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What there to say about me? I'm 27 and a graduate of UCSD. Throughout my life most of my close friends have been girls so I have a unique perspective on relationships and sex. I know a lot about computers as well as random stuff in general. Feel free to ask me anything and I'll answer it to the best of my knowledge.
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ok, i have a few awkward questions about sex and getting pregnant and no-no juice, and etc.

first of all, is it possible to get pregnant without the man ejaculating inside the woman? meaning, if a man is inside a woman, but pulls out way before he comes, is it possible to get pregnant from the precome?

also, can you get pregnant from semen getting on your vagina, when the man is not inside you?

thank you. (link)
yes to both.


Im going to buy someone a star in the sky but im not sure what to name it. I want it to be original, spiritual by some sort and not there own name. Any ideas? (link)
Well, when buying someone a star, its usually traditional to name it after them, however since you dont want to do that, the next best thing would be to name it after something they love. I mean, if you named it something generic, even if its spiritual, it can be anyone's star, you should make it personal. If you cant think of anything, you can always name it after their favorite band. Or, you can translate their name to another language and name it that.

If you dont like any of that, here is a list of spiritual names.
http://www.sripremananda.org/english/e7_more/e7b_home.htm


i have the razor and i just got it yesterday
and i have 500 nights and wekends minutes
i have 499 left
so i used mine
but i have no more anytime minutes
what time does the night and weekend minutes start for cingular!?
thanks (link)
I have cingular.

Unless you bought the extra $7 a month upgrade for it to start at 7, night hours are 9pm-5:59am Mon.-Fri. and weekend hours are 9pm Fri. to 5:59am Mon.


Ok, so I use AOL, I know I know, it sucks. Whatever. I keep getting a message telling me that my security setting prevent ActiveX controls from being run on the page. Is there anyway to turn this off? I don't want to allow ActiveX for everything, but I don't want to be notified when it blocks something. I don't get the message on IE or firefox. And I don't need to be told to change ISPs or browsers. (link)
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ok well there is this guy and his girlfriend just broke up with him about a mounth ago and this really ugly girl and her friend are buging the crap out of him to be the ugly girls boyfriend and he said no thank God!! but i think he likes me , i was with his friend for about 3 mounths, but my friends are really sick of boy friend and girl friend crap, im not!! should i ask him or have a friend ask him for me??? please help me!!!! (link)
itll definitely work a lot better if you ask him yourself. friends can mess up the message, plus its more mature to do it yourself.


Okay so you know how on a myspace profile you can hide stuff (like comments..friends..stuff like that) ..well when you have mozilla..all you have to do is click on "no style" and you can see all of the things that are hidden.

i want to know how to block those things, even with mozilla so nobody can see anything. does anyone know how to do that? thanks. (link)
well as far as hiding your top friends goes, all youd really need to do is change it to top4 and then put something like tom, and 3 bands, or those types of profiles. that way, even if somoene does choose no style, they wont see who you consider your top friiends.

nothing you can do about comments. the whole nostyle thing isnt really well known about though.

the best solution though is set your profile to private, and dont add people you dont want to share info with.


ok well i was doing a scan..and most of the files infected came from the cookies...how do i clean them and if i clean them...does it remove the infections? cause like every site i visited had an infection .... thank u :) (link)
ok, if your scan is telling you that every cookie is infected it means one of two things

1. you have a crappy scanner, it could be a trial version trying to scam you into buying it

2. you have some sort of virus that really has infected all of your cookies.


cookies by themselves arent dangerous, and shouldnt cause an alarm on a regular scanner. if you arent already, you should be using spybot.
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if you are, and thats whats telling you about your cookies, then you most likely have a virus.

the scanner you are using should have a clean/delete option, if not, then thats more evidence for possibility #1. go to download.com and you can find a nice antivirus.


I've been talking to this guy through Myspace and MSN for over a month. I liked him so much, and we were I don't want to say dating, but sort of "involved" over the computer. He was so different from other boys...and now I know why. "He" is a girl.

She looks just like a guy, and all of her Myspace pictures were really of her! She didn't tell me she was a girl. I messaged one of her friends and said, "Hi I'm *Bob's (not her real name) friend. I really like him." and her friend messaged me back and said, "*Bobs my friend, but she is a girl." I told Bob this and he admitted it and said, "I shouldn't be a girl. I should be a guy."

I am heartbroken. This wasn't just some fake Myspace. This was a real person that's face looked like a guy's. (Obviously shes not, after she showed me a picture of her standing.)

Does this mean I'm a Lesbian? In a way, I feel like I still have feelings for Bob. But I think its just because I liked "him" so much that I'm having a hard time letting go of the fact that "he" is not a he. I know that Bob still has feelings for me. This is so weird. I feel like maybe I should be a Lesbian since thats the only people that are attracted to me. I want to still be Bob's friend, we had such a good thing going. Should I stay her friend/ keep talking to her? (link)
Well romantically wise, thats a question only you can answer for yourself. But either way you should still be her friend.


I'm dating a much older guy. 17/22 What are the legal reprecussions, if we aren't having sex? I'm sure there's no law against dating but what about all the gray stuff in between, making out etc...we're also in different states, and since i'm a minor, is meeting up with him illegal too since i think interstate travle falls under contributing to the delinquency of a aminor or something along those lines...i guess as long as we dont get caught everything is fine. should we just avooid public places and adopt isolationism now? (link)
The age of consent differs state to state, as does the punishment for violating it. Since you are going accross state lines, it makes it more complicated. Making out should be fine, but going further would probably be a no no. You are 17, you dont have long to wait until you are 18, and its 100% legal. You can google the age of consent laws for your state, and then check the ones for his, to make sure it doesnt say anything about state lines, but it would probably depend on where you got caught.


