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Suicide
I really want to die. Really badly. I tried to kill myself but i chickend out. I'm not afraid of death.. I'm looking forward to it. I just can't handle life. My body is breaking up. I feel depressed and find the urge just to die. I don't understand why ssomeone can just take my life away. I'm alive and I want to die and there's dieing people that want to live. I don't understand why god just cant give those people a life and take mine away.. I hate myself so much.. I'm having a lot of problems now.. I'm 13, F.
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why would you want to die? you were put here for a reason maybe you don't think so but you were. everyone is put here for a reason and when the accomplish what they were put here for then the will die. even though you are having prolbems you shouldn't think of death as the only way out! that is the easy way out! and if you actually killed yourself do you know how many peole you would hurt? your friends, family all the people that love you! don't attempt suicide it's not worth it. just goto someone you can talk to and vent your prolbems try to get someone to understand you and how you feel. or goto a counslor. but death isn't the answer! i hope that helped. if you need any more advice or just need someone to talk to e-mail me at alwaysme666@yahoo.com i am always here..
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You know, I know all about this. Except for the fact that I am terrified of death. But the difference between you and me, is that I no longer want to die. You're 13, you're just beginning to live. I'm wondering what could be so bad that would make you want to take your own life. I want you to remember that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I'm sure whatever it is will turn around sooner or later. Good luck.
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you should not want to die, there is a whole life full of all kinds of shit,yea im 13/F too and before i tried to kill myself but i chickened out like you, yea at one point of everyone's life they just want to kill thereself but you shouldn't want to kill yourself just because your having a lot of problems. just talk to your friends or someone about your problems and maybe they can help you out with it. You have a whole life full of a lot of stuff, throughout your life your gonna want to kill yourself, your gonna want to do a lot of things. and if you can't handle life then just get someone to help you with things you need help with, trust me before yea i tried to kill myself because i hated life but then i thought about all the good timez i had with my friends and my family and other people so i didn't kill myself and ever since me thinking of that stuff i haven't been thinking of trying to kill myself, im having a great life now because before my friends and family helped me out with a lot of things that i truly needed help with. i know exactly how you feel. Life is going to give you shit sometimes but you just got to work it all out. throughout life your going to have a lot of problems and then at one point you might love life soooo much. It's just how life works, your not going to be the happiest person all the time always. you are going to have a lot of problems growing up and stuff but you just have to work through it either by yourself or have your friends and other people help. well that's the best advice i can give you, respond back please!P.S.(sorry for it being soo long)
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think about all the ppl that love you. ive tried to comit suicide but then i just think about everyone who loves me and i cant do it either. i learned that it helps to carry around pictures of the ppl that love me. I take them everywhere i go. that way when I do get depressed or i do feel like i want to die, i just look at them and think about how they would react if i did die. You have to be optimistic. Looking at the glass half empty will not help.
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im sorry but this is a BIG problem. Try relaxing and taking some walks, spend some time with someone you love or a good friend. Talk to them. I think that if you figure out whats going on youll be ok. Is it a problem with boys? friends? school? family?! Well dont do anything to yourself. Thats all i have to say. Youll be ok =)
Hope I helped,Jessica♥
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Hey,
Dont go around killen your self... trust me it's not the rite thing to do. My friend felt the same way, and went to counciling and said it has made there life better. But if you dont want to go to counciling, talk to me, im a 13/f too.
my e-mail: christine1012005@hotmail.com
my advise colum: cjAdvice
I hope i helped, and i check my e-mail every day, so im here for you! :)
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there has to be a reason why you feel this way, if can find the reason, you can help yourself. i used to feel the same way and if you would talk to some one like someone you can trust, you can trust me everyone needs to talk to some one every one needs to feel some thing special may be you just didn't find it yet but either look for help or email me at
krisdee_2004@yahoo.com or
krittleskittle69@hotmail.com
please talk to some one because god has put us all here for a special reason you are a very special person that needs to find a way out, go to church or just try to email me back asap
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dont do it im 13 to and i feel the same way are homones are raceing and stuff and thats why we feel this way beleve me every one gose thow this i wanted to kill myself to but i didnt
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ok ive been in that oat before ...go to a theripist nothing is wrong with you its just a imbalence of chemicals in the brain and if caaught at a stage were its not so bad it can be cured or controlle din other cases
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im not sure they was a question there but you need to think of good not bad.
