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My name is Laura and I'm 28 years old. I live in Illinois and work as a licensed veterinary technician. I am a runner, bookworm and obviously, an animal lover.

I've been on this site since '05. I take hiatuses, but I'm never gone for good. I enjoy giving advice and I've made such lovely friends on this site that I couldn't imagine giving it up!

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Does someone know of any good songs such as pop/folk/slow songs with the good melody about your boyfriend/girlfriend helping you to be a stronger person, making you see life differently, finding the good in yourself, etc? I look for songs in English or Spanish

thank you

Up and Up by Relient k might be like what you're looking for.

If you like that one, let me know and I'll hook you up with some more :)

-Laura (16-f)

ok sooo yea my boyfriend and me took a break in december and he made out wit some girl.......she knew we were together but i guess she thought we werent anymore......so they made out and went out! my supposed bff was encouraging him i still havent forgave him but we are still together!!!! my boyfriend and her are always hanging out and then he is always ohh she is cool unlike u and ur friends ohhh she loves my family.............and she is just a bitch!!!!! what can i do???

Ger over it. Dump your "boyfriend", and find a new "best friend forever".

Both your boyfriend and your best friend sound like really crappy people. I think you should find people who are worth your time because trust me, these types of people aren't.

-Laura (16-f)

I need some sad songs but not those cheesy glittery sounding ones.

Kindof more like "best i ever had" by vertical horizon and "dare you to move" by switchfoot. Ones that make you think, but also jerk the tears. Eh?

Thanks!

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=545691

From there:

A Beautiful Mess: Jason Mraz.
All Again For You: We The Kings.
Amazing Because it is: The Almost.
Before You Go: Flight 409.
The Boy Who Blocked His Own Shot: Brand New.
Cute Without The "E": Taking Back Sunday.
Dead Leaves And The Dirty Ground: The White Stripes.
Driving Away: Holiday Parade.
Emergency: Paramore.
*Giving Up: Ingrid Michaelson.
*The Golden State: Flight 409.
Gone So Young: Amber Pacific.
Hometown Glory: Adele.
The Last Something That Meant Anything: Mayday Parade.
A Lesson in Charades: Asteria.
A Lonely September: Plain White T's.
*Miserable at Best: Mayday Parade.
Music Box: Thrice.
Northern Downpour: Panic at the Disco.
Nothing Left To Lose: Mat Kearney.
One-Man Drinking Games: Mayday Parade.
Pressure: Paramore.
*Remembering Sunday: All Time Low.
Rooftops: Lostprophets.
Say the Word: The Classic Crime.
*Should've Said No: Taylor Swift.
*Slow Dancing In A Burning Room: John Mayer.
So Contagious: Acceptance.
Teardrops on My Guitar: Taylor Swift.
There Was No Thief: Relient k.
Three Cheers For Five Years: Mayday Parade.
Tired and Uninspired: My American Heart.
*Up Against The Wall: Boys Like Girls.
You're Making It Come Alive: My Favorite Highway.
*You're Not Sorry: Taylor Swift

-Laura (16-f)

I have an 8th grade dinner dance coming up, and cannot find any really cute dresses to wear i am a juniors size (13) and want to look fantabulous for my crush. If you know any stores near danbury, or in the danbury mall that sell really pretty dresses, please answer this quistion.

Try Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and Macy's.

-Laura (16-f)

does anyone have a picture of ash ketchum's hat, or the logo by itself?
i have a red and white hat and want to iron on the green logo onto it but i need a bigger image it looks like this:

http://www.emerchandise.com/images/p/VML/pdCPVML0001.jpg

Like this?:

http://i6.ebayimg.com/04/i/000/a3/02/6510_1.JPG

Just go on Google images, Photobucket, or Tinypic and they have a bunch.

-Laura (16-f)

this is a completely random question but iwas just wondering, can you have sex and have a 0% chance of pregnancy if you didn't start your period yet?

If you have sex, there is NEVER a 0% chance of getting pregnant. ANYTIME that you have sex, there's a chance you can get pregnant, no matter what the circumstances are.

-Laura (16-f)

I'm going to a formal event, and I want a low side bun with a side part and a side bang, thats sleek and sexy. I'm african american, I have an inch past shoulder length relaxed hair. Could you find any pictures of the hair I'm looking for? I need a pic to show my stylist.

