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I have mine on the left :)

Most piercers choose the left side if you are right handed so you don't push phones and so on against it.
Also it's easier to change rings if it's on your left side and your right handed.

:)

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well ive liked this guy aly for like 2 years but hes my really good friend and i didnt have the guts to tell him. Hes sweet and funny and treats me really good, and i feel likke our fiendship is really important, but i want more than that with a guy.Well recently this guy, nik, has been texting me and iming me and myspacing me and last night he texted me and when he had to go he said "well i gtg, pce babe

I think that you should wait a bit, until you make a decision. It seems to me that you want to be with Nik a bit more than Aly because Nik makes you feel amazing, which is hard.
But then Aly you've known him for longer, and you trust him more.

See what happens and then you can be sure :)

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What is the best site to download movies for FREE so you can put them onto your iPod?

thanks

probably in wrong category.. SORRY

I would suggest Google Videos, or limewire.
If you go on google, search google videos. Type in something, and if you search something, and you get full movie or whatever, then check if it has a Google G on it and download :)

Easy as that

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okaaaayy, so this is called "Sou a Barbie Girl." By Kelly Key.
Its like Aqua's barbie girl song, but in Portuguese.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IOJpm4SQJU4&eurl=http://widget.slide.com/widgets/sf.swf

Where can I download it onto my computer? I'll buy it if I have to...for up to threeeee dollarss

iTunes is 99 cents :P
Well iTunes music store.

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hey! could everyone reply with their favorite song? i would love to get some new music of any kind! thanks!!

some music i really like is- guster, t-pain, basshunter, mcfly

and i prefer male singers over female

=) thanks so much 15/f

Move it by Dope
(s)AINT by marilyn manson
Come What(ever) May by stone sour
Bitch by Pain
Obsession by soil
Tongues by Deathstars.

These are my top songs...AND THEY ARE KICKASS :D

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Is there any way I can get on blocked websites at school? There's something called proxy? But I really do not understand what that is..

www.ninjaproxy.com
or
www.proxy.org

These should work. Just enter the website address into the field and you'll get to the site, unless the school has blocked proxy sites.
:)

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some songs like.
seven years.
tears don't fall.
and some other songs sound better in acoustic.
what are some other ones?

vermillion pt.2 by slipknot.

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im thinking about getting my tongue pierced but i dont want my parents to find out so i need a tongue colored pink so it doesnt stand out. does anyone know where i can find a tongue ring, i prefer a plastic ont or something thats not metal cuz im alergic to certain metals but i dont know which , can anyone help?

Well you will need to know what metals you're allergic to as the bar of the tongue jewellry is metal (usually stainless steel) and the ends will be plastic. If the whole thing was plastic, it'd snap/break really easily.
I must warn you- your tongue will probably swell quite a lot, and you wont be able to eat properly, so your parents might notice. Also, I don't know what age you are, nor where you live, but a respected piercing studio will need a parent with you if you're under 18.

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k so i have a tight group of 4 friends including me, and me and one of my friends keep having private conversations because we trust each other...the others get really mad when we have a convo and are like at least include us in it and its really really frustrating because some of the things i cant trust them with...are they over exaggerating or just jealous? because i think that me and my other friend deserve to keep some secrets...
Thanks:)

I understand what you mean, but I don't think it's very nice how you go off with a really close friend whilst with the others. Wait when you're just with the one person you want to talk to, and when with the other two, just talk to them and see if you can trust them as much.

Hope this helped :)

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okay for an english assignment we need to find a poem or song lyric that is like advice for willy. its basically advice that says he need to like sort out his life and figure things out and basically calm down and all that. If you've read the play you'll so know what i'm talking about. Basically i need a song lyric or poem for WIlly. Im not taking the easy way out, i seriously cannot find ANYTHING. i've googled, i've search lyric sites for lyrics and nothing is working. does anyhting come to anyones mind? please help

I think these will be good.
Stone sour has very good lyrics.
Check them out :)

http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/stonesour/socio.html

http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/stonesour/madeofscars.html

http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/stonesour/hellconsequences.html

Hope this helped :)

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Im a 13 year old girl and idk what else to put on it.. I already asked for movies, guitar hero 2 (or 3), an ipod, a cell phone, chocolate, a Michael Kors bag, a prepaid credit card, and yeah thats it. but are there other cool things out that i could add to the list? im aiming for 10 things on my list and so far I have 8. all suggestions are welcome. but well we're not the most richest family on the block so keep price in mind. and im like.. well for my tastes, im pretty much everything. im girly, a tomboy, sporty, preppy, artistic, and i like learning new things. um for some more ideas of what ideas you can come up with, i like crazy or like funny sentimental gifts.. uh stuff like that i guess. they dont need to have a purpose if they're just cute or whatever is what i mean tho i generally like things i can use. thanks for the help and happy hanukah + other holidays coming up.

