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my brother has tryed to make friends at school. but thery are still so mean to him. i tried to cange his look, but that did not work. now we might be moving so he could go to a different shool. but i want to see if he could make some friends so we dont have to move.
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Moving might be better for him..There has to be someone your brother could make friends with..maybe you could talk to some of the kids in his school and ask whats wrong with him! And talk to your brother about sticking up for himself..telling the people who are being mean to him to back off..have a talk with him about what his day is like..and who bullys him or w.e maybe you need to have a talk with the kids that are mean to him..hope i helped..and hope everything works out..rate me =)
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Honestly, I had a hard time in school, too, sometimes. I hate to promote violence, but the only way to get bullies to leave you alone is to let them know you aren't going to take it! Although laws are now making schools responsible for the safety and well-being of students, the fact is that most counselors and teachers are apathetic to children being bullied. I remember this well! What worked for me wa letting them know I was done with it. I finally popped one right in the mouth, knocked her down, kicked her in the stomach, and asked the other girls which one of you little c***s is next?! I never had another problem.
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well actually, if your really looking in his interest, moving might be good for him so he could have a chance to meet some new people who maybe werent soo mean. And people shouldn't be nice to him just because he has a new 'look' is your brother possibly not being nice?? Make sure he has a good attitude towards people, and tell him how you make friends, give him tips. Im sure someone will come along, give him a social makeover, you know what i mean??
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maybe moving is the best solution cause he can start from the beginning and ppl wont know him and maybe they will like him cause no one else knows him.thats wut i think but if he cant make any friends it might be because of something.i hope i make sence and i wish ur brother the best...
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Whether your brother makes friends or not is really not something you can control, ESPECIALLY not by "changing" him. Encourage him to get out, do some clubs at school, whatever. But that's all you can do.
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Where's the question burried in all this? o.o
Well, if he can't make friends for who he is, there must be some awefully mean people in his school.
~Laura~
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