Kind of like these?:

http://z.about.com/d/movies/1/0/A/k/S/goldenglobes2009pic29.jpg
http://www.primped.com.au/images/uploads/daily_scrub/84203656.jpg
http://media.onsugar.com/files/ons1/281/2817629/07_2009/6c/2009-prom-updos-6.jpghttp://images.teamsugar.com/files/usr/2/20652/KW.jpg
http://images.teamsugar.com/files/upl0/2/20652/05_2008/Xtineapplegate_0.jpg

I hope some of those help :)

-Laura (16-f)

hi does anyone know any songs about

not wanting to hurt soomeone your broke up with/ are breaking up with.

or

not being sure if you should break up with someone

or

being alone after a break up [or something like that]

i like stuff like alt. music
so thats what kinda suggestions id like but
anything is appreciated though

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=545691

From there:

A Beautiful Mess: Jason Mraz.
All Again For You: We The Kings.
Amazing Because it is: The Almost.
Before You Go: Flight 409.
The Boy Who Blocked His Own Shot: Brand New.
Cute Without The "E": Taking Back Sunday.
Dead Leaves And The Dirty Ground: The White Stripes.
Driving Away: Holiday Parade.
Emergency: Paramore.
*Giving Up: Ingrid Michaelson.
*The Golden State: Flight 409.
Gone So Young: Amber Pacific.
Hometown Glory: Adele.
The Last Something That Meant Anything: Mayday Parade.
A Lesson in Charades: Asteria.
A Lonely September: Plain White T's.
*Miserable at Best: Mayday Parade.
Music Box: Thrice.
Northern Downpour: Panic at the Disco.
Nothing Left To Lose: Mat Kearney.
One-Man Drinking Games: Mayday Parade.
Pressure: Paramore.
*Remembering Sunday: All Time Low.
Rooftops: Lostprophets.
Say the Word: The Classic Crime.
*Should've Said No: Taylor Swift.
*Slow Dancing In A Burning Room: John Mayer.
So Contagious: Acceptance.
Teardrops on My Guitar: Taylor Swift.
There Was No Thief: Relient k.
Three Cheers For Five Years: Mayday Parade.
Tired and Uninspired: My American Heart.
*Up Against The Wall: Boys Like Girls.
You're Making It Come Alive: My Favorite Highway.
*You're Not Sorry: Taylor Swift.

-Laura (16-f)

I've talked to to many counslers to count, I refuse to talk to my friends family or my counsler/princple at school. I'll end up getting kicked out. I have too many dreams to get kicked out. I talk to this one teacher who says she knows I do stupid things, but she has to report me if she knows i for sure cut. So who can i talk to? I've tried everything to replace cutting- it'll work once then i can't hold on any longer. Its now a habit. Please help.

Thanks for inboxing.

First of all: you won't get kicked out of school for cutting. What would the school kick you out for? They CAN'T do that. You NEED to tell somebody, and you NEED to get help.

The first people I think you should tell are your parents. Don't tell your friends, because they won't know how to handle it. Don't tell your counselor/principal, because they'll only end up telling your parents anyways.

Have you talked to your doctor? If you go to the emergency room and tell them you need help, they will get you somebody to talk to. That should be your next step, getting real, professional help after telling your parents.

Telling your parents will make you feel a lot better, and having some support will also help.

Best of luck getting help.

-Laura (16-f)

Hi, I'm a sophomore in highschool, junior soon- yay. Almost finished. :D

My question is, I live in Missouri and lets call my school 'Day school' I applied for South County Tech Junior year, and I'll more than likely be accepted. So ill go to day school and tech half a day, everyday.

I'm really bad at math & science in general, but what I'm trying to ask is if i get help from day school in the after noon after i return from tech, do you think ill be able to handle it?

I give up to easy. But the teacher that told me she'd be willing to help, knows a lot of about me. & I'm sure she'd care if i needed support. So should i try & do it?

Thank you

Thanks for inboxing :)

Honestly? I think you can do it. If you really commit yourself to it, and TELL yourself that you can do it, chances are everything will work out just fine.

Like I said: just make sure you have faith in yourself. Tell yourself that you WON'T give up, and you won't.

Best of luck!

-Laura (16-f)

Where are some websites/things that I could do to STOP all dog fighting?

PETA has some great stuff:

http://www.peta2.com/takecharge/t_factsheet_dogfights.asp

-Laura (16-f)

I'm trying to lose weight, so what are good healthy foods to substitute for junk foods and whatnot? Also, if I cut down by eating 1500 calories a day and running every other day, will I lose much weight?

One of my favorites is apples with peanut butter.

Other suggestions;
- Baked potato chips instead of regular chips.
- Rice cakes.
- Fruits!
- Cheese cubes.
- Vegetables.
- Sherbert instead of ice cream.
- Granola.

