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meeting up with strangers?
i am a 18 year old female and i have met these two people online. they are a couple and are interested in maybe getting together to hook up.. i have been feeling like i am maybe bisexual and maybe this could help me figure that out. the thing is i'm kinda scared to meet up with them just because they are strangers and all. but i have talked to them and they seem real and not creepy. i just need some advice on what to do because i really want to but something bad could happpen. please help.
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Don't trust ANYONE online. I know a person that got killed because of this horrific situation. It doesn't maybe what sexuality you are or your age. They could be two weirdos trying to "get something" So please, do me a favor and dont. Trust me, that would be a very unpleasant way of finding out what sexuality you are.
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You know, its an interesting thing, the answer below me. So much misdirected fear.
I love the "you might get raped while meeting this couple _for_a_threesome_" part, personally.
You're 18, I'm going to assume you aren't a complete retard. Approaching this from that perspective, I believe you've stumbled upon a slightly open couple who want to experiment.
Now, a quick lesson. Couples in their mid to late 20s and early 30s who like bringing someone into the bedroom usually like bringing someone younger. It gives both of them some feeling of control (being older and more experienced) and that makes them more comfy with the whole "sex with strangers" thing. Plus, the guys usually prefer younger girls for ... other... reasons.
Hence, you.
Now, the first thing I'll say, is if you choose to meet, make it somewhere public and bring a friend. Plan for that to just be a "hi, nice to meet you, lets talk a bit and plan another meeting" meeting. If that goes well... well whatever. Have fun.
On the other hand, a word of caution that has nothing to do with rapes and beatings and kidnappings.
You don't know these people. That means you don't know their _relationship_. You don't know what boundaries they have and its sure as hell going to be a while before you guys would be comfy around each other to talk about it. The fact that these arent friends who both want you, but a couple who wants "a girl" means that you are basically a sex toy for them. Whatever happens is going to be all about their fantasies, their desires.
Are you ok with that? And are you prepared for a potential shitstorm of drama if the relationship isnt sound?
Something to think about, in any case.
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Don't, don't, don't!!
First of all, there will be one of you and two of them. Second of all, OF COURSE they won't sound creepy, they will do everything they possibly can so they can sound as nice as possible to lure you in. I don't know their genders, but even if both or one of them is female doesn't mean a thing: she could be an accomplice, or really just pretending to be a female.
I strongly suggest against it. You could get kidnapped, held hostage, raped, killed, beaten, imprisoned.
Just don't do it. Break all contact with them. Please be safe. Its really not worth it.
~Maria, 17
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Girl NO!!!!
This is how people get molested, murdered, raped, kidnapped etc. DO NOT do it you never know.. nice or not it could be someone very weird behind the screen. If you are wondering what you may be perhaps look local and find someone you know face to face and not some random person off the internet. The internet is the most dangrous place to look for things like that. Please take my advice.
-BahaiMa22
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1st of all This whole bisexual and being gay/lesben, stuff that has been going around is blown out portion. Nobody I repeat NOBODY, is born that way, it goes against nature and God. it is a chose and a life style. nobody can tell you if you are "this or that" because it is not there's to say.
but getting to you question about wether or not to visit with them. Sometime I "gut" (concise, or anything eles you like to call it) gives us warnings only you can deterim it is our own imagination or actual "gut feeling" warning us something is wrong. it takes time to learn the diffrence. I belive that people can recive guidnce on their questions, ponder those question, seek counles from resepted people, Pray about it (if religous, or even if you are not).
I'm sorry I can't give a yes or no stitaion. but in such matters it is not ours to give. I'll leave with one finle warning, "beware what lies behind the masks".
I hope this helps.
siserly ~shadow fox
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I have little time, so excuse me if I'm quick.
First, meeting is to be in public and in public only! Second, things after that are your decision and yours alone.
Third, after you have checked them out carefully and you know their names and where they live, tell someone before your first meeting where you are going. (You do not have to tell them why.) Leave all this information written down, including why you are getting together with them safely in your home. That way if you have guessed wrong about these people, the law will have some place to start looking for your body.
Got it? I hope so.
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First off you are lying about your age. If you really are 18, I don't understand why you'd say you are younger when you signed up. Second, you shouldn't be meeting anyone online in person since you are a minor. You are putting yourself and possible your family at risk.
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