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Her again(answer this Please
First i would like to state i am a m/13
Amd i am terribly sorry to everyone who has been answering my ?s. That i keep talking about my best friend who i have a major crush on and she knows it. Anyways...
Ok my best friend know i like her and when we talk about the boys she likes i sometimes ask her "but what are looking for in a guy" she tells me now somtime in the the conversation she always says seriously "Well maybe one day i will just go out w/ you"(something along those lines anyways) Now is she hinting something to me(she has clearly satated she has no crushy feelings for me. so what does this mean.
Is she lying to me when she says she doesnt like me
Does she want to go out w/ me
If she does want to go out w/ me how do i ask her
This is my most important ? yet
And i would just like to say thanks truely and deeply for all the people who have/will help/helped me out.
Much love, thanks, and prayers for you all
Carpe Diem
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well... if you want my opinion she does like you thats why she always talks about the people she does like to you to make you jelouse... and she might think it will make you like her more.. and i think she does want to go out with you she just wants to act like she dosnt becuase she might not like people knowing.. and i think you should just ask her out either in person or in a note maybe or like on the phone or in a text or online.. hope i helped...
*k La*
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Next time your talking about guys and she says something along those lines you just ask "Will you go out with me?" if she says no you can stop wandering. Honestly though if she says she has no crushy feelings for you and is saying taht she might go out with you one day she is playing you. Its not nice but alot of girls do it they keep you wainting and wandering so that just incase they want a bf your an obviouse choice ts about knowing what you can have and knowing this is kind of like a boost to your confidece. I know you may be think that your firned wouldnt do that but In plain truth that just might be the case girls need to know they have options.
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I think she is just trying to make up her mind. Or she doesn't see what is right in front of her. When she is telling you what she is looking for in a guy and says something that you are say well i'm that. Just don't say it too much because she might get annoyed. Compliment her on her hair and clothes. Don't act stupid if she gets a bf just wait and see what happens. Girls hate it if guys try and show then how bad that guy is. But you should tell her if he is cheating on her. Be on you toes like if she forgets to do her homework let her copy yours just don't watch her all the time if you do this she will find out that you like her.
As for asking her out. Do it on a day she is really happy. Maybe a day when she doesn't have any test. You should try and do it where it is quiet or not to loud. I know i wouldn't like it if someone asked me out in a lunchroom or bathroom.
I think you should also be asking what you should do if you ask her out and she says no. You should say oh well it was worth a try and ask if you guys are still friends. If she says yes. You might not want to stick around. So if or when you ask her out you should probably do it at the end of a class or the beginning. This way you can have time to think about what you are going to say to her the next time you see her.
(Only do this if she says yes when you ask her out)Bring her flowers and write her love notes(you should probaly type them girls can't stand love notes they can't read)get one of your friends to give your chocolate with a note. Complament her on her clothes and hair.
Sorry this is soo long. Send me questions to my inbox I am sure I can help you lots more. I am xoBrowneyes
CLAIR GOOD LUCK!
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She is either hinting to you that she likes you, or telling you that she's not gonna make the first move so you'd better do it.
EITHER WAY, ASK HER OUT!
If she's your friend, she'll tell you what she feels... but she won't ask you out.. most likely... so go for it!!
Good luck!
<3 Kylie
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Hey, I member i answered a question you had about this, and you deffinitly are getting somewhere with the situation. By saying maybe she'll go out with you, that might meen that she likes you. Continue to find out what type of guy and person she is interested in. The next time she talks to guys with you, tell her your mad, and when she asks why, be like, because the guy that does like you is right in front of you, and then walk away...then maybe she'll realize how much of an idiot she was to not think that her best friend, someone she has so much in common with would like her.You only live once, take a chance. Good Luck Hun.
~Brina
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Okay, I think she is somewhat hinting to you that she likes you. Girls don't usually like to let guys know that they like them. She's obviously stating that the qualities that you have are what she looks for in a guy. I think you should ask her out and see what she says. Maybe in a casual conversation, whenever she says something along the lines that someday she might go out with you..maybe you could be non-chalant about it and say well how about we make today the someday? or just say well will you go out with me then?
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Why not just ask her out and see?
Don't ask her if she likes you or anything, just say hey, how about going to a movie Saturday night?
She may have said she doesn't like you...but girls are prone to changing their minds. Could be she said that to you and then it may have made her think about it. Maybe she had never really thought about it before and your asking her intrigued her a little.
Take the mystery out of it and just ask her out. If she says no you're no worse off than you are now and you can stop worrying about it so much. :)
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There is no way for me to see into her mind. Maybe she is playing hard to get or maybe she is just being a dangwalloper-schnortle. The best thing to do is take charge, tell sincerely how much you care about her, and ask her out on a date. There is no right or wrong method. You can't try to be like the guys on movies or attempt to match some sort of standard. The answer lies within you--this is something you have to do for yourself. I really hope you two end up together. And I give you permission to use "dangwolloper-schnortle" if you ever have the opportunity.
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