Hey- I have an advicenators column and when I answered someone's question they replied back with a question that I'd like to answer to them personally. How do I do this? (link)
you could delete your answer, and then answer again. theyll be told they have a new answer.


errr seems like that doesnt work anymore, it used to. oh well.


okay, im 13 and i this guy switched over to ourr school and i guess i kind of like him. i hang out with the guys a lot b/c they are just fun to be around especailly his guy friends. but i still act like a girl. idk for sure if he likes me but he has me the highest girl on his top(3) and at parties we hang out alot gives me random hugs, and quick arm around my shoulder/waist. but i want to get him to for sure like me and ask me out, atleast make out. what do i do to get totally out of the friend zone!? (link)
guys have no friend zone. just tell him you like him.


can anybody make me list how you know for sure someone is true friend and what not a true freind and how you know she or he not pretending be your friend or not thanks
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a list i found online, its more a joke than anything else, but still good stuff

FRIENDS VS TRUE FRIENDS!
FRIENDS: Never ask for anything to eat or drink.
TRUE FRIENDS: Helps themselves and are the reason why you have no food.

FRIENDS: Call your parents by Mr. and Mrs. and Grandpa, by Grandpa.
TRUE FRIENDS: Call your parents DAD and MOM and Grandpa, GRAMPS!


FRIENDS: Would bail you out of jail.
TRUE FRIENDS: Would be sitting next to you sayin "DAMN!" we fucked up!

FRIENDS: Have never seen you cry.
TRUE FRIENDS: Wont tell everyone else you cried...just laugh about it with you in private when your not down anymore.


FRIENDS: Asks you to write down your number.
TRUE FRIENDS: Has you on speed dial.

FRIENDS: Borrows your stuff for a few days then gives it back.
TRUE FRIENDS: Loses your shit and tells you, "My bad...here's a tissue."


FRIENDS: Only know a few things about you.
TRUE FRIENDS: Could write a very embarrassing biography on your life story...


FRIENDS: Will leave you behind if that is what the crowd is doing.
TRUE FRIENDS: Will kick the whole crowds ass that left you

FRIENDS: Would knock on your front door.
TRUE FRIENDS: Walk right in and say "I'M HOME."

FRIENDS: You have to tell them not to tell anyone.
TRUE FRIENDS: Already know not to tell.


FRIENDS: Are only through highschool/college. (aka: drinking buddies)
TRUE FRIENDS: Are for life.

FRIENDS: Will be there to take your drink away from you when they think you've had enough.
TRUE FRIENDS: Will look at you stumbling all over the place & say "Bitch drink the rest of that ! You know we don't waste!


did anyone get the hpv shot? and like how many do you have to get and how long are the intervals in between them? and do they only work if you arent already sexually active? (link)
its 3 shots
i dont remember the exact waiting periods, but i think its something like 2 months before the second one, and then 4 months before the last one
they dont only work if you are sexualy active, but if you are, you could already have hpv, and a vaccine only prevents, it doesnt cure. thats why they recommend getting them before you are sexually active.


I need sites that tell you how to correctly cite diffirent types of sources in MLA style.

I don't need the citation generator..just something that gives a list of how to cite (what comes first, format, etc.)

Thanks in advance. (link)
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edit:
but did you try clicking the first site, which happens to tell you EXACTLY how to cite all dfferent types of things?


hi,not to be racist or anything but like i heard the quote
"Black people like their chicken" or something.
What does that mean
(link)
it means black people like chicken. pretty self explanatory, no double meaning.


i saw like one episode of heroes and i really like it. i'm just wondering how many seasons of the show there were alreadyy..

help is appreciated (link)
its still in the first season. the latest episode was epsisode #20 i think.


i have to do a project on hitler.

if you can, give me info on him that is TRUE...


thanks. (link)
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Ok This might sound funny but it's realyl seriuos! Me and my sister were shooting each other with water guns and I ran her into a tree!

There's this HUGE cut tracing the top of her eye brow and I'm scared something bad might happen!

She always dreamed of being a model and if it scars I'd be the one wrecking her dream and it really was an accidnet but my aunts are liek yelling and rubbing it in my face!

What do I do about thsi situation? it's killing me! what do I do for my sister to help her heal the pain? Medicine? etc? (link)
a lot of girls dream of being models, and almost none become them, so if it makes you feel better, she probably wasnt gonna become a model anyway.

go down to a drugstore and find some scar reducers, neosporin works farely well.


do guys like *it* shaved or not. like do guys kno that girls should shave down there? and how do yu make it stop itching? thanks (link)
basically, once a guy is in the general area, as long as it doesnt have razor sharp teeth, he isnt gonna care. there does tend to be some preference for shaved, or at least trimmed, but really, just keep it whatever way you are most comfortable with.


I got my period on April 2nd or 4th (There was spotting so it was one of the two days). I took the day after pill like a week ago and it said I might get my period sooner and cramps might be worse. There are no signs I will be on my period any time soon.

Now to the point: If today is April 29th. when can I take one of the "5 days before your missed period" pregnancy test without it being too early to get a false negative? (link)
Its pretty effective, so dont worry too much. That being said, from what I remember, it messes with your hormone levels enough to throw off a pregnancy test, but I could well be wrong about that, so see if anyone else confirms me. Your best bet would be to just take it 5 days before you would normally get your period, since it doesnt work any worse if you take it later than 5 days before.




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