Well im just your typical 18 year old!! I love hanging out with my friends and the boyfriend. I also like to just have a relaxing day and just chill at my apartment. I go to college. I love all types of music! I think the things I can most help out with would be boy advice, school advice, and work advice. Im not good with computers, so if it's something about computers, go somewhere else! k thanks
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Age: 18
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Alright. This is going to be extremley confusing. I'm in a relationship with this guy named *Tom*. We've been dating for 2 months. We only hold hands and cuddle. We don't make out or anything. Haven't even kissed. I kind of regard him as an older brother now.
Now there's this other guy, *mark*. we've been wanting to date for over 7 months, but couldn't because of different reasons. Now we want to go out together. We are fine to talk, cuddle, make out, and even do some physical stuff together. And I really care for him. Deeply.(BUT I HAVE NOT DONE ANY OF THIS WHILE I HAVE BEEN WITH *TOM*)
Now I recently, as in two days ago, met this guy named *Pat*. He's really sweet and fun to talk to, and he likes to treat me sweetly, kiss my hand, hug me, hold hands...but he knows i have a boyfriend. I feel so helpless. like it's not right to say no. He wants me to break with *tom and go with him, but I don't know...*mark* wants me to break with *tom* to go with him too..
I honestly don't know what to do.
I've gotten into a mess...
Please give me valuable advice....
I will rate high (link)
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Alright *Tom* seems like he would be an older brother. Get rid of him ASAP. But do it nicely. He may be hurt at first, but he will get over it and realize that you guys are too much of friends than to be boyfriend and girlfriend. Just tell him that you see him as a best friend and you want to keep him that way.
Also, *Mark* must really like you, for your looks, and wants in your pants. Not a good idea. There are way better guys out there honestly. *Mark* should of been patient with you and not done any of those things unless you guys were going out for awhile. Doesn't it seem kind of weird that he has all the time to do all of this stuff with you, but doesn't have the time to date you. He obviously wants one thing. He's not the kind of person that you should want to be with.
*Pat* seems like an all around sweetheart. I would choose him. He obviously is caring and wants to treat you like a princess, which is how guys should treat us girls :). I would choose him.
--BUT...follow your heart. Let it guide you. If you feel no chemistry with 2 and a lot with the other one, the one is the one you should go with.
I hope I helped and Good luck!!
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I really want to die. Really badly. I tried to kill myself but i chickend out. I'm not afraid of death.. I'm looking forward to it. I just can't handle life. My body is breaking up. I feel depressed and find the urge just to die. I don't understand why ssomeone can just take my life away. I'm alive and I want to die and there's dieing people that want to live. I don't understand why god just cant give those people a life and take mine away.. I hate myself so much.. I'm having a lot of problems now.. I'm 13, F. (link)
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Okay, Your 13 years old. You have so much life ahead of you hun!! I used to think life sucked...But life is gooood!!!! There's soo much out there. You haven't even gotten into highschool yet. Highschool is awesome!! It's so fun and your with tons of people! Just think of all the things you have to look forward to darling. Marriage, Graduation, Kids, Grandkids. Everything happens for a reason. Although you may be going through a crappy time right now...it may set a series of amazing events into place! If you need to talk I'm here anytime of the day. I check this thing about every 2 hours. And if it gets too bad that you want to talk on AIM or on the phone. I'm all for it hun!! I hope I helped you and Im here if you ever need to talk about anything!!
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Top ten ways you can tell if a guy like you please. everyone who answers gets a 5 unless its stupid or mean then they get a 1! (link)
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Okay
10. He tries to touch you...or finds weird ways of doing so
9. He talks to you alot
8. He calls you out of the blue to see what your up to
7. He finds a way to hang out with you
6. He tries to become friends with some of your friends
5. He looks you in the eyes constantly when he talks to you
4. he compliments you
3. He tells you he likes you
2. He tries to show off around you
1. He stares at you and when you look at him, he looks away
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I know some of you hate Brittney Spears..But if ya`ll can help me out i`ll really appriciate it. I was wonderin..if you guys have smelled her new perfume called fantasy..and the old one called Curious..i was wonderin which one smelled better?! If you can answer this i`ll love ya 4ever! But please no smart ass answers like they both smell like shit please.. (EASY 5) (link)
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Fantasy smells wayy better than curious! and is in a nicer bottle....Go Fantasy alll the way!!
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okay, soo, i'm a female 13, and i'm an asian, but i'm kinda goodlooking, and i don't know how to be popular? so if anyone can tell me how to be very populer i'll luv ya'll, and rate u high! (link)
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Just be yourself!! That is THE most popularest thing anyone can ever do. Not many people can be themselves, and when you are, its really attractive.
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First i would like to state i am a m/13
Amd i am terribly sorry to everyone who has been answering my ?s. That i keep talking about my best friend who i have a major crush on and she knows it. Anyways...
Ok my best friend know i like her and when we talk about the boys she likes i sometimes ask her "but what are looking for in a guy" she tells me now somtime in the the conversation she always says seriously "Well maybe one day i will just go out w/ you"(something along those lines anyways) Now is she hinting something to me(she has clearly satated she has no crushy feelings for me. so what does this mean.
Is she lying to me when she says she doesnt like me
Does she want to go out w/ me
If she does want to go out w/ me how do i ask her
This is my most important ? yet
And i would just like to say thanks truely and deeply for all the people who have/will help/helped me out.
Much love, thanks, and prayers for you all
Carpe Diem (link)
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Okay, I think she is somewhat hinting to you that she likes you. Girls don't usually like to let guys know that they like them. She's obviously stating that the qualities that you have are what she looks for in a guy. I think you should ask her out and see what she says. Maybe in a casual conversation, whenever she says something along the lines that someday she might go out with you..maybe you could be non-chalant about it and say well how about we make today the someday? or just say well will you go out with me then?
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