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At your age you shouldn't be this stressed out about life. You are very young, and there is no reason for you to feel like you want to die. You have plenty of time to get help before things get too serious. I'm sure that there are counselors available in your area, who would be willing to talk to you, and help you solve your problems! You just need to relax, and find something to take your mind off the things that bother you. I saw that you were talking about God in your question..Are you aware that if you commit suicide you don't go to heaven? It's good that you aren't afraid of death, but you definitely shouldn't be asking for it! You have a whole life to live. Things will get better, trust me. Time fixes everything. You just have to try to deal with everything the best way possible. It might not always be easy to be happy, and that's okay. Being unhappy is part of life, but trust me..it won't last forever. If you aren't able to get counselling, find someone that you can talk to when you have a problem. Maybe a close friend, of family member. However, if you can't find someone that you know to talk to, you could always talk to me online. I know it might sound stupid, but I would love to try and help you out if you have a problem. My AIM s/n is BrittanyMichx39. Good luck!
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Okay, Your 13 years old. You have so much life ahead of you hun!! I used to think life sucked...But life is gooood!!!! There's soo much out there. You haven't even gotten into highschool yet. Highschool is awesome!! It's so fun and your with tons of people! Just think of all the things you have to look forward to darling. Marriage, Graduation, Kids, Grandkids. Everything happens for a reason. Although you may be going through a crappy time right now...it may set a series of amazing events into place! If you need to talk I'm here anytime of the day. I check this thing about every 2 hours. And if it gets too bad that you want to talk on AIM or on the phone. I'm all for it hun!! I hope I helped you and Im here if you ever need to talk about anything!!
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trust me, I know what it like to feel like death is better than death, however I must warn you, by taking your life, you'll miss out on all the joys of life. you are young; things can turn around anytime for you.
Now I have a questions I would like you to answer yourself,
Why is life so bad? why is it you hate life, and what makes you certain that death can make it better?
I want you seriously think about those questions.
Believe me, I didn’t what happen to me, but I could do nothing to change that, however I did find a way to easy the pain for me, by helping people who are lost, confused as I was, and how you seem to be right now. I’ve helped many people see the world differently, showing there is still good in this world.
As in Tolken’s Lord of the Rings, Frodo though like you at time, when all seem to go wrong, it took his friend Sam to bring him to his senses, that their was still “good in the world, and it’s worth fight for” don’t throw your life away feeling sorry for yourself, and take it for a meaningless few years of your life.
I will close with the words given to a man, who suffered greatly. “…all these have you suffered shall be you but a small moment…” and went on to say that “all of these shall give you experience and be for you own good”
I know that the future looks dark, but remember even the darkest of nights must give way to the day, coldest winter must give way to the new spring.
I have something that you should see; Tomorrow (or when ever it is convent; just make sure it is soon), I want you to get up before the sun is up, and watch the sunrise, then I want you to write down what you feel.
I hope this helps you out/let me if it did, and if I can help anyway else.
Bets of luck, may you find what you are looking for, and the much waited dawn will rise within you.
~Teen Guru~
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Okay first of all, if you kill yourself, you won't go and be with God, you are going to go to hell. Just relax and talk to someone. Join a group at your school for issues with suicide or tell your parents. I'm sure it's just a phase that you are going through, but don't kill yourself. Think of all the people that love you and need you around.
