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ok...well i have this kinda thing for piercings, i have my ears pierced of course, my belly button, my nose...well i took that out and i did have my eyebrow! well i really really want my tongue pierced! my mom wont let me get well 1 because im too young and also my brother had his done and it really messed up his teeth but anywayz i was just wondering if you knew how i should do it or w/e alrighty thanx!!

umm , i really dont think it would be a good idea... yeahh it would be cool for you to have a tongue ring but would it be that cool if your teeth were all gross and twisted up?? Plus your mom was nice enuff to let you get all the other stuff, i guess you can keep on asking her but you definetly shouldnt go behind her back. Good luck sweetie, I know how it feels to want something badly. We all do hehe.

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i just found out i get my braces in 13 days any tips to help the process?

brush your teeth well every day, use white strips before you get braces, floss your teeth always, and most of all jam in all that gum and gummy foods before you are not allowed to . . . lol...gl

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Ive started at a new school last week on september 8(im a freshman)in my old school i was the type of girl who hung out with guys alot and guys were always talking to me but here they dont ive only talked to like 3 guys that are in my classes and we dont evan talk in the halls!all im asking is that ive only been there for 5 days eventually when things start to like flowing better(cuz were all a lil confused still)do guys start talking to people more?

yeahh some people are just shy. Or think of those girls from your old school who dint talk ta guys .. grr think how they felt all that time. But this question is about you. What I personally have to say is either one their terribly immature and you need to find some good guy friends outta school or you havent been talking to them enuff. By the way you tell the story i think its definetly that they're immature... :-/ stupppppid guys!

gl sweetie

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Is it ok to not want to kiss your boyfriend? I mean, I do want to but not just yet, we've been going out for a week is that ok?

definetly, you just wanna wait a little while. If its like a month into the relationship and you still dont want to, thats when you should second the thought of going out with him. But i totally get what you're saying, dont sweat it hun ;-)

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my brother has tryed to make friends at school. but thery are still so mean to him. i tried to cange his look, but that did not work. now we might be moving so he could go to a different shool. but i want to see if he could make some friends so we dont have to move.

well actually, if your really looking in his interest, moving might be good for him so he could have a chance to meet some new people who maybe werent soo mean. And people shouldn't be nice to him just because he has a new 'look' is your brother possibly not being nice?? Make sure he has a good attitude towards people, and tell him how you make friends, give him tips. Im sure someone will come along, give him a social makeover, you know what i mean??

gl

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I hate myself . And I can't stand it . I want myself dead . I used to cut myself , but I'm just an unloved rocker who just writes depressed,dark,killing,mental songs now for her rock band .
I just turned 14 and I started high school . I have only like a few new friends and all my old best friends . But , yet I still feel alone .
I hate myself . I think I'm ugly . All I want is a guy to like me and noone would ever . I guess people don't like me because I have crooked bones in my feet and I'm "gothic" because I dyed my hair black and bleached it blonde on top like the girl from my fave band The Start ( check out the pic I look exactly like the lead singer www.thisisthestart.com ) Anyways , someone help me . I sound depressed and I'm really , really , really depressed ...... so bad .... I cry to much .... nobody loves me ...... maybe suicide is sweet and swift better than here .......
Ally

suicide is definetly not sweet. Suicide is giving up. If you'd be more cheery and less depressed and down on yourself i think you could finda guy kinda like you.. you know gothic or whatever. Suicide is giving up and making yourself loose. If you live life out you'll find someone you love. if you give up your throwing away your chances.

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Recently, i found my dad constantly going to chatrooms and talking to random ppl like he likes them better than my mom. every day he would be doing this but once my mom got home, he would close out of them. i dont know what to do. my brother knows about it too, but i dont know if i should tell my mom. please help....:(

wow thats just wrong, tell your mom immediatly, he's being really childish and gross.

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Im in the army, been with my girlfriend 5 years. Im leaving again for iraq for the 2nd, should i ask her to marry me before i ago, just incase i dont come back. i love her with all my heart, i would give my life for her. but do you guys ever have the feeling how do you know if they are the one. its just so mind boggling to me. and advice would help.
thanks
josh

i would say definetly. God bless you for going out there, and atleast if anything (god forbid)ever happened, she would know just how true you are to her. Best of luck -- thanks for fighting for us.

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Theres this girl in my class. I really like her, but shes usually not the type i would go after. Shes really hyper all the time and always going after the "bad boys". She hangs around me a lot before class, and even has a pet name for me. She keeps asking me when am i going to take her out to go driving. Is she just being nice or does she really like me? I'm not the bad boy type, thats why this is puzzling me.

well i really don't know her so i cant give a solid yes or no. What I can tell you is that girls will be very suprising, and just because they normally goes after "bad boys" doesn't make a rule in her book that she cant go out with any other type of guy. Don't be doubtful. If she has a pet name for you sure there's a good chance in my mind she has a little crush on you. Why dont you ask her one day (if you dont think its too obvious) if she would ever go out with anyone besides a bad boy. From there, you can figure it out between you two, i think you guys have a reallly realllly good chance together.

good luck hun--

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I'm thinking of selling my old computer. It's a 486 with 4 megabytes of RAM running windows 3.11. How much should I be asking for it?

well first i'd say go on ebay and compare prices. If you can't find any, i would say a couple hundred bucks. Depends on its condition-- best of luck tho

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ok so today i was talking to the kid i like and it was great! we really connected. but i dont think he likes me. how can i approach him and sound like im his friend but not sound like i like him?

