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How do you meet decent honest guys aged 37-42?


Question Posted Tuesday September 20 2005, 5:33 am

Im a single woman (no kids - one dog) recently moved to the area, dont know anyone here. How do I go about meeting Mr Right? How can I actually meet someone who is Genuine, honest, kind, honerable, intelligent with a sense of humour?
Ive tried online dating sites but nothing has come of that. I dont like to go out on my own.

Ive been told that Im attractive, funny, kind, caring, intelligent but if anything that seems to put guys off.

Im not desperate to find a partner - infact Id rather be on my own than go out with someone just for the sake of it. Its just that it would be nice to settle down at some point in time.
Any advice would be helpful


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angelmcclain answered Wednesday September 21 2005, 12:31 pm:
do you go to church, or participate in any group activitys where eligable men with the same intersets you have are at. if not you might consider doing just that. i have always been told and have found it to be very true is just when you arnt looking for mr right is when he will come. some men are turned off by a self sufficent independent woman, and that is definatly not the man you need in your life, so when you are doing what you like to do and not appearing desperate or vonerable is when a man will take notice in you and may decide to approach you.

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Dumbblond1chick answered Tuesday September 20 2005, 6:50 pm:
Guys arnt just found on a site or in specific spot they are all over dont be so overally concerned on this issue but it would be smart to open yoru eyes a little bit and look at that cute guy in back of you at the grocery store, Take time to talk. You recently moving is actually perfect because you can easily start conversation by saying things like "Hi, i just recently moved here and i was wandering if you knew aplace near by that i could get something to eat" Look at his hand....is he married no ring then ask if he would like to join you say that your thankful for his help and would like to repay this favor by treating him to a meal.

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kate-lynXo answered Tuesday September 20 2005, 5:05 pm:
Hi im only 13 but my dad is single. He is 41. He is very handsome devoirced, and has three GREAT kids. My name is katelyn and i have two other brothers, he is going out with a girl right now but i dont think she will be around much longer because us kids dont like her at all. I love dogs, infact we might get a german shepard. Im sure you will find mr.right soon. and WELCOME to the town . Hope all goes well.

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xxmymatrixmanxx answered Tuesday September 20 2005, 10:27 am:
i think u need to make some friends- friends who first of all, know whats going on- and know some guys. second of all, can lead you to places where you can FIND guys. if that doesnt work, you may need to try some more dating programs...

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exton answered Tuesday September 20 2005, 10:03 am:
Be proactive. Just putting yourself out there isn't enough; they aren't just going to come to you.

As to where you can find this type of man...

Everywhere. But, as I said, the man you're looking for is probably not going to be the one who approaches you.

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karenR answered Tuesday September 20 2005, 7:22 am:
Some cities have a group that meets called Parents Without Partners, or something similar. My mom met a nice guy through them one time.

Another way might be taking an evening class in something that interests you. You would find someone with similar interests. Even if its only a new girlfriend to go out and meet guys with! :)

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