do to take your mind away from things hang out with your good female friends for awhile trust me there are more fish in the sea.
Good luck
-BahaiMa22
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After a girl grows pubic or armpit hair (like to the point where she has to shave it), how many years (on average) later will she start her period? (link)
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Wow what an odd one!
If a girl/woman does not shave body hair it does not stop or delay the period from coming. A period does not have anything to do with what a woman goes through monthly.
-BahaiMa22
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what is Holiday Inn's food policty? because after prom, we are hiring a hotel room. If we want pizza or something, do we need to sneak it up because i know some hotels have restrictions. Thanks.
its a UK hotel by the way. and i cant find it anywhere. (link)
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Wow you are a lucky one!
I happen to work for Holiday Inn! The way mine works is the hotel has a restaraunt inside the building and the menu is normally placed on the table with all the services that is offered however I believe the food cost a little extra Just call the front desk and place in a food order.
Good luck and have a wonder prom!
-BahaiMa22
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i am a 18 year old female and i have met these two people online. they are a couple and are interested in maybe getting together to hook up.. i have been feeling like i am maybe bisexual and maybe this could help me figure that out. the thing is i'm kinda scared to meet up with them just because they are strangers and all. but i have talked to them and they seem real and not creepy. i just need some advice on what to do because i really want to but something bad could happpen. please help. (link)
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Girl NO!!!!
This is how people get molested, murdered, raped, kidnapped etc. DO NOT do it you never know.. nice or not it could be someone very weird behind the screen. If you are wondering what you may be perhaps look local and find someone you know face to face and not some random person off the internet. The internet is the most dangrous place to look for things like that. Please take my advice.
-BahaiMa22
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I feel kinda weird, but
i stuck the end of a hair brush up my ......
and it kinda felt okay.
but isn't it kind of weird for me to be doing that?
and isnt it weird for it to feel good? (link)
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It isn't wierd that it feels good no, However you might want to watch what you put there because you dont' want to get infections. I would suggest going to a sex store and buying a vibrator or a dildo with some lubricant. A hair brush is not the best thing to use and it's also not meant to be put in the vaginal area.
-BahaiMa22
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everytime i have sex with my boyfriend, it feels good for him but not for me, why is that? it doesn't hurt or anything, i just don't get pleasure (link)
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All girls are different, I would suggest more foreplay. You could also try going to a sex store and maybe buy some "toys" to spice it up a little bit. Sometimes communication helps too before having sex.
Hope I helped!
-BahaiMa22
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I need a song about how I pretty much stole one of my best friend's boyfriends..He's mine now.
Thanks. (link)
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lol... Ouch
but here ya go
(Boom I got your boyfriend! -by MC Luscious)
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16/F
I'm taking a driver's ed class. I got my class portion done with, and now I have to go through four driving sessions to pass and get my license. I took one of my sessions almost two weeks ago and it didn't go so well. I was really nervous. I kept using the brake and was so nervous being around the instructer. I'm fine when Im in the car with my parents, but when I was with the driving instructer (knowing he was watching my ever move and how well i was doing) I got really nervous. My next session is on Monday and Im extremely paranoid about it. I know im good enough to pass the class because I know the basics and drive all the time, but I have some issues with driving and being graded on my driving. Does anyone have any advice on how to be more relaxed while im with the instructer? Please...any advice will be greatly appreciated =] (link)
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Oh I know exactly what you are going through!
Just try to stay positive make sure you get in as many hours of driving as you can with Mom and Dad. The day of your test just try to relax don't over think it I drank some water to help my nerves and it really helped! Just get in the car and do everything he tells you to do and study one more time before the final test. It's normally just very quick it's different in every state but my test was no longer than 5 minutes! Just stay positive and you will pass with no problem!
Good luck!
-BahaiMa22
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i'm a 15 yr old who's lives in new york and i was wondering if theres any way that i can get birth control without my parents finding out.. i don't have a job yet so i don't have too much money.. is there any way? (link)
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Sounds like an issues you need to talk to your parents about hun. You can get birth control pills at a pharmacy but I believe they need to be perscribed by a doctor. If you have insurance that's great! if not you may need to pay cash and from what I remember my friend paid 80 dollars for birth control pills! However everyone is different. My best advice is to have a meeting with Mom and Dad.
Good luck!
-BahaiMa22
(23/Female)
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well i heard that if you have sex to much your vagina gets loose.how does that happen? (link)
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When you have sex often the penis streches the vagina. I believe there is an excersize you can do to help that is to tighten your muscles when you sit down, lay down etc. and doing that for about an hour a day helps.
Good luck!
-BahaiMa22
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Girls, how do you properly shave your vagina?
... awkward question, but i need to know :D haa. (link)
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Lay down and use a mirror yes, but whatever you do please use a noncut razor also woman shaving cream really helps.
good luck!
BahaiMa22
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So I'm 15, a freshman girl in high school, and despite the fact that's there's 1,000+ kids in my school, I don't have any friends. I don't get why. I talk to people who are my acquaintances, but I know I don't say too much because I'm afraid they'll think I'm annoying. I do raise my hand a lot in class, and I'm trying to stop, but is that annoying? Sometimes, I joke around with people that I talk to more, but is that annoying too? I get straight As, and I guess I'm somewhat decent looking. A girl in my Spanish class said I'm pretty, but I think she was saying that to make me feel better. Why doesn't anyone like me? I did drama and I'm on my track team and in a youth group. I met lots of new people, but no new friends. Everyone's just really clique-y and I don't fit in. The same girl who's in my Spanish class is in my art class, (which is after Spanish) and we walk together. We never say anything. I don't think she really likes me, she just doesn't want to walk alone. A lot of times, one of her friends will come up and talk to her, so I have to go ahead. It seems like people only talk to me when they want something, whether it's help with homework, to borrow something, etc. I always feel so awkward in gym because I just hang around these girls, but we're not friends, so I just stand there. Last year, I had friends. Over the summer, I did a camp, and there was a younger girl who was the sister of this guy I talked to. I found out from her that he thought I was really annoying and that another guy though I "stalked" him when I didn't even talk to him that much. This summer, I don't have anyone to hang out with, and I'm not doing the camp again because I'm not friends with anyone, and it's too late to join anyway. What am I do doing wrong? (link)
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Aw hun,
I had the same problem when I was in school. It sounds like you let your insecurity get the best of you. If other people don't like you don't worry about it ;) Just keep being yourself and don't worry about what you might be and what they might think. There are lots of folks out there that would love to be your friend you just sometimes have to look for them.
Good luck!
BahaiMa22
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ok so im a guy and i like watching porn.
im actually not a pervert or anything and i dont do it too often, so dont be mean ^_^. anyway my parents have this parental control thingy, so almost every site is blocked. so i found one or 2 sites that arent, but the videos played on windows media player and im scared theyre somehow still on there. my parents would kill me :(
so are they still on there or not? (link)
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The chances of the porn still being on the computer is high so I'm going to say yes, When you open up porn it downloads into the hard-drive. You can delete history but all the information stores itself into the computer and it also loads a lot of viruses (exspecially porn) If you are interested in porn I suggest you to buy a magazine at a store or perhaps a video. However I would suggest just being honest with your parents about it because sooner or later it's likely that they will find it on the computer.
Good luck!
-BahaiMa22
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