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Okay so I bet your all sick of reading these questions but i need help...
I feel like i'm getting annoying to my boyfriend... idk how to explain this feeling but yeah its just like he never has time for anything else because of me. he never complains about it or anything and he's the nicest guy ever, but i just feel kind of bad... i don't really know what i'm trying to say here but yeah... any comments would help.
sorry its so long
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So what's your question? Ask him if it's bothering him or stop hanging out with him so much and let him have a life.
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Dont worry.. i love hearing stuff like that.. b/c I am good at it...
Well anywayz this is what you gotta do ask him about it. and see what he says about it! and tell him how you feel...
Xo Melanie oX
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If he is willing to give up everything else to be able to have time for you, then you probably aren't annoying him. However, if it seems like he is making his whole life revolve around you, he might be a bit obsessed. And that could be a bad thing. Tell him that he should hang out with his friends, and spend time with other people, as well as you. Don't do this in a way where he might think you are trying to push him away. (when in reality you are, but for a good reason) If you don't want to just tell him to hang out with other people, and do other things, maybe you could both hang out with friends together. Invite other people along with you guys when you are hanging out so it's not just the two of you alone where all of your attention would be on each other. Or tell him that you can't talk as much b/c you think you are getting too close too soon. You could also try to talk to him about it. Good luck!
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Alright, talking to him about this probably wouldn't help. If it is bothering him, he might lie to you and say it isn't. If he's a nice guy, he wouldn't want to hurt your feelings. I think you might want to just consider giving him more time for himself. If he has to cancel plans or put off anything he needs to do just to spend time with you, don't let him choose you over other priorities. At least not all the time.
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