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Is it normal to want to go out shopping by myself if I'm only 15. I really just want to go out and have a fun time-by myself-at the mall, just shopping and browsing without having to entertain anyone. But I dont know if that would be weird, seeing as the mall has alot of ppl my age in it (and some that know who I am) if they just see me walking by myself, would you think I was a loser with no one to shop with? Because I really just want to go out shopping. I dont want it to sound like a conceited question, but I'm really just wondering!

Lol no alot of people just go shopping for themselves. There is no law saying you have to be with someone. No one is going to be like "Oh, that girl is by herself what a loser". Do what you want to do.

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around 2 or 3 months ago my best friend claimed i did somtheng that she knew i would never do. she said that i started a rumer that her ex-boyfriend beet her. so i have stopped talking to her . what should i do


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Talk to her and tell her that you never said that. Why would you just stop talking to her instead of explaining yourself to her 2 or 3 months ago. If she really knew you, she'd know you wouldn't do that to her.

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How often do TSUNAMIS occur?

Nobody really knows. They are unpredictable. They occur when the plates of the earth move under the ocean.

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okay, I am 21 and still a virgin. I have done other stuff just not had sex yet. The thing is I was almost raped by one of my ex boyfriends and I am kind of scared of guys now, not all but some of them. I feel really pathetice because I am still a virgin and I am 21. Plus my uncle has aids and that is another reason why I am scared. I don't have a bf right now but am looking for one. When I do find one and we have sex how can I make myself less scared to have sex? Is there anything I can do to calm myself down?
any help will be great, guys and girls

If you're scared about getting STD's then when you find the right guy make him go get tested with you or something. Set your guard down and tell them that you are a virgin and if they respect you then they won't care. Tell him about your past experiences with your ex. You can also go to counseling if it's that bad.

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I really want to die. Really badly. I tried to kill myself but i chickend out. I'm not afraid of death.. I'm looking forward to it. I just can't handle life. My body is breaking up. I feel depressed and find the urge just to die. I don't understand why ssomeone can just take my life away. I'm alive and I want to die and there's dieing people that want to live. I don't understand why god just cant give those people a life and take mine away.. I hate myself so much.. I'm having a lot of problems now.. I'm 13, F.

Okay first of all, if you kill yourself, you won't go and be with God, you are going to go to hell. Just relax and talk to someone. Join a group at your school for issues with suicide or tell your parents. I'm sure it's just a phase that you are going through, but don't kill yourself. Think of all the people that love you and need you around.

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OK, so I'm average height, average weight. My best best best best friend is this girl, let's call her Patricia. Well Patricia told my other friend "Lucy" that I was thinking of wearing a leotard for halloween, and that I would look fat in it.

Patricia doesn't know I know she said that, but Lucy told me. I'm scared to talk about it with Patricia because we have such a good time together and we see each other alot, but its kind of eating me up inside. She knows im sensitive to this subject because I was chubbier when I was younger.

What should I do?

WHat kind of friend talks behind your back? Not a good one. You can't keep it bottled up inside, you have to tell her how you feel. If she is the only one that thinks your fat then wear the leotard, who cares.

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any1 know how to take of acrlyric nails easily?>????i mean their reealy stuck on there i cant pop them off it feels like my real nail is going to pull off

Pure acetone.

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I'm a republican, and every single one of my friends are democrats. If they insult the president (Even though they know that I'm republican) then it's okay, but if I say any republican views they all look at me like I'm a bad person. What should I do? I'm not the kind of person to just sit back in any type of debate but I can't help but feel like my opinion doesn't matter just because it's not a democratic one.

That sounds the same thing as me and my friends. They blame the president for EVERYTHING even though congress has more power than the president with alot of stuff. Your opinion does matter. Who cares if they don't agree with you, as long as you argue your point across then what is the problem?

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This sounds like a really childish question but is it normal to not know what feelings you have about someone?

I know this guy and everytime I see him or think about him I get butterflies (cheesy much?) but when I think about it, I don't know him enough to LIKE him so..yeah.

You just have a crush on him.

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hey my hair's brown, straight, and highlited. i ALWAYS wear it down because i don't know what else to do with it. does anyone know any good hairstyles that would look attractive in front of boys? please help! also, my hair islayered, and it's about 1 and a half inches below my shoulders. a lot of people's hair just fall in to place when they put it up, but mine doesn't for some reason. it just sticks straight out. i don't know why, because it's not frizzy or anything, it's just smooth and soft.
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You can put it half way up, that would look cute. You can also curl it or scrunch it and leaev it down or in a pony tail. If your hair doesn't look good all the way up, put it in a low pony tail parted to the side.

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can anyone give me a summary of what happened on laguna beach on tuesday? the one where they went to cabo??