-Laura (16-f)

Well latley I've been having problems with this guy at my school that i really like and I've been depressed. So I want some songs that are similar to this
"your guardian angel" by the red jumpsuit apparatus.
Give as many as possible, all will be greatly appretiated =]

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=545691

From there:

A Beautiful Mess: Jason Mraz.
All Again For You: We The Kings.
Amazing Because it is: The Almost.
Before You Go: Flight 409.
The Boy Who Blocked His Own Shot: Brand New.
Cute Without The "E": Taking Back Sunday.
Dead Leaves And The Dirty Ground: The White Stripes.
Driving Away: Holiday Parade.
Emergency: Paramore.
*Giving Up: Ingrid Michaelson.
*The Golden State: Flight 409.
Gone So Young: Amber Pacific.
Hometown Glory: Adele.
The Last Something That Meant Anything: Mayday Parade.
A Lesson in Charades: Asteria.
A Lonely September: Plain White T's.
*Miserable at Best: Mayday Parade.
Music Box: Thrice.
Northern Downpour: Panic at the Disco.
Nothing Left To Lose: Mat Kearney.
One-Man Drinking Games: Mayday Parade.
Pressure: Paramore.
*Remembering Sunday: All Time Low.
Rooftops: Lostprophets.
Say the Word: The Classic Crime.
*Should've Said No: Taylor Swift.
*Slow Dancing In A Burning Room: John Mayer.
So Contagious: Acceptance.
Teardrops on My Guitar: Taylor Swift.
There Was No Thief: Relient k.
Three Cheers For Five Years: Mayday Parade.
Tired and Uninspired: My American Heart.
*Up Against The Wall: Boys Like Girls.
You're Making It Come Alive: My Favorite Highway.
*You're Not Sorry: Taylor Swift.

-Laura (16-f)

What doyou collect or cherish the most?

I cherish my family because they're always there for me and always support me.

I cherish my best friends Matt, Brooke and Jamie because they help me through all the bad times, and the good too :)

-Laura (16-f)

what do girls like a guy to wear

Honestly? It doesn't really matter.

As long as they have clean clothes that look decent, chances are they'll look fine.

-Laura (16-f)

Okay, so next month I am turning 17 and I want to do something fun for my birthday and I can't think of anything exciting to do! I would appreciate any ideas you guys might have (:

I live two hours from DC if that helps and I would like to go see a concert or something, if that helps.

You can get a group of friends together and go out to lunch/dinner at a fun restaurant.

Or, you can do the scavenger hunt, but do it in the mall instead of a video scavenger hunt.

Or, you can just have a group of friends over at your house and dance and do fun stuff like that :)

-Laura (16-f)

14/f

Ok so I need more things to do with my friends. I mean on weekends. Like the most we do is go to the movies and then go over to my house or something afterward. What else could we do? We've had bday parties and pool parties and some movie thing where they came over and we watched movies. I don't always want to go to the movies. Sleepovers won't really work if we want to include everyone since we have guy friends too. I don't really want to spend so much money either. We usually go to a movie where its cheap like 7 dollars. Is there anything else we can do? Thanks!

You and your friends can:

- Go bowling.
- Go mini golfing.
- Play laser tag.
- Go out to lunch.
- Go out for coffee (Starbucks or something?)
- Go to the local park and just hang out.
- Have a photo shoot. (I did this with my best friend once, and it was SO much fun.)
- Play video games. (Like N64, or something old school is a lot of fun.)
- Play basketball or baseball in your front yard.
- Go to a concert.
- Go to the bookstore.
- Make cookies/brownies.
- Go swimming at the local pool.
- Go to the beach. (if it's warm where you live?)
- Go sledding. (if there's snow?)
- Have a scavenger hunt.
- Have a picnic!

-Laura (16-f)

17/f .. for my boyfriends 17th birthday, for one of his presents i want to make him dinner & desert, but i'm not big on cooking & i cant cook a whole lot. any ideas of what i could cook for the meal & for the desert would be greatly appreciated. thanks! :)

I think it'd be super cute to make him something really goofy, like his favorite meal from childhood.

Ask him mom or dad what he used to LOVE when he was younger, and then make it for him. Even if it's something simple, like grilled cheese or peanut butter and jelly, it would be a really nice gesture and it would show that you really wanted to make it special for him :)

-Laura (16-f)

Is it okay if you are online on myyearbook (which is like a get to know other people type of site) and you tell other people of the opposite sex that they are pretty,hot,sexy,gorgeous,ect when you are in a relationship?

(im not, my boyfriend is and i dont know if im just being over dramatic and jealous or its really not okay)

thanks!

I think it really depends on which word you're using.

I think is he calls girls "cute" or something simple like that, you shouldn't really think much of it.

However, if he uses words like "beautiful" or "hot", then you might want to talk to him about it.

-Laura (16-f)

How can I delay my period? I know that exercise can delay it but are there any little secrets to delay your period?

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=545173

From there:

There is no way that you can make your period come any sooner or any later. Sometimes, exercise/diet changes will affect when you get your period, but I definitely do NOT recommend changing them just so you can change your period.

-Laura (16-f)

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