No offence, but you are asking for A LOT of EXPENSIVE stuff.
Pre-paid credit card
Phone
iPod
Guitar hero
Perfume
Bag

Like all of those add up to so much money.
Do you actually need anything else?
I mean if you're here to ask for advice, then I think you have run out of ideas of what you KNOW that you want :)

I'd suggest Cd's and some clothes.

And since you said you're not the richest family then I think that'd be expensive enough...

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hey!
ok, i know this is kind of a weird question..
but i got my period for the first time (13f) yesterday. I wore a pad. Today after school i thought i would try putting in a tampon..
My mom gave my some that are regular sized..I dunno if that will help any though..
anyways i thought i would try to put it in. I have never masterbated or anything so the feeling was all new to me.. and i couldnt even get it in more than like 3 cm without it hurting.. or feeling very weird..

any tips/ ideas on how to insert it without it hurting??
thanks

Try google and also read the instructions that come with the tampons.
It's quite hard to explain, but make sure you a relaxed.

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I just got a new cell and I bluetoothed all my ringtones, except for one, and I bought this one on my cell, from the AT&T mall, and the others I got on the internet.

Well, I can't send it to my phone cause it's 'Copyright Protected'

Is there a way I can still send it or not?

Sorry but you wont be able to send it.
Any tricks you may try-you won't be able to.
Sorry :\

(Mucho annoying when that happens. It's happened to me as well)

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what are some good bands that are kinda uncommon. I know alot of bands so any ones that are known to lots of people ill probably already know and i need some new music. i like rock and stuff like that
thanks :)

Wednesday 13
Pain
Vains of Jenna
Scum of the earth
Amorphis.

:)

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I might (MIGHT) be going to Boston for school next year, and wanted to know a bit about the city, preferably from someone who lives there (or very close by):

- BC or BU (generally)? Which school has stronger programs...

- I have heard that a lot of people there can be stuck up or just rude, overall...why do outsiders get this impression?

-How's the nightlife there? Is it a sleepy city, or more like NY, where clubs go on all night?
And which neighborhoods are the most fun?

- One thing I do know is that the weather there is very, very cold (no, freezing). I'm from California, so it'll be a big change for me- that is, if I end up going. Any tips? Other than just take a winter coat- I know that there must me more to it.

Any other quirks about being a Bostonian would be great. I'm just curious...thanks!

Well, I could only answer the last question. Sorry I can't answer the others.

Well, You should buy long sleeved shirts with also jumpers and sweaters, and padded jackets.Also I recommend wearing many layers if you do find it very cold at the beginning. Like a t-shirt..long sleeved top and then jumper or fleece.
I suggest wearing tights under jeans or whatever, gloves, scarves hats would be good too.
For shoes..almost anything if you wear warm socks.
You gradually get used to the weather, and you'll know what kind of clothes you will need.
Hope this helped a bit.

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Well I wanna hear from people their opinions on teen series' that I haven't read, I've read most of the popular ones but I want some more.

I've read:
Gossip Girl
The It Girl
The A-List
The Clique
The Insiders
Inside Girl
Private
Pretty Little Liars

so can anyone reccomend some more for me?

Mates, dates and ________
series are quite good.
Confessions of Georgia Nicholson are really good.
I guess the shopaholic books..but they aren't teen books..but brilliant. I love them.

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Where can I get free movies and tv shows to dowload for my ipod??

Mostly lime wire
or
Google video.
http://video.google.com/
Search for the video you want, and then the image has to have a Google ''G'' on it. If it has a youtube sign, then that means that it's just a link to youtube.

hope this helped

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our scalp stopped making hair oil? like you know when it gets greasy and stuff.. what's the point of that?

Well if our scalp didn't make any oil, then our hair would be REALLY REALLY dry, fall out easily and die..like start breaking and so on.
Is this what you asked?

Hope this helped.

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Okay, so I am making a mixed CD with some different music on it and I need help thinking of songs. For this CD, I wanted to do like ska, ska-punk, indie, indie-rock, indie-pop, and maybe some Swedish too. I don't know if it helps any but here are some bands I already listen to (and if you could recommend some new similar ones that would be great!):
The Hush Sound, Suburban Kids with Biblical Names, and Pain...

Well I personally am obsessed with pain :)
I suggest the songs-
Bitch
Zombie slam
Clouds of ecstasy
Nailed to the ground

They are really good songs :)

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is there any ways to download music thats free, not through bareshare or limewire?

because limewire wont work on my computer, and bearshare downloads the wrong format for my ipod.

it would be reaaaaally appriciated.

www.mp3shits.com
www.mp3000.net

they're pretty good :)

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