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ok I think that maybe you should look in to counseling, if you don't want to go that route try talking to a friend or someone that you can trust. Maybe god won't take your life because it's not time for you to go right now. May I ask why you hate yourself? I am sorry to hear about you being depressed and having a lot of problems. I tried to kill myself before, which wasn't a very smart thing to do, because it hurt alot of people like friends and family. I am 21 and the first time I tried to kill myself I was in 10th grade. I was doing horrible in school and I barely passed, everyone in my family was calling me a loser and telling me that I was never going to amount to anything, to top it off my parents were on their way towards divorce because my dad left my mom and went to california to be with this woman he met online and that happened on my birthday, great way to celebrate a birthday, huh? well anyways needless to say I was really depressed and I felt the only way out was to kill myself so I took a whole bottle of advil which wasn't smart at all. I passed out and I had to be rushed to the hospital and get my stomach pumped. The worst thing is my best friend melissa who i've been friends with for ten years found me past out and she freaked out. That really put a strain on our friendship but when i got out I didn't stop trying to kill myself because i decided that I needed to do something else so then I began to cut, another bad thing, cause I figured if I cut myself deep enough I might bleed to death. Things got better for awhile so I stopped that shit. Then a few months ago I started getting depressed again, both of my best friends hated each other and it made it really hard to hang out with them because when I would hang out with one of them the other one would get mad, plus I was having family problems because they I thought they didn't care about me so I chose my friends over them all the time which just caused more problems so I took a knife and put it to my throat and one of my best friends was there and talked me out of it and told me how much I meant to her and that she wouldn't talk to me ever again if I did something like that again. I put the knife down right away and then I started to cry because I began to think what it would be like to not be able to hang out with my best friends and see my family when I wanted to. It was horrible. Anyway my friend told me that either she was going to call my other best friend and my family and tell them what I did or I was. Well, I decided that they would probably rather hear it from me so I made some phone calls. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to do because they were so hurt by that and I felt horrrible but now I am alot closer to my two best friends and my family and I thank god every day that he didn't take my life. I hope I was able to help you with your problem. Good luck.
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I'm glad that you have the courage to talk about these feelings that you're having, it's a very hard thing to do.
The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is a national, 24-hour, and toll-free suicide prevention service available to all those in suicidal crisis who are seeking help. Individuals seeking help can dial 1-800-273-TALK (8255). They will be routed to the closest possible provider of mental health and suicide prevention services.
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Good luck! You can do it!
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Don't think of committing suicide. All teens go through depression. Problems you have today have a way of changing for the better at times. Try to get help with the problems you are having.
You need to talk to an adult you trust and get some help for your depression. Sometimes it goes away by itself and other times a person may need to take medicine for it. Whichever is the case, you need to speak with someone. If not a parent, then maybe a teacher, a relative, a coach, a minister at your church...whoever you trust. :)
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honey you really need to talk to someone. there must be a big issue your dealing with that led you down this path. i cant relate to what your going through, but its important to talk to someone, like your counsiler. theres more than one path to get out of this. i cant think of anything else to say, but i really hope you can get over this. there are many poeple who care about you who would want to help. if you wanna talk, you know where i'll be:-)
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Sweetie, you're 13! Life is inevitably going to get better, I know this from experience, everything always works out. Suicide doesn't help anybody, it hurts so incredibly deeply the people you love and it doesn't help you, its just... the end. Its an exteremely selfish thing to do, I knew someone who lost a loved one to suicide, and they were in so much pain it was unbelievable. I agree there are some things that are worth killing yourself over, but DEPRESSION IS NOT ONE OF THEM. Fill your life with people you love and hang tight, okay?
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have you though of taking anti-depressants iam am on them and they really help i was lke you but then i relised that life is worth living beacuse if you do kill you self think of all they people you will hurt your friends and family will blame there self because they never noticed that you were feeling suicial trust me speah to some body about it they will help or go to your doctor and ask to be refferd to the child and adolecent mental health clinic(camhs) or go to connections or ask your school for councilling ot really helps TRUST ME XXXXX
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I think you're lying, because you chickened out.
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There wasn't a question.
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Maybe you can take a bunch of prescription pills. If you don't die, you can get your stomach pumped, and live. It's not doing anything physical to yourself.
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