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aly or nik?


Question Posted Sunday December 23 2007, 12:42 am

well ive liked this guy aly for like 2 years but hes my really good friend and i didnt have the guts to tell him. Hes sweet and funny and treats me really good, and i feel likke our fiendship is really important, but i want more than that with a guy.Well recently this guy, nik, has been texting me and iming me and myspacing me and last night he texted me and when he had to go he said "well i gtg, pce babe <33" so i replied "bye <33" and well i love his touch, and whenever he hugs me i dont want him to let go. Well the problem is that i like them both so much and i dont know who i wanna be with. So should i go with the sweet good friend? or the guy who makes me feel amazing?

Also, they are both really experienced, and i have never done anything but been kissed, and one guy felt me up, but thats it. Like they have fingered people, and hoooked up with people.

Thanks <333 xoxo


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mp95 answered Sunday December 23 2007, 4:14 pm:
if sounds to me like you think of aly as a friend and nik as a boyfriend. my advice to anyone is to pick the guy who makes you feel amazing. never settle for less. and as you said, aly is an important part of your life. but not going out with him wouldn't make him any less important. you can have a boyfriend, and a friend. good luck!

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Brandi_S answered Sunday December 23 2007, 1:24 pm:
I can't tell you who to date.
I will tell you that you need to consider what can happen to your friendship if you date that guy then end up breaking up. Will the friendship be able to stand to such a hard blow?
Also, their experiences verses yours have nothing to do with it.

ygs-29/f

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Disconnected answered Sunday December 23 2007, 12:29 pm:
I think that you should wait a bit, until you make a decision. It seems to me that you want to be with Nik a bit more than Aly because Nik makes you feel amazing, which is hard.
But then Aly you've known him for longer, and you trust him more.

See what happens and then you can be sure :)

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