I'd say just be yourself and dont rub off too strong or clingy. Most people can't even figure out if someone likes them unless they're extremely flirty. Plus it wouldn't be the worst thing in the world if he thought you liked him. Be yourself, you can do it :-)

good luck hunni!!

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One of my good friends is dating this guy, Erik, that I liked for 2 years, but she never new it. And so they been dating for 7 months, and Ive been a bit down latly. He just recently broken up with her, And he said he did it cause he wanted to go out with me cause he heard I liked him. But I don't wanna hurt my friend, beacause she's really down, and crying and all. I feel really bad, but on the other hand I really wanna go out with him. What should I do?

~Amberlynn

be there for your friend at the time being, wait things out. When shes over things and healed and met other guys ask her how she would feel if you went out with this guy, and see what she says. From there its more of a thing that you have to decide because you know your best friend and how she reacts... good luck darlin!

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ok...well tomorrow is picture day, and i have this zit!! YIKES!! so...how can i make it go away by tomorrow?

theres nothing you can totally do to make it vanish and poof away, but i suggest scrubbing a bar of soap into it really hard for 10 minutes. Then, just let it sit and absorb into your pours for a couple of minutes so that it really sinks in. From there.. just let the soap do the magic ;-)

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I have a 2 yr old male beagle, and i want to get a new girl puppy teacup maltese. how can i keep riley not depressed when i get him a friend. hes really sweet and loving of other animals but im scared he will turn mean and depressed. can anyone help me?

treat them equally, he wont be depressed if you give the other dog the same amount of treats he gets, he really wont. Play with them together. Beagles are so cute :-D so are malteses hehe. Just be sweet and kind to both he will appreciate a new friend


gl sweetie

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i like this guy and him and his girlfriend just broke up today.. if i ask him out, is taht bad? because me and his ex are like friends but not really

nope not bad at all. its cool for girls to ask guys out , totally. If you and his ex are 'friends but not really' she obviously cant be too important in which case dont worry about it. good luckk hun xoxo

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This is kinda a weird question. Im in 8th grade. I have good friends everything I'd want. But something feels really wrong like this isn't my life. Im not the kinda person that just stays in one spot. I want to travel the world and meet new people. But I can't. Right now Im saving up money to go on a mission trip but I know I wont ever have enough in time to go. I've never been on one and I really wana go. Will someone please help me!

well common motivate yourself and offer your parents all the chores in the world and see what you can make. Advertise to do odd jobs !! Really anything, make yourself go, or ask your parents if you can pay them back later. Tell them how you feel. About your friends, why dont you travel with one of them? You can show them what its like to step out of their world, not to be so confined all the time .. ask your mom and dad if you guys could travel more.. make yourself some effort, wen you see new kids in the hall make that effort to talk to them !! Talk to people you never would've before, tell them that you arent afraid to step outta the box..

gl sweets

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Well the other day one of my very close friends told me that she was a lezbo i mean lyk i totally support that n all but i feel wierd what should i do?

tell her you feel 'wierd' .. and just say that'll take some time to adjust. just to add lesbian is unnatural and you have the right to feel alarmed

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Hey i need some help.. i think im prude..like scared to kiss a boy like i feel embarresed like i dont do it right or something i mean i have pecked boys but never freched or madeout and alot of ppl call me prude and idk wut to do cuz even my bf calls me prude and i like him alot nd wanna kiss him but i jus cant :-/

X.oX.o --> aShLeY

you need to ask friends who have kissed people before how they do it, and they'll have good advice. If your boyfriend goes to give you a 'peck' lean in for more sweetie. He's your boyfriend.. aka NO reason to be shy.. go for it hun! xoxo

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I'm 20/f
I met this guy on an online dating site, we didnt want to date or anything, since we both were seeing people. Well, we talked on the phone and online soo much he started to care for me a lot..And his girlfriend could see I was getting in the way. I didnt want to steal him he was just a great friend. But since the guy started liking me so much he even said that he shouldent talk to me a lot because he'll start loving me. But, he did talk to me for a while until his girlfriend said he cant talk to me at all! He thinks its unfair, and it is!!! But he loves his girlfriend and they wanna get married. This guy is so awesome, and I havent talked to him since May. i have tried emailing him and he reads them but cant reply..or his girlfriend erases them! also, I forgot his number so I cant call him..I tried IMing him a lot..he doesnt im me back. i know its not because he hates me or anything I know its his girlfriend.. should i give up..i mean i like this guy so much..but is it worth it trying so hard? what should i do!!! i rate

i would say yes, give up. It would be interfereing with his soon to be marriage and theres nothing you can do unforutnately. Plus online dating is really lame, and so many people get into deep crap for it. If he ever wants you bad enuff he'll email you, i promise.

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I just got my room re-done in a rustic type style. I live in a log house so half my room is wood and the other half is sheet rock that is a dark orange/yellow color. My bedding is light brown corduroy and the other side is beige with orange the color of my walls, and burnt red stripes, what kinda accesories should i do to just set the them for my rustic room?

XxTBSgirlxX

hm may i suggest french cafe? Get pictures of things liek the eiffel tower, and get some mugs to put into your room on a little table. Get things with beads and hang them around the top of your room, be creative hunn..

gl hope u get rele good answers

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