They were all have fun then Alex went up to Jessica because she found out that Jessica was with Jason and got a hickie and was kissing him and whatnot. So then she pretty much bitched out Jessica calling her a slut and she made Jessica call herself a slut. Then everyone was all pissed and they just wanted to go home.

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Hi im 14 and my brother just turned 18.Usually he has been coming home a half hour late and all he gets is a lecture but if i come home 10 mintues late i get grounded for a week.how can i tell my parents how i feel.ive tried telling them but they say oo come on hes 4 years older.it makes me feel like they like him better.just recently he had his bday and i was a little jealous.i dont know what to do because i feel like my family doesnt love me.i always want to leave but they say no and if he says it they say sure.i dont feel loved and i want to die i need help.

They just want to protect you. Maybe your brother did bad stuff when he was your age and got in trouble by them and they just don't want you to do it to. Tell them how it makes you feel. But, then again, he should get a later curfew. He is 18 and a legal adult. He shouldn't even have a curfew.

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okay so 2 nights ago i gave my boyfriend head for the 2nd time. the first time he was wearing a condom bc i was to scared of risks. but this time he was not wearing one. he busted in my mouth but as soon as it went in my mouth i spit it into the sink. i didnt wash my mouth out but i spit as much as i could out. i knew what i was doing since i did it once b4 with him & he said it felt really good this time cause he wasnt wearing a condom & all.

Facts::
-ive been with my boyfriend for 1 year!! =)
-we are both virgins
-im the only one hes ever done oral with
-we DO love eachother

You can still be at risk but it's a very small chance. He could've got something from a previous girlfriend and got something. If you are sure that he's the only one you've done stuff with, then there shouldn't be a problem.

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Ok I accedently ordered books from Scholastic (BIG MISTAKE!) and didn't pay for them because I didn't know it. Now they sent me a letter from a collection agency and they want me to pay! But I got on their web site and contacted them but they never responded and I couldn't renew my order! What can i do!?!?!? Please I WILL RATE EVERY 1 5's!!! SWEAR! 13/f

Tell your parents. If they don't respond back to you, then just pay. How can you accidently order books?

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YAYAYAYAYAYYYYYYYYYYY

ok so my crush's (lets call my crush A) crush just GOT A BOYFRIEND! this is really good becasue maybe A will realise its really over!!

so about 2 weeks ago, i told A i like him. he said he doent kno me that well bla bla bla. THe next day he said something and i told him i was like over it but i wasnt at all.

So since then weve gotten kind of close in school. i have 6 out of 8 classes with him!! :-D so i hes gotten to kno me! he flirts with me A LOT LOT LOT LOT LOT!! and i flirt back of course. but do you think i should tell him i like him again? either i have a much better chance now because its like rebound! or i have a lesser chance because hes so depressed and sad.

wut do u think i should do? i dont want our friendship to be like all screwed cause i said this and he says he doesnt like me like that. . .
wut should i do?

If he flirts with you then tell him you like him. If he says I don't know you that well or anything like that again then tell him to quit flirting with you and giving you mixed signals. Your relationship won't be messed up because you told him you liked him.

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Ok...how can i get him back if hes the one who broke up with me??He told me he wanted me to find someone better than him but there is no one better than him.So what can i say or do to get him back??

When a guy says that, they don't really mean to find someone better than him. He's just an asshole and that was his excuse of breaking up with you. If he broke up with you, that means he doesn't want to go out with you as in you can't do anything to get him back.

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Okay so I bet your all sick of reading these questions but i need help...

I feel like i'm getting annoying to my boyfriend... idk how to explain this feeling but yeah its just like he never has time for anything else because of me. he never complains about it or anything and he's the nicest guy ever, but i just feel kind of bad... i don't really know what i'm trying to say here but yeah... any comments would help.

sorry its so long

-ill rate high-

So what's your question? Ask him if it's bothering him or stop hanging out with him so much and let him have a life.

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Is it normal for a 13-year-old girl to masterbate, or is it just really sick-o for my age? Omg, I'm sooooo embarassed and I think I'm the only one in my grade who does. I feel like such a perv., but I can't help it. I have to cuz it feels so good. So I want to know is, is this unusual for a girl my age? Or something to feel guilty about?

Yeah it's normal. Your friends probably do do it but are to embarrassed to say anything.

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hey everyone my harvest moon dance is coming up! its kind of like a homecoming but you see i need a dress.. and most people wear a short dress .. like a fancy coctail dress. well does anyone know where to get a really cute one? or like some websites to look at them? oh and whats 'in' for dresses? i was thinking like either a light pink and gold one or a brown and gold one .. is that like too cheesy? thanks everyone! xO!

Deb's has cute dresses that aren't too expensive. Also, A Touch of Elegance has really nice ones but they are little bit more expensive. I wouldn't wear a brown and gold dress. Everyone where I live is buying dark pink and like